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heyy..i'm alex i'm 14 and i'm going to be a freshman at blaine high school this year! yay! umm..i play softball and i'm a gymnast and i play volleyball too if there's anything else you wanna know about me..then drop on in my inbox or IM me on aim!
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hey i have a question 4 u! i'm 14 n i'm a freshman in hs, there is dis cute guy in ma class and i have a crush on him. I THINKK he likes me too but i'm not sure, do u kno any signs dat i should look out 4 if he likes me? and if he doesnt like wat could i do 2 make him like me?

~lost n confused! (link)
I'd say look out for if he's always lookin at you and if he's staring at you and smiles at you a lot, and he flirts with you and touches you so-to-speak like put his arm around you and stuff, and laugh at you and just those type of things ya know? And then, if he doesn't like you, just give him hints that you like him without doing it verbally, just flirt with him ALOT. And like touch him like flirty like, not inappropriately lol, but just little things like that can make a guy like you, I think at least, that's what it takes for me! Lol, but I really hope I helped, and good luck hun! If you have anything more to add on this, then ask me k?!



i think i like this guy.. but im not sure.. i want to get to know him better what can i do to do that? like what should i say? should i talk to him casually then be like you wanna hang out sometime? (link)
You could talk to him online or in person, whichever your prefer and then yeah just asked him if you guys would wanna hang out sometime, but ask him questions about himself or something to get to know him better..sooner or later you guys'll be hanging out! Good luck! If you need anything else..just ask!

♥aLex!


sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control? (link)
this probably sounds lame..but usually it works..sit down in maybe like a chair or on your bed or something and close your eyes and think of something else and just keep your tension under controll by like squeezing a stuffed animal or something like that..instead of throwing it or if you thinkg that your going to throw it when your holding it just make fists with your hands or something just as long as you don't throw anything..and if it gets to you really bad..then i would confront your boyfriend about this or talk to him about why you get frustrated..or else just talk to a counselor..whatever makes you feel better =) hope i helped..if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox!


Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..

love maddie (link)
Wow..sounds like the same thing I was like when I was in 7th grade going into 8th! I've been in the SAME situation. Alright so you want attention from guys? Be F-L-I-R-T-Y! and just keep tryin' to look good, EVEN though that's not the point of having a boyfriend..I mean just don't overdo it. And with people picking on you..tell 'em to leave you alone. I mean I know that's not the BIGGEST help, but you just got to ignore it because you know what, you don't have to care what people think about you. Only what you think of yourself is what really counts..just don't mind the other people and if it really gets you to, talk to someone or just make fun of them back! Hehe, that's what I did, if they wouldn't leave me alone, I just would make fun of them back, but in highschool you're right, its a fresh start and there's going to be SO many new people there its like they won't even have time to make fun of you. And people start getting more "maturer" and stop making fun of people for their amusement. So good luck, I hope I helped! If you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox! ♥Frankie!


i was dating this guy named andrew for about 1 1/2 months. well i got grounded half way through the relationship and couldnt see him even though i was used to seein him EVERY day in school and stuff. well when i got grounded he would hang out with his friends and sometimes they were girls so wed fight ALOT even though he never did ne thing. i became a huge bitch and bitched at him for anything and it made me feel sooooo bad. then he broke up with me over spring break for a gurl. we just started talkin again though. i dont call him or any thing.. we just hang with alot of the same people and when we see eachother we talk. well he broke up with me because i was a bitch and i never did ne thing but make out. i wanted to do more but it was always wrong place or wrong time. i hated it. i think i still like him though and i really want him back. aq gurl thats almost like a sister to him told me he'd come back cause hes just a clingy type of person. i want him to come back NOW though. i dont know how to tell him that i want him back or how to get him back... should i just wait for him or say sumthin? and if that then what do i say? i know if i want him back then i cant be a big bitch and i have to move faster which im willing to do cause i really liked him alot and maybe these feelings will move to loving him. please help me ASAP. thanxs (link)
alright the SAME thing happened with me! and i'm real close to gettin back with him and this is how i did it..alright so now you've probably changed from all of that b*tchyness stage lol its normal for a girl to feel like their boyfriend is cheating on them when they are with other girls..so its alright i would say you aren't so much being a b*tch your just bein a little overprotective but in a relationship you gotta have trust..so you have to learn to trust your boyfriend with everything you got so that's first off..and then whenever you talk to him just ask him every once in a while be like "so who do you like now days" or something to egg him on to that..and when he asks you back you HAVE to tell him that you still have feelings for him because otherwise you aren't going to have another chance with him..and you have no other way of telling him..and i mean just to tell him that you like him will make him feel better and maybe you don't even know it but i bet he probably feels the same way about you!:) but..you just gotta keep reminding him that you still love him and stuff and you gotta do it SOON because if you don't..you'll lose eachother and then you'll realize that you'll regret not telling him and regret not being able to maybe have another chance..so GOOD LUCK sweetie i bet it will all work out..this is what happened with me and all this helped..so i HOPE it all works out hun! tell me if it does okay! good luck! if you need anything else drop one in my inbox!


Today my boyfriend was kidding around saying that I (as in me) is going to start taking away kisses evreytime he swears (i always tell him not too) so i told him that i am taking them away, What is a cute tease of a kiss (just lips)!?!?? Like pulling away? Tehehe

%@#HSCHEER#@% (link)
i'd say when you guys lean in to kiss then just look to the side before he kisses you..and just hug him or something..hope i helped! ♥alex




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