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Sometimes i feel like giving up when something goes wrong. I am so depressed i don't have any close friends my boyfriend just broke up with me i don't know what to do???? HELP!!!!

God is eager to help you (Romans 5:6-11). He loves you so much and doesn’t want you to go through this trial alone.

All you need to do is believe. Pray a simple, sincere prayer: “Heavenly Father, I believe Your Son Jesus Christ died on the cross for my sin and was raised from the dead. I confess and ask forgiveness for my sins. Thank You for forgiving me and loving me. Help me to live a new life that pleases You, as a new creation in Christ Jesus. Sustain me through this circumstance. It is bigger than me and I can’t do it without You. In Jesus’ name, amen.”

He will never leave you. Hebrews 13:5: “For God has said, ‘I will never fail you. I will never forsake you.’”

As a way to grow closer to Him, the Bible tells us to follow up on our commitment.

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14/f

ive been going out with this kid for about eight months (we've liked eachother for over a year) and we still havent kissed yet. now, ive never been kissed before, so im not sure how to make the move. I've waited long enough for him to make it, but he hasnt. help please :]

oh yeah and we usually hangout with a bunch of people, if that helps.

hang out with him alone cause he is more likely to kiss ou around no one then with other people

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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥

Depends on what u mean by hoking up! Kissing is ok, but past that umm thats not so good

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i am the one that had the question about the fiance and the other girl and me anf my fiance have been together for ten months allready and i will try to follow my heart but it will not make a choice yet and thanks for the advice.

I really think you should stay with your Fiance, but yeah following your heart would be best. I hope your heart makes the right choice

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i am a 17 yr old male. well i have a Fiancé and it is going good between us but there is another girl that i really like and want to go with but i dont wana hurt or leave mine and i dont know what to do. i was told to follow my heart but it says to go with both and i cant do that to either one of them and i dont know what to do.

Wow that is a major GF problem, and I think you came to the right person for the answer. Anyways you say you have a fiance....hmmm if i were you I would stick to her exspecially if you have been together for a long time. On the other hand maybe you havn`t been with her a long time...IDK really what the case is here. All I can tell you to do is listen to your hearts gut feeling. I do know one thing if you break up with your fiance to go out with this other girl, and something bad happens your fiance will not take u back.

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ok, me and my boyfriend have only been going out for a few weeks now and he knows alot about me already. but i get mood swings alot sometimes(pms) and i'm afraid that i'm pushing him away. i really like him and i think that i'm falling in love with him but i think that i'm also pushing him away whenever i say that i'm fat or stupid or ugly, which he swears up and down isn't true. but i still can't help but feel that it's true. how can i feel better about myself and see if i'm pushing my boyfriend away from me?

Dont be so hard on yourself. I know your probably horrified of the things ur BF thinks about you, but he wouldn`t have gone out with you if he didn`t like you. You should point out the positive things about yourself, instead of the negatives. Maybe if you start doing that you wont feel as if your pushing him away from you.

Good lUck!!!

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ok i reeeally like boys lol. the thing is, all da guyz in my class like these 4 girls (2 r my friends, but all of em r pretty bitchy). i feel like i dont have a chance against them!!! around guyz im like superconfident and funny and sorta loud (*blushes* lol), but i dno if they like that kinda thing (ive only had 1 bf). im pretty and i have a lot of friends, but i dno wat im doin wrong/how 2 get guyz 2 like me (instead of the girlz they normally like)! plz help!
-B.O.Y.L.E.S.S
p.s. im 13 and goin into 8th grade

From my experience with guys I would have to tell you that you need to forget about having a BF and kinda ingore the fact that u dont have one at the moment. If you do, then u will end up getting a BF sooner then you think.

Good luck!

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i like this guy we go to church together.
My siter told me that he liked me and i did tell him how i fell but he did'nt like me back that thing is that i can get over him, i want to but i can and i need to find a way to get over him and i want to know how came i love him so much .
i met him 3 years ago and we became really good friends.
femele 15

Well it seems to me that you have known him for a long time. He probably has been there for you on certain occasions too. He probably makes you smile and laugh too. You think he is like no other guy out there, you have met. As time went by and you got to know him better, you started having feelings for me. Just try and get over it, cause if you dont him and you may end of breaking the friendship off.


Good Luck!

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Okay me and this guy have been going out since June 3rd. I've known him for the past 5 years but we just got into contact mid May. I like him alot and I get the feeling that he likes me. He and his friend left for Arizona last Thursday, but I've been hurt alot in the past relationships and everytime I feel like I'm really falling for a guy, I get nervous. And thats how I feel right now. Before he left I made a comment, "so are you and Dustin going to go and pick up some chicks?" and I laughted he goes, "Dustin might, but I'm taken" That sorta made me feel better but he said that he'd be gone 2 weeks at the most and that he'd call. He hasn't called and I don't know if hes okay or if hes cheating or what. I don't know if I'm just over reacting, but I need someones advice! Help! I'm 15 years old and I'm a women.

I know how you feel I have had so many bad relationships too. Right now my BF is 14 hours away from me and he promised he would call me. He hasn`t yet, and I do trust him. I think you should trust him, maybe he is just having alot of fun at the moment.

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I'm 13 & i'm a girl. You see, my b/f is my neighbor. Ever since he moved here, he said that he liked me. We started going out last month. I really like him. We really want to kiss, but he's nvr been kissed & I haven't REALLY kissesd b4. I really want to, but i'm just nervous. Can u plz help me. How do I make the 1st move? thanx :)

This may not be the best advice, or the advice you were looking for, but I think you should wait. You just started into this relationship and its not best to make the first move yet. He might think your easy. Hope I helped


Good Luck!

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My boyfriend oftens has dreams about marrying me and/or asking me 2 marry him. We often talk about marriage and he tells me how much he loves me but I don't want him to jump in2 anything 2 soon.BTW he's 20 i'm almost 18. We've been 2gether for almost 7 months. I had a preganacy scare recently and he told me that if I were than we would be ok but he said that he thought about it and said that he would be really happy and I love him very much and expressed that i'm not ready for a baby. What do u think this all means?

It doesn’t really mean anything, because a lot of men feel the same way. Guys always rush into relationships, and if they have been with you a long time they decided that they want to marry you. Just tell him you’re not ready to get married yet, he should understand, and if he really does love you like he says he will wait till your ready.

Good Luck!

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i am f/15
ok me and my boyfriend went out for almost exactly 2 monthes i no it doesnt seem like long but in those two monthes we did everything together ( went on 2 trips together ext...) he was my first love and i was going to give up my viginaty to him but then like 2 weeks ago he went away on a trip with his dad for 5 days and the weekend while he was gone my best friend was gone too. so i was hanging out with some other ppl i guess i could call my friends and my one friend thought i was trying to hook up with her boyfriend or something and she through a fit ( she was intoxicated) so me and my other friend left becuz i didnt want to deal with her and then 2 days later when my bf came back he found out about this and he got made at me becuz i was drinking with other guys and stuff ( my bf doesnt like it when i drink and i am not with him becuz he thinks i will do something stupied like cheat on him or get myself hurt) and he found out that ppl were saying i was trying to hook up with my friends bf and then my bf broke up with me. he said he reason was becuz i flirt with other guys and stuff. i told him that i didnt mean to and that i was with him and no one else ment ne thing to me, and then he told me he just didnt love me ne more. i cried all night and then the next day at school everyone seemed to treat me different ( even though my ex doesnt go to my school) my best friend kept ignoring me and she started hanging out with the girl that had a fit on me becuz she thought i was trying to get with her bf. and my other friend started phoning my ex daily( they were really good friends before she introduced him to me and we started going out). when my bf broke up with me i lost all my self confidence. i just want everything to go back to the way it was! i want him back so bad, he made me feel good about my self and i miss him so much! how can i get him back!??

This may not be the best answer, but he doesn`t seem like he is worth all the trouble to get him back. The main thing for now is how to get back your friends. Then try and find a way to get back with your ex.

Good Luck

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well i like my best friend and she has a bf she is a girl ok she is 17 like me i think about her all the time plz help me ok

Tell her how you feel if you havent already, and just try to calm down when ya talk to her and stuff. She might freak out at first, but thats a normal reaction. If she is really your best friend she will understand you and not ditch you just because you said this.

Good luck!

P.S If you ever need anymore advice, you know where to find me.

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How do you know if a boy likes you or not i mean he meet your mother and father. And then when his brother calls him on his cellphone you tell him that you'll be there in a few mintues but those minutes turn to hour then finally when you leave he give you a hug to die for

Any guy that is brave enough to meet the perentals even if he is just your friend has to like you.


Good luck!

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What happens if your boyfriend's sister breaks you and your boyfriend up? but you didn't want the break up?

That is so selfish of that of her. Why would she do such a thing????? Well if u really want him back, forget about her and just talk to him.

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OK...me & my boyfriend, bryon, dated for almost a year...i love him with all my heart and he loved me, but we broke up because we didnt talk anymore...which isnt true cuz i talked to him, he just didnt talk to me...anyways...that was like 4 months ago that we broke up and we are talking again...and he like still has the same look in his eyes that he did when we were dating, i know it sounds stupid but im serious. and my best friend even says she can still see the connection. and everytime we talk or joke around hes always got this big smile on his face! and it makes me melt cuz i know i still love him, but idk if he loves me! and everytime i tell him what my feelings are its like he drifts away from me so i dont want to tell him how i feel anymore...but how can i find out if he still cares for me? plz help! im 15 years old.

I am having the same problem with my ex, and I know what your going thru. I hate that feeling in which you still care for them so much, and your not sure if they still care for you. Expecially when you tell them how you feel, but they dont pay attention. Well I think you should talk to one of his best friends, maybe they have the answer you need. Thats what I did. It might just work.

Good Luck with everything!

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i think im turning gay what should i do

OMG,r u serious. What makes u think ur turning gay. U might just be going thru a akward stage. Can you tell me sumthing that makes u think this so I can understand.

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