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i'm a simple girl from a small texas town. i love anything country and am very attatched to my texas roots. i love almost every genre of music. rap would have to be my least favorite. i'm a fun loving girl and i have no problem with partying and getting a little wasty. i've had my share of problems so i think i can relate easily with people. i used to be a cheerleader, and i cannot wait to try out again next year for VARSITY ♥. i love to travel and constantly crave the beach. i love competetive swimming. i love baking and cooking. it's pretty much my passion. i love love love christmas. i have never been in a relationship, pretty much because i'm just one of the guys. i'm pretty much a tomboy even though i love shopping, pedicures, gossip, good looking guys, and all things pink. i love my life, and live with no regrets.

advice

how do you say yes ?
and like
how does someone ask will you go out with me ?
wanna be my gf?
or what !?
helpppp

if you are getting asked, i would naturally say yes of course, or i'd love to. and if i had to ask someone out then i would just flat out say i've liked you for a while blah blah would you like to go out with me?

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How do you get over a heartache? My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me today. He was my very first boyfriend, and I fell in love. But he told me he has been seeing a girl for about a week or two now, just hanging out with her behind my back. And he thinks they could go further and he feels more connected to her and has liked her for years and he doesn't want to see me anymore and has pretty much took himself out of my life completely. I'm devastated and I just need some help.

first off, i'm really sorry for what happened. that was pretty low of him. you can't just completely get rid of a heartache too soon. you have to do it step by step. get involved with other people and organizations and don't see him for a while. because if you come into contact with him (especially when he's with that girl) it may make you want him even more. just try to forget about him for a while and do some hanging out with the girls, or maybe even some new guys! good luck!

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my boyfriend just recently broke up with me and i dotn knwo what to do its so hard i want to text him and tell him how i feel but i dont know what to say i dont want to get back with him or anything i just want him to know what he did was wrong what do i say?

i think you should have some space for a day or two. that way he won't think that you want him back or anything. then later give him a text and just say exactly what's on your mind. it's always good to let your feelings out. maybe y'all can still be friends.

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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?>

i think you should break up with him. yes you may want to stay with him but he obviously doesn't want to stay committed to you. you could probably find someone so much better who won't cheat on you, especially with one of your good friends. letting go is hard, but you'll find someone better and it'll all be worth it.

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I feel terrible when I pray because I'm defninitely using God. Like I don't praise him at all, I only turn to him when I need help, and he always DOES help me. Which kinda makes me feel worse. How do I get into the habit of turning to him when I'm actually doing good and "dont need him" (of course I always do, but you get the picture!) ?

i don't think you are using God, but I understand. Sometimes I feel selfish, like I'm asking him for so many things and then I don't give him any credit. Sometimes you just need to sit down and pray, and thank him for all the good things he's given you instead of asking for more. But God is there to help and guide you, he just needs a little thanking too.

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I know, I have a lot of different guy problems as you can tell by my other posts. But here's a new on for you: I've been friends with this guy for years and liked him on and off for a while. On the last day of school one of his friends came up to me and asked me "If he asks you out next year, would you say yes?" Then I said "yeah, probably. why?" Then he said "I just kinda had a hunch that he would because you guys talk a lot and are really good friends" I'm pretty sure my friend likes me but some of my other friends didn't think so. What do you think?

i think he might. he might of asked that guy to see if you would go out with him so he would feel confident asking you himself later.

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