A little bit of advice:
Find someone who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the person who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says,"...That's her."
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Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!) (link)
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I think you should talk to him about this, i mean, he is your boyfriend and you should be able to talk to him about this. If something is bothering you, let him know. If he doesnt change, maybe you should go back to being 'just friends'.
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Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..
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I dont think that you should limit yourself to dating only americans. You could really be missing out on something great. Some guy could be from a different country, and be your soul mate, and you could just pass on him, and miss out on the great love of your life. Remember that something else will always come along, but its not always better. I think you should get to know these two guys better, and hang out with them a little. That way, you can figure out if you like either of them as more than a friend. Hope i helped!
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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I think you are going to have to talk to this guy if you want to go out with him. You should also drop hints that you like him too. Try talking to him online. All guys are different and not all act the same way when they like someone. I dont know if you like this guy or not as more than just a friend, but if you dont, you shouldnt feel pressured to date him just because he might like you. Remember, you're only 13, you've still got plenty of time. lol
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Well theres this boy that i like. But he has a girl and i have a man. I only see this boy in the summer when i go to Dominican Republic (im here now). The past 2 summers i have told him that i have a man but i didnt......but taht never stopped him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. What i want to do is tease him and play hard to get. I want him to want me more. What can i do. Plz help! (link)
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Dont kiss him as much. Itll make him want to kiss you more cuz hes not kissing you as often.
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Hey! Well there is this boy I really like and he is like perfect in every way and I really want to go out with him. Well, there is one problem....he is going out with my best friend. They keep ALMOST breaking up and then they don't. I really can't wait for them to break up(i kno that sounds really mean). Well even if they do break up I can't go out with him right away or my friend willl be hurt....so what do I do? I really want him.. (link)
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I think you should ask your friend how she would feel if one of her friends started going out with her boyfriend. If she says she really wouldnt like it, you have to ask yourself who is more important, this guy....or your best friend.
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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
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If you and your boyfriend now, get along well, and are good friends, theres no reason why you cant break up and still be friends afterwards. Just tell him that you dont think its working out and that you two are better as friends. It might turn out that hes been thinking the same thing as you.
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