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I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i?

honestly hun, he sounds like a MAJOR HARDCORE player!! ive been with alot of guys liek that and you DONT wanna be with them. i mean these use you until they find something they like to use better then they leave you! its NOT fun. they have no emotions. They think they can use you and when their done youll get over it, but it doesnt work like that. Whatever you do decide to do...please be careful. i wouldnt want to come back on here and see a message posted by you saying something bad happend...k? :) good luck hun.

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Me & my ex broke up a little over a year ago. I finally got the courage to call & tell him i was still in love w/ him.He just kept on talking though. We talked till 3 A.M. like we used to. We talked for 3 days after and some how i ended up telling him how much he hurt me but i loved him so much it didn't matter. He told me he was real sry he never ment it, it was the biggest mistake ever, & if he could take it back he would. He also told me that his recent ex broke his heart and how hurt he was but that he doesn't love her n/e more. Since that night we've only talked twice, but he seemed fine. What the hell am i suppose to think?!?!

THANKS
-twiSted

Well hun, He could be rebounding...thats the bad part...but the good part is...he could still love you and want to make it work. Maybe if you asked him to hangout and do something casual, nothing date like...just some fun stuff...maybe just maybe the sparks will fly n youll have your dream guy. :) good luck hun!

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Okay, I have this girlfriend right, and I love her to death, and I'm just wondering how to go about keeping her intrested. Her names Deanna *winks* and shes the most beautiful girl in the world, so how do I keep her in love with me?

Well, I'm Guessing that this girl is really important to you. And another guess would be that she feels very strongly for you too. So i think you should just be yourself, and keep doing the things your doing. :) If she's not happy...she'll tell you. :)

i love you babe. :)

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there are these 3 guys. 1 i like and sorta likes me, 1 that likes me that i just think of as a friend, and 1 that likes me ane i like him. i'm confused on what to do because i feel stupid waiting around for guy number one when i know nothing will ever happen and i really like the third guy. what should i do wait around for guy number one who is really shy and wont make any moves or go for the third guy who will make the moves and is a little more confident and i know likes me?

well...first things first...there are def. 2 guys that like you...and a possible, right. well this means w/e you choose, 2 might be hurt. you need to choose the one thats best for you. if you really like guy # 1...but the only problem is, is the too shy thing, then you make the first move, then maybe he'll be more comfortable around you and willing to make his own moves :) # 2, let him down easy...let him know, that although you dont like him in that way, you two will always be buds.and for # 3...since its a sure thing that he likes you , and you like him...test it out...go out on a date and see what happens...just make sure you do it for you, and no-one else hun. :)
hope i helped.

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