Hey everyone,
my name is Devan, I'm 19 years old and a sophmore at Arizona State University. Go Devils!! I moved here from Kingston Springs, TN (20 min. out of Nashville). If any of my friends have a problem of any sort whether girl/guy problems, school issues, social issues or anything of the sort, I'm always the one that they come to. I think the reason that my friends feel comfortable coming to me is because they know that whatever is discussed between the two of us stays between the two of us. I do that for my friends and all though I don't know any of you I will do the same for you as well. I'm trustworthy and I can guarantee that I've personally been in or have had a friend go through just about any situation you can come up with. Whatever you've got for me feel free to ask cause I'm down right honest and will help you the best way I can!
Gender: Female
Location: I moved from TN and I live in Arizona.
Occupation: student
Age: 19
AIM: blndbarbie18
Member Since: June 27, 2005
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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?
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Alright, I can relate to where your coming from. In high school I didn't have my first date until I was 15(a sophmore). I was always considered the nice girl. When it comes to getting guys to notice you...whatever you do don't feel like you need to sleeze yourself up just for attention. You may want attention, but you want it from the right people, I promise. Don't feel intimidated to talk to the guys and let your personality come out. A lot of times what will first get you noticed in a different light is personaltiy and CONFIDENCE!! Confidence is the key, not cocky but confident. For you to stand out, you have to show that you want to stand out. Hope that helps!
~Devan~
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so what do you do when you break up with your girlfriend, who was also your best friend before that, and now you've been replaced completely by some other guy....well ya that happened to me....she doesn't even talk to me anymore, but she's not visibly mad at me or anything...i've just been replaced entirely by this kid...any suggestions on 1) how to win her back atleast to best friend level or if not 2) how to deal with the fact that you've been replaced entirely.....any help would be great, thanks guys. (link)
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Well a lot on how to properly answer this would be for me to know who broke up with who, but I'll do my best. Unfortunatly throughout your life you will go through relationships that may not always end how you would like them to. Sometimes things change and you just need to except that, this is coming from personal experiece. First of all you don't need to try and immediatly win her back as a girlfriend. Show her that you respect her wishes and want her to be happy even if it's with this other guy. One of the most attractive qualities in a guy is when there genuinly sincere about wanting you to be happy. If you don't want to talk to her in person then try writing her a letter so she can read it in private and take some time to think. Dealing with being replaced is hard and there's really nothing that anyone can say to lift your spirits. It just takes time. Yes it may hurt, and yes you may feel like you will never recover, but I promise you will, everyone does cause everyone has been where you are. I hope this helps!
~Devan~
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