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Heeey! This is Rachael. I'm from Illinois, I'm 17, and I'm Polish. I'm here to help you as much as I can. My advice isn't always what you wanna hear but hey what do you expect? I have a hard life, its not simple at all. I have had experience with almost everything. I've had a rough life.love - i fall in love too fast. i've dated over 98743215967878 guyssss ... like seriously. no that doesn't make me a slut, it just means i'm not judgemental. i fell in love and i was this close to getting married. till he slept with my best friend ...
sex - im not a virgin, but i'm not a whore.
drugs & alcohol - i have had a tough life like i said. i'm currently not on any drugs, i have had problems with cocaine & ecstasy. i was addicted like fuck. i smoked weed from 13-15. i also drank non-stop. i'd get wasted during the weekend and not go to school for 2-3 weeks. i'd cut class all the time, get in so much trouble. like one time i brought vodka to school in a water bottle and wow, that was a bad experience. my parents would beat the hell out of me ... i wouldn't come home for days ...
piercings & tatoos - i only have one tatoo. my folks still don't know about it. its on my lower back of an angel. i have 19 piercings. 8 in my left ear, 6 in my right. I have my tongue pierced, and i just recently got the web under my tongue pierced. *1-21-05* hurts like a bitch but i love it. and I HAD my nose, but i got rid of that. And the rest of the piercings are somewhere I don't want to mention.
life - i live with my cousin, 3 houses away from my home. i couldn't stand living at home so i just figured i'd move out. my parents hate me. i am the oldest and it sucks, thats maybe why i'm so odd. I have a best friend, Brooke, she's been with me thru the good times and bad. I love my family, but my parents just can't deal with all the shit I pull. Neither can I. I'm such a screw-up and I can't change all that. I don't know what I plan on doing with the rest of my life. I tried committing suicide before, thats how bad it gets sometrimesn. I overdosed on ecstasy, stupid I know. Its not worth it I realized. Now I'm just tyring to get better and I don't give a fuck anymore what everyone says. Its my life.
i can pretty much help you with everythings. i'm only 17, but i've experienced loads of shit.
i'm not afraid to be me. i'll say what i want. i do what i want. live with it.
i've been down a horrible road in life. screwed up major. i just hope no one has to go through all that i did.
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Did anyone marry someone their high school love?!
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Yep, lots of people do! If you really are INLOVE then probably yeah =)
okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate
hey hun - omgsh don't worry! i know people that are like 18 and single! i'm sure you're not ugly and i bet you can get a guy and you don't even know it. my sister can help you with this, she's in your situation too. (her username is xglam0urx) just talk to more guys and flirt. don't pay attention to your friends, they're sluts, hahaha. guys re just as shy as girls! sometimes in some sitautions even more. time will change everything. don't worry about i, you're only 14, you got the rest of your life. hope i helped, please rate me and view my column. thanks babe!
ok i'm 17/f (almost 18) and i tend to fall for younger guys. the past 3 guys that i've liked (i went out with one) have been 15 and young 16. i'm a senior and they're all sophomores (one should be a junior). to make it better, my brother is a sophomore as well, and is older than one of them (the one i went out with). my friend says that going out with sophomores would make me look like i'm easy (which i'm definitely not...i'm waiting until marriage). is there any way that i could get myself to stop liking younger guys or is there nothing wrong with it? thanks so much :)
nope! absolutely nothing wrong with it. most married couples are from 2 to even 32 years or more apart, if it feels right and you're happy then its all good. i've been in your situation before. if you need more help drop one in my inbox. well hope i helped, please view my column!
ok so theres this guy at my skool and he ALWAYS flirted with me...so obvious well we went to this camp for the program were in...we went on feb. 14- today.....we jsut got home...well he has a gf of 10months!! and shes really ugly notto b mean..but we rode together on the bus n fell asleep and then at camp at night it was really cold and he had his arm around me and then he started holdng my hand and everyone thought we wer going out...well on the bus ride back (its a 3 hr ride) we had this blanket over us and he was holding my hand and cuddling with me and he gav me a kiss on the lips....and then he was like "you kno we cant do this at skool everyting has to go back to normal" iw as like i know...but i wanted to cry..i like him so much and its obvious he does like me....and hes not the player type and that was the first time hes cheated on his gf...and then we got off the bus and he gav me a hug and everyone was waiting for their parents....and he started ignoring me...and then he told his friend which is also my friend...he was like "god this whole weekend sara just wanted to hook up w/me....and i didnt even want to i said no",...THATS BULLSHIT! he was the one who started holding my hand and kissing my cheek and stuff! im so crushed....i dont know what to do...hes in my english class and thats it....should i ignore him or if he trys to talk to me should i be like i heard what you said...or something...what do i do?? :(
what an asshole. ignore him and if he bugs you or asks whats wrong tell him. you don't need to put up with that shit. tell me how it goes and please view my column and rate!
hey omg your so pretty!! and i was wondering if you know any ideas for a cute sn.. im blonde, i like words like sexy cute etc.. and i want to be in playboy someday but i want a sn thats not like everyone has.. i was wondering if you could help me think of any?
aw thanks! hm, i'm not really good with this but here goes. i'll try
future playboi x
xo playy boy
cute sexie bunni
sexe play m8
sex e blondie xox
future play m8
x bl0nd playgirl
... im sorry, i don't know if you'll like them. i tried, hehe. if you need more help, drop one in my inbox. i think the limist is like 16 letters? the spaces don't count and you can just format it and add the spaces later on. well hope I helped! later babe! good luck! :)
i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything!
tell him how you feel. trust me, it'll all be good. just do it before its too late, you'll regret it later. just tell him exactly how you feel. =) hope i helped please rate, I"M NEW!
they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?
you will find it and you'll know it when you do. its a feeling unexplainable! =) -please rate, I"M NEW!
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that?
i think he means he wants to experience more or be more free and do what he wants without having to be wih someone all the time. i don't get it, he's weird, lol. =) hope i helped, view my column 7 please rate, I"M NEW!
*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*
okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!
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aw you could totally tell he likes you. go for it,let him know everything. good luck with everything.
There is this guy.. lets call him K.. well me and K have known each other and been friends for ever because my mom and his mom were friends since elementary school.. well me and K are like brother and sister but the thing is i really really like him but i dont kno how to show it.This year we have gotten closer than ever. i can tell him anything. any ways hes comming over to my house later and the thing is every time we hang out we go with all these other guys because im not a prep or anything im known as "one of the guys" how do i let him kno that i like him with out every one else finding out
aw, thats so cute. just sit him down and tell him. be really honest, im sure he feels the smae. =) good luck!