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Theres this guy who has told me he really likes me, we flirt alot but he doesnt know the feelings I have for him! I really really really like him but he smokes and thats whats putting me off going into a relationship with him! He knows how i feel about smoking and he told me he had stopped just for me! But then one of my friends told me he had tried to stop but couldnt and he was still telling me he had stopped! Do I just ignore his smoking habbit and focus on the feelings I have for him?
It is a nasty habit, but it's also a hard habit to break. Even if he says he will quit for you, it will take time. He can't just quit cold turkey. The most you should do is just request he doesn't smoke around you. If you really like him then yes, you should just focus on the feelings. He obviously likes you enough to attempt to quit!
-Sarah
me and my boyfriend landon really like each other. we have those little fights about whos cuter or who loves each other more. and at school, WE ARE SERIOUSLY ALL OVER EACH OTHER! we tell each other that we love each other. hes all i can think about. and he tells his friends, that he loves me and that all he can think about is me. i really miss him alot, and im going to see him tomorrow. so, does it sound like were in love, or...are we just really close in our relationship?
-shelby/13/f
Love is different to every person. Everyone has a different opinion, so it's what YOU make it out to be. If you want to believe you're in love, then do it. Enjoy every second of it.
-Sarah
I'm fifteeen and a girl [:
me and this guy were going out for about a two years. we broke up in march of 07. ive been talking to him lately through texting and aim. everytime i talk to him i get the same feeling i used to when we were going out and he makes me feel alive. i know that sounds corny, but its amazing how much of a little girl i become around him. i can say stupid things no one else would get and we can practically predict what one other is gonna say. i honestly dont think me and him are done. i know one day we will get back together, and hopefully soon. theres a dance comming up at my school in febuary and I'm thinking about asking him. I dont hangout with him alot. more like i never hangout with him, and when i do it's pretty awkward. neither of us know what to say to eachother in person and i obvouisly want that to change. I think asking him to the dance would give us a chance to become not awkward around eachother and maybe give us another chance. Should i go for it or play it safe? any other suggestions? thankss! [:
He still shows interest, so I say go for it. He's probably waiting for you to make the first move, and when you do things will probably not be awkward. And plus, dances are fun most of the time. So why not?
-Sarah
does anyone have any advice on how to get over a relationship that lasted almost a year, i am in a rut.
coOokie is right. But although she said to hang out with guy friends, I would recomend spending more time with your girlfriends. Seeing as you were together for almost a year, I imangine you didn't really spend much time with them. I say this in defense of my bestfriend, who also this past summer had a breakup of a year. Loud music and bestfriends and a couple hundred laughs, and you will be good to go; believe it or not you can get through this :)
-Sarah
I used to like this guy. But he came off as to jerky for me. But now i am curious if he liked me back.
He points out stupid imperfections about me like my forehead is big.
He tripped me.(idk if it was "playful" or not)
He throws things at me.(pencils,erasers ect.)
When we sit next to eachother he puts his hand on my leg till i move it.
Yells at me all the time
Calls me by a name i absolutly hate(not like bitch or anything it a name like gurtrude or something like that)
Makes an effort to be by me if i am standing up.
Only leaves if i tell him to(when he stands next to me)other wise he follows me around.
Walks up to me makes some rude coment like you look frumpy today and then walk away.
So does this guy like me?
It does sound like he likes you, possibly alot. The whole name call, throwing things, tripping, following, etc. is just guys wierd way of flirting. Especially if he has his hand on your leg, it's a sure sign :)
-Sarah
ok so what do you do when you cant someone out of your head who shouldnt be there in the first place??
Talk to friends! Hang out with friends! Or find a new boy. Any of those are sure to help. They helped me :)
-Sarah