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Age: 15
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Okay, so yesterday one of my girl friends(Tess) and guy friend(C), told me that this one guy(Steve) who I've liked on and off for about 2 years liked me. S has liked and went out with my best friend (Ash) about 3 times, but S didn't like A any longer. Well last night everyone at this party kept telling him to sit by me and make a move, but I guess he was too scared. Ash knew I kind of liked S but still seemed to do what she always does, rub things in. Later that night, she was telling me that they were going out, which earlier he just told her to act like they were because this weird guy wanted Ash. But she called me saying they kissed and that they were going out. This always happens, whenever I like someone she starts to like them or she does something. The one time a guy who she previously liked started to like me she made my life a living hell. So, later later on that night I texted him and said, hope that kiss with ash was good. Do you think that was mean and uncalled for, when he just told my friends earlier that night he liked me.
I'm not exactly sure what my questions is except, do you think I was wrong for getting semi-mad at him(steve) and her(ash), more at ash though. Also, do you think he likes me still, or does he like ash, because he also told my friends that he wouldn't get with ash and gave a yeah right look at them.
Anything else you have to say will be appriciated. Thanks so much !
15/f (link)
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what you did was totally acceptable.
she def. crossed the line by kissing him and rubbing it in.
Thats what i call a bad friend.
i dont think that that stopped him from likeing you. The whole kiss with ash prolly ment nothing to him. I mean they went out 3 times im sure that when they kissed it wasnt as big of a deal as ash is trying to make it.
So dont let her get to you.
she must be jealous.
My tip to you is dont let it bother you and even if it does dont show it around ash.
And def. talk to steve about it.
you never know maybe the kiss never even happened.
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I have a lot of guy friends...but they are all FRIENDS.
I want them to notice me more as someone they could go out with...rather than a good friend.
I'm not tomboyish or anything...I'm not a bimbo..not a whore..slut.. or anything like that.
I'm just normal..I look like a girl...act like one that's it.
So any tips would be much appreciated.
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i got this info from a website and it really helped me:
Your body language:
First and most importantly, you need to work on your body language. Teenager guys, and in fact men of all ages, are most attracted to strong and confident looking girls. So try to keep your back straight, stand tall and look straight ahead. This is the stance of the strong and confident people and it really makes you stand out in a crowd. Once you approach the teenage guy you wish to speak to, you should try to mirror his position. So for example, if he is sitting down you should sit down, if he is standing up then do the same. If he is crossing his arms or has his hands in his pockets, try to do the same. Obviously you don't want him to notice that you are imitating him, but having a sort of symmetry between you and this teen boy will make him more open to your suggestions and make you appear to be more like him. This will give you the open door to let you continue on with some good conversation. Be sure to keep eye contact with him too.
Your conversation:
Of course once you've got the guy interested in you by the way you respond to his body language you will want to follow up with some intelligent and fulfilling conversation. It would be wise to do some research about topics that would interest this particular teenage guy that you are trying to attract, but if that's not possible then you can simply go with one of the tried and true subjects: the weather, the location that you're both in right now, school, television, the news and so on. Don't be afraid to make your opinions known, guys love a woman who is strong willed and opinionated, who can think on their own. But try not to force your ideas onto him or to forcefully disagree with him because it will make him doubt your similarities and push you away.
The way you look:
Every girl knows that teenage boys are attracted to pretty girls. But even if you don't believe that you're a pretty girl you can still do things to improve the way you look, which will in turn make you feel great and make your body language even more power and positive. This works like a cycle and it gives you even more momentum in attracting that cute teen guy. So what can you do to look good in the eyes of teenage guys? First of all you will want to get some clothes that flatter your body shape and in colors that accentuate your eyes. The eyes are often said to be the windows to your soul, and adding a bit of mascara or eye make up can really light up your eyes. Don't spend too much time stressing over your clothes or hair, but just try your best to look presentable.
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How do you tell someone who is totally in love with you that you want to go on a break from them ? :| I mean i do like my bf .. but i just need abit of time on my own. I dont want to finish with him forever i dont think, but i just want to go on a break from him. How do i tell him ? :\ Thank Yuu x x (link)
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remember these tips:
1. Where and how you do it
Let him/her down gently. Try and lead up to it and don't drop it on them like a bomb. Just because you're breaking up the relationship doesn't mean you shouldn't treat him well, especially if you want them to stay in your life. That means not just calling it off on the phone or the street corner. Just like you'd have taken trouble over a date, choose a nice, quiet place and make it as painless as you possibly can.
2. Why you're doing it
You have a better chance of staying friends or possibly getting back together if you're choosing to break up the relationship over a really genuine reason. If you've taken a fancy to his best friend or worse yet if you're cheating on him, the friendship line or your future together won't stand a chance. Whatever is the reason you're choosing to break up, try and explain it as delicately as possible without assigning any blame to him.
3. How you hate yourself
Make it clear that you despise yourself not so much for breaking up the relationship (as it was a necessary evil in your eyes) but for the hurt you're causing him. Deride yourself. And make it clear that you wish you didn't have to do it but you weren't happy and need time to yourself.
4. Why you'd like to be friends
Make them aware that although you're the one initiating the break up, how you could see it coming. See if you can cite instances. And tell them that while it would not work now, you still like him as a person, and want to get together again in the future. Stress on some wonderful times you've had and how you would not like to see it end in bitterness.
5. How you're ready to wait
Be prepared that everything won't go off very smoothly. It is a moment fraught with emotion, tensions and anxieties of the past and yet some very good times, culminating in this anticlimax. Since expectedly, you've been doing all the talking so far, barring some sound effects from your partner, give them a chance to talk and hear them out.
Then ask them if they'd like some time on their own to think about the friendship angle and maybe getting back together when they are in a more balanced emotional state. Let them know that you will be around whenever they decide to call or if they do. Ask if it would be ok if you initiated contact after maybe a month.
Good luck and i hope i helped.
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Ok my bff from the summer Matt, is really cool and really nice. We kinda had a falling out because we had one date which he decided to just be friends at the end and we are just beginning to become close. Tonight he asked me to help him with his like pictures and wanted my opinion if he should get a diamond stud. I said something to him about him in the summer and he said awe that is cute that you remember that. And then he said i will be right back and when he came back he pasted my default picture from face book in the im. And i said oh my what's that and he was like your model pose from face book duh. and i was like its amazing ha ha and he was like its good. And i said i should delete before my brothers sees it and he was like no don't delete. And he said why would he get mad because he things you are asking for all the boys in your pants. my question does he like me? (link)
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idk if he likes you, its something you'll have to fiqure out. (even though it does seem like it)
Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:
1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you.
2. Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot.
3. Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd.
4. Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.
5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in his behavior toward you recently.
6. Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond.
7. Have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you.
8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'
and a guy does a lot of things that he doesnt even realize when he likes you, so if he:
1. Plays with his own hair
2. Blushes when you are around
3. Straightens his clothes
4. mimics you e.g. you lean forward and a few seconds later he leans forward
5. Crosses his legs towards you
6. Shows his palm
7. changes the volume of his voice to match yours
then he probablly does...
hope i helped and good luck =]
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ok, so i am a virgin but i think i am ready and so i want to have sex with my boyfriend... the problem is, i dont know much about it, i am scared about the bleeding part, and how much will i bleed. and i am not on the pill but will i get pregnant, even though he wears a condom??
i just need like basic information on sex for the first time, any tips would be great, and apparently its VERY painful, is it??
thank you so much.... any info would be appreciated! (link)
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it all depends on your body, how much you'll bleed is unpredictable. you might not even bleed at all.
And of course theres always a chance you can get pregnant but with a condom it def. lowers the odds.
And yeah it will be painful but more pleasurable than painful...
Before you have sex i'd look more into it at various websites..and sweetie please make sure hes the one..it is a big deal.
be safe and always have a back up condom because if the condom your using breaks then you have a even higher chance of getting pregnant.
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okay, i asked a question about gifted and talented yesturday and said how adam kinda stood up for me. well like i donno what happened.
i asked him about G&A because like i said he\'s in it too, and he explained everything out to me. so i told him i was thinking about leaving the class because i didn\'t know anyone in it and he\'s like well you know me doesn\'t that count for something?? like all cute because he is=] and i was like well yeahh but and i explained everything i was thinking that i explained in my other question about him being made fun of for talking to me because my name isn\'t highly respected. and he kinda laughed and was like-- what do you think were doing right now? and i didn\'t know what to say i fealt kinda stupid.. and for reassurance he was like katie, i don\'t care what my \'popular friends' think I barely talk to them anyway. i was like awwww haha noo but so wanted to hug him. and like now everyones like ooo you guys are like best friends. but i donno.. none of this happened until that whole g&a class. wait noo.. before but not as hardcore. and i dont believe in labels but i explained this to my cousin over aim and she\'s like aww it sounds like adam likes you. but it\'s me so its like well he could be feeling sorry for me. and then in tech ed this kid mike was yelling at me because the table was packed just like every other one, and i was like wow mike calm down budd jeezz. and he like rawred and i was standing next to adam and we missed yesturdays class because of g&a and we were both lost in the project everyone started so we ended up teaming up just like copying people =]] and it was soo much funny i swear and i loved it. i love hanging out with him it\'s just the looks adam and i get.. but it doesnt faze adam im like ughhh. i know- i know self esteam but so hard to build.
and on the way home, i sat next to him. and randomly out\'ve no where he was like \"are you really going to kick g&a??\" so i was like \"maybe.. i\'ll probably think about it over the weekend and what not.\" well adam didn\'t take that answer...
he was like \"no. katie.. you\'ll do awesome in tha class why don\'t you continue it..\" i was like because no one wants me there. so he brought the whole mee thing upp =] and then was like \"promiss me you wont drop out.. i really want you there and think you can do it.\" i swear my face is beat red and im like I donno know.. im not sure but thankss and he\'s like first stop and he refused to get up. he didnt get up when the bus stopped and my bus driver was like adam??? but he kept looking at me in his cute little puppy eyes and was like please??? so what could i say? so i was like fine.. and his face lite up i was like awwww and like wanted to cry.
well i think im starting to like him. but i can\'t. okay how 1st grade does that sound.. but no i mean he\'s a genusus.. straight up smarty pantss! im smart but not hardcore future rocketsciencetest.
does it look like he likes me by how he acts around me?? and im not pretty and i know what you\'ll say you probably are.. blahh blahh. im not. im 14. 200 pounds so ima fatty and because im fat i have acanthosis negricans which is discoloration around the neck, armpits and knuckles. people are being all aww but its like look at me! i know i need to build self eestem but its so hard with like fungii growing out\'ve my neck.
btw i dont feel right swearing infront of adam because he doesnt grow up in that kinda household so how do i stop? it\'ll slip through and im like =0 sorry adam. and i know he doesnt care he\'s told me but it doesnt feel right and i wanna brake that habbit anyway. so any good things about that would be greatly appreciated.
thanks--sorrys its soo long! (link)
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I say you should go for it with adam.
He really seems into you, girl =]
when it comes to your looks..obviously it doesnt bother him...so dont let it bother you.
Im not pretty but i found a guy who likes me for who i am on the inside.
so my advice is forget about everyone else and think about you and your happiness.
If adam really cared about what others thought he'd quit talking to you but he hasnt yet.
so just chill...
and when it comes to cussing you'll eventually get in the habbit of not cussing in front of him.
don't worry =]
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