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Okay so I'm 14 and I have a really hard time flirting wiht 17 year olds. Any advice? (link)
You have a hard time because you have nothing in common girl!Flirt with guys your own age.


So my boyfriend broke up with me, and I know it was for another girl, but I'm not supposed to know. And he broke up with me so suddenly without giving me any explanation. I am so hurt. So yesterday I worked up the courage to call him and ask him why he broke up with me. I made it clear that I deserved to know why. And I said stuff like please tell me because nothing could hurt me more than how I feel right now. But he refused to tell me. So he told my friend that he was mad at me for calling. I think that he has no right ot be mad, I think that if anyone should be mad it should be me. I just don't understand. (link)
Don't fret girl there are plenty of fish in the sea.He broke up with you because he got bored with you.See to him you are like a toy when he is tired of playing with you he throws you away.He saw something new that he liked and he went for it.See men change there minds about things everyday.Don't worry if you are a good woman like you say you are good things will come your way.And of course he is not going to tell you because to be real with you it was another girl.He has no right to be mad you should.Forget him move on and find someone you deserve girl!


i havnt had my first kiss yet and i want it to be speacial. i dont know where or when or who it will be with but does anyone have an idea on what would make it speacial??? (link)
If it with the one who makes your heart pound,and makes you feel those butterflies in your stomach.When you find your match you will know.


i have recently gotten mono and i have been dating my boyfriend for quite a while. the most common way to attain mono is through kissing. he is the only person i have kissed for over a year. should i be worried that he has been messing around on me?

when i ask him he swears that nothing is going on.

not only that, but i have just had my doubts lately. i really love him and i dont want to be a controlling crazy girlfriend but i dont want to be strung along like an idiot either. what do you recommend i do?

and if you have ever had mono, how long did it take until you felt better? (link)
I've never had mono but I know someone who does and it took them awhile to feel better.If he gave you mono ask yourself what else did he give you?What you need to do is get yourself checked out for stds? You still can get certain things from kissing someone.Come on now that if you ask a guy is he messing around he will say no of course that is what they do when they are tryihng to hide something from you!If you love him you will have to trust him if not let him go there are plenty of other men out there.I know one thing if someone gave me mono I definately would worry and that is a hint girl that he is messing around.Be carefull girl because there are others things out there two that you can get from kissing that are worse then that.Watch yourself girl!


So I need help I like this guy name well lets just call him G boy and well I really good friends with one of his best friends named lets call him B Boy. Well B boy likes me but I dont like him and he is always getting mad when I tell him I like one of his friends...but he's not the problem. I use to like this guy lets call him j boy last year and he is also best friends with B and G boy and now this year he comes out that he likes me and well b boy was at j boys house this weekend and B boy called me and we were talking like friends then he asked J boy if he still like me and he was all like yeah and now b boy is tring to get me J boy but I like G boy who says that he likes me too but now b boy keeps calling and bothering me saying that he loves me... I'm tired of all this bull...some one help me (link)
Girl you need to figure out who you like and get rid of those who you don't like by letting them know who you are interested in and who you are not interested in that is how you solve that problem. And if you do this and nobody ends up liking you then don't sweat it girl there are more fish in the sea and that means it wasn't meant to be.


So there's this guy.. I call him my best friend. We're kinda dating but not, because he's going away to basic training in a few weeks. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend while he was away because he didn't want to worry about what they were doing, hence us not being together. Anyways, it hasn't hit me about him leaving yet, but I know it will soon. I was just wondering what are some things I could do to keep myself busy and not think about him so much while he's gone? I don't have too many friends to really hang out with & keep me busy, but I definately don't want to be stuck at home all depressed. Thanks! (link)
Girl go out and have some fun. Forget about him obviously if he really loved you he would wanted a relationship with you but it turns out he is not.Don't let a man get you down girl go out and make some friends and find a new man some who will love and cherish you. Maybe he wasn't right for you. My saying is "Everything happens for a reason". "When one door shuts another one opens". When you go out and make new friends and find a new man then when he comes home he will see you having fun and not thinking about you then he will try to get you back but then it will be to late. Because when that happens you would have already moved on with your life.




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