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Hi Im Amanda. Im 14 and I go to High School. Im 5'5 with Blonde hair. I love to give advice! Talk to me!:)
~Luvinz~
Amanda

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Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f

One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!

I'll rate for good answers.

That was an awesome setup if it was only followed through with a date. You got the truth out now it should be pretty easy. Since you had gone on vacation and you probly havnt talked for a while he might think you are avoiding him. You should ask him out to a movie or someplace that shows your individuality. Be yourself. That is the person he found to like. Hope to help and good luck!!!
~luvnz~

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I love my boyfriend SOOOOO much! i wod do ANYTHING for him! today he went to juvi... he'll b there for 30 days! its 8:30p.m and i havent stopped crying since 11 o'clock last night! i cant sleep and i cant get him outta my head... i have a past with getting depressed VERY easily and i dont want that to happen. i no 30 days doesnt seem like a lot but im VERY clingy and kind of a cry baby wen it caomes to him. i really need to pull myself together and get out of the house but i just cant bring myself to get up! i feel so alone and sad but at the same time mad at him for leaving me like this! all last night i was in his arms crying and i wod do ANYTHING to get him bak and just to hold him one last time til he comes bak! everyone cinseders me as a strong person but i feel like i cant survive without him! hes my love, my life, my everything! and i dont no wot the hell im gonna do for the next months! im an emotional reck and my parents r getting really worried about me! im usually the one giving ppl advice but i cant figure out wot the hell im gonna do! please help!

Your boyfriend sounds like a really good person to be around. It is hard to be without them. My mom used to always tell me distance makes the heart grow stronger. It will make the time when he comes back more pleasant. If possible email,mail, or phone calls would be great. One thing I do have to say is not to be TOO clingy. It can scare them off. Feel Better. Invite your best girlfriends over since you cant get out. They know how to make you laugh.
~luvnz~

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hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help.

Well, if you really want to talk to a girl, talk about school. After you say hi on line, ask her if a question on how the day went. Girls love when the guys listen. She would go on on what the day went and you can agree and maybe relate!!

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