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Okay so im going to the mall with my boyfriend this weekend..okay yea im 14 just so you kno..but anyway i hate pda i think it looks really bad and i hate making out or even kissing in public but i think it would be really cute if like we made out in the hollister dressing room or something hehehe. but i dont kno im not sure how to like work it out like what do i say or do to get in the dressing room with him..i know sounds pretty stupid but i think it would be kind of cute..so yea any ideas?
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Just do it! Be cute- be like "have you ever hooked up in a dressing room?" and go for it. lol it soudns like fun- elevators are smf too. :) have funn
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Theres this guy i like and hes pretty much like a jock cause he does lacrosse and football. and i do soccer, bball, dance, and I wanna try out lacrosse in the spring. hes in like most of my classes in my middle school, and i fell for him right when i met him.. cause of his looks, but hes also funny and nice, too. (although hes not the brightest crayon in the box heh) ANYWAY, im not the world's best flirter, especially with guys i like alot, cause then i feel awkward around them and such. but i dont mind in gym getting competitive, like we played this game called "steal the rings" and you gotta capture the person's flag on their belt so they dont steal your ring. and i beat him sometimes and hes always smiling when i do it. also the other guys, like they know im good at the game but like is it attractive? or does it kinda repel people. im not like "SOOO" aggressive, but im pretty good at the game and dont just stand there like some girls doo. hes kinda popular and im not popular, but not a loser either.
ppl kno me cause im smart, talented at stuff, funny, and nice. but sometimes it takes a bit to get to know me, since at first i may seem shy but if i get comfortable around you i can be totally more outgoing and fun to be around. arg, so im basically shy in most places except gym cause i dunno.. i guess i feel kinda selfconcious, well i mean i like myself, but it feels weird when ppl are like staring at you! so i always get some feeling which makes me feel weird like that sometimes, though i guess its just nervousness for no reason when im feeling kinda uncomfortable. but this kinda happens everyday and every night i tell myself that i will change and such but its always the same the next day! i mean it changes a lil.. but like.. yeah. how do i become more outgoing and stuff.. and basically make more friends in general? and how do i be myself.. like everyone says that as the answers to questions like this (sorry this is not all on the topic!) and its like hard..
Ahh! sorry this is mucho long!
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i'd say, think like bridget in the sisterhood of the traveling pants. be flirty and daring- when you grab the ring, don't just be like competitive- make sure he sees you, smile and make eye contact. be daring and don't be afraid to have fun- pretend he already wants you and you're the shit, cause if you act like it, it'll happen. good luck!
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How do you ask out guys if you are a shy person??? (link)
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Pretend you're someone else that you admire or want to emulate instead of yourself. I get shy sometimes too, but I pretend I'm someone gorgeous and confident. Think of people you admire, like a favorite celebrity or one of the popular or hot girls in school who boys like. Just try to put yourself out there, and be really casual about it, then see what happens! Good luck!
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My first boyfriend and I recently broke up. It's weird being single but I'm moving on. The problem is, there are absolutely no guys that I like. I'm in my senior year of highschool, have a job, lots of single friends and no guys have caught my eye! I know I should focus on me and be independent, but I'm used to being interested in many guys. How can I meet new guys and where? Should I even be looking for someone right now, or let someone find me? (link)
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Let a guy find you. you should be confident enough that you can be amazingly hot without a guy! that kind of an attitude attracts guys and makes them want you, and especially makes them want to catch you! and that is SO much more fun than being the desperate single girl who needs a guy to reassure herself. you're not single: you're LOOKING.
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yesterday my boyfriend of about 4 months told me this girl who hes been friends with for about 3 years randomly called him and asked him if he wanted to hang out tomorrow. he told her that hes workin because he works almost everyday and when he doesnt hes with me. hes not the kind to hang out with friends outside of school anyway, except me [but we go to diff. schools]. should i be worried? im pretty sure he wouldnt cheat on me bc were very open and honest about that but im already kind of a jealous person bc im always scared hes gonna end up likin another girl and leave me for her. but he promises he wouldnt. but anyway thats beside the point. does it sound like i should be worried about her? i dont know who she is and im not really worried about him likin her im worried about her likin him.
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DON'T WORRY AND DON'T BE JEALOUS. you're only 16 and life is supposed to be fun. if he really likes you and you really like him you should be confident enough that you'll know that he'll always come back to you. even if you are worried, pretend you're the shit and you know everyone always comes back to you. DUH. get what i'm saying? and if he's a stupid asshole, whatever, screw him, and get on with your life- you're hot enough that you don't need a guy to be cool.
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ive never kissed a guy b4 but i want to..how without making a fool of myself? (link)
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well, you should definitely wait for the right moment and guy for it. don't randomly kiss him or anything. you really want something that you can look back on and not be disappointed. don't rush into it: the time will come. just have fun: that's how it should be. when you find the right guy and stuff, you shouldn't HAVE to think about it.
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