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I've had this bestfriend for about a year now, and a few months ago i started feeling stronger for him. I think its beginning to feel like i want him more than just a friend. Like i said, we're best friends so i'm scared telling him would ruin it. Also, he has a girlfriend and i dont want to ruin that either.. i would feel so bad. i dont know if this helps the situation, but he used to like me when we first became friends last year- but i had no such feelings then.
so confusing.
please help
it hurts

i would wait until he and his gf split and then start to change the way you and him talk. like start to flirt and then gradually he'll like you again, and you him. then when you get the right moment. confess. lol

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i would like a boyfriend, to get over my ex. not just that, but i also would like a boyfriend fore many reasons....
i would look around school, but i'm home schooled.
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i don't want a x that i could simply hook back up with. i want somebody NEW.
but i'm not sure how to meet them.
i don't do online dating services.
please don't suggest them.
help??

homeschooling does limit you, greatly! and from my experience from it im sorry you have to be homeschooled. before i went back to school i met guys from other friends, or from my moms friends kids, or church. try Joining clubs in your community to meet people.

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Okay, so I really like this guy Chris. He doesnt know that I like him but on the otherhand I don't know if he likes me. His girlfriend just recently broke up with him,but Im actually kind of happy.
i dont just wanna go up to him and be like "i like you", that would be kinda weird.Also, a lot of girls like him too. what should i do???

flirt with him like theres no tomarrow.
win his heart over before the other girls.
and when it comes time to confessing say something like
"so... so and so told me that you like me?"
or "so hows the love life..."
lol silly phrases of things that give you away without being totally blunt about it.

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14/f

Ok this is kinda a weird question but I'm just curious. Do guys think like how girls would, like how girls dream about the guy like almost 24/7, well most girls, and marriage and all that stuff. Do guys? Cause my boyfriend was playing around and stuff and wrote down the day that we were gonna get married and stuff. Obviously I'm 14 but you know I thought that was cute and I was thinking about it like do guys seriously think about that? I know guys think sick, perverted stuff too but I mean like mushy stuff lol like marriage or even just daydreaming about the girl. Sorry this was kind of a weird question but I was just wondering.

through my experience with guys
yeah there mostly all perverted.
lol but the guys that talk about marriage, or speciaclly to you how much they love you, how pretty you are ect. then they do love you and they are serious about you. now your 14 so marriage is prolly just a daydream. it was for me. and guys who were serious about it arent as preverted jerks as most of the rest of them.

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