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Okay so that's not a picture of me but it is kenny chesney the greatest singer of all time..and i hott one too =) umm i dont know what to say about me except all of my friends come to me for advice to i figured i would try this out. I am good at giving advice (i hope) to anyone but me..i guess in our minds we make everything seem a lot harder than it is. I love it when people IM me to let me know how everything worked out or for advice..i feel like i can understand the situation better then. So feel free to IM me!
here's a survey i filled out

.:General Info On You:.
Full Name:: Danielle Elizabeth
Age:: 14
Height:: 5' 1/4"
Natural Hair Colour:: brown
Hair Colour:: brown with hightlights

.:More on You:.
Do you wear contacts/glasses?: contacts and sometimes glasses
Do you wear braces?: no

.:Faves:.
Animal:: pig =)
Type of Music:: country
Band:: rascal flatts
Singer:: kenny chesney
Song:: it changes every day but right now its "On My Own" from Les Miserables
Album:: Melt- Rascal Flatts
Flower:: Bleeding Heart

.:Do You Prefer:.
Chocolate or Vanilla:: vanilla
Rock or Rap:: rock
Dance or Sing:: sing
Green or Blue:: blue
Pink or Red:: pink
Black or White:: white
Friend or Family:: friend
Fish or Frog:: froggg
pink or orange:: ORANGE.

.:More Faves:.
Tv show:: american idol
Movie:: Finding Nemo, A Walk to Remember, Save the Last Dance
Color:: orange
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Ugh. When I think about it, this question sorta sounds like those 12 year old girls who come on here talking about how they love their little boyfriends and stuff.

But really- let me just get to it.

I think this guy at school likes me, because whenever he sees me having a good time or laughing, he finds me and joins in. I know he's coming FOR ME, and not for anyone else. And we talk like we're really really good friends. But, when we're in class or in the hall, he never says anything, just sometimes hello. What's going on? I keep catching him staring and stuff.. so..what's up with him? What can I do to make him less..shy? (link)
are you into him at all? it seems like it. let him know and he will become more confident.


ok i was going out with this girl for exactly one year and i really love her but we broke up after a fight and after 4 months we started going out again which was 3 days ago but do u think we should start from scratch or just like start making out and kissing eachother like i mean start where we ended (link)
starting completely over would be kind of weird..but you definitely shouldnt rush into stuff. just do what feels right.


I'm going to a movie with my best friend, her boyfriend, and his friend who I like tomorrow. The boy I like and I are good friends but I want to know if there are any hints I can give him tomorrow at the movies, maybe to lead him on. People say he likes me and he's been giving hints but how should I act tomorrow. Any tips?

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just flirt with him the whole night and sit next to him. if you are feeling extra bold...grab a hold of him hand during the movie!


This really hot guy asked for my number and now he is going to call me.. obviously. The problem is i never know what to say when i talk to guys on the phone its kinda akward. What can i do to prevent something liek me running out of cool things to tlak about? (link)
just ask him about himself cause you dont really know him. that should spark some conversations. if the conversation seems like it is dying bring up something random. something funny that recently happened to you, something weird a sibling is doing..anything you can think of. it will start some more conversing. :P. if the conversation has been going really well and you run out of things to talk about..end it on a good note! just come up with an excuse to leave and talk later when you have more to actually talk about. good luck!


Okay well you see im going out with this guy and this other girl taylor likes him and he acts like he likes her but when i ask him if he does he says that he doesnt! and when he talks about her just like today he said this part of a song and i was like i dont no that song he was like "you and tay tay both dont know that song!" that really bugs me and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna say something and have him break up with me! soo plz help me! i dont know what to do.... (link)
if he breaks up with you for bringing up something that is bothering you, then he is a bad boyfriend and doesn't deserve you. just let him know that he brings taylor up a lot and it bothers you sometimes..he'll be understanding and feel really sorry and he'll be sure to let you know just how much you mean to him..which is always fun. :)


I like a boy who is such a cutie! Hes really sweet, nice, and funny. Those are all big plusses but the thing im not so sure about is him being total opposite. He smokes, hes a hornball but he wouldnt make me do anythign i dont want to. Im like the popular girl with a halo over my head. I know that he just wants to hook up with me becasue he even said so but how do i find out if he likes me or not? (link)
This boy doesn't seem like a good idea to me...


My bf and i have a long distance relationship and i really want to call him but i dont want to be clingy. Would i be clingy??? HELP!!!

i rate high!! (link)
No, only if you call him a lot. Just call him once in a while. He should be calling you, but most guys don't understand that.


I was in a chat room with 2 of my friends today. One was my best friend, Jessica and the other was a guy, Ryan. Ryan and I like each other but have a few things we're trying to work out before we actually start dating. This was a part of our conversation:

Ry-You know who has big boobs?
Jess-who?
Ry-Marie
Me-I've never noticed her boobs
Ry-because she doesn't flaunt them like you 2
Me-heyyyy we don't FLAUNT them
Ry-yes you do
Jess-lol
Ry-but I like girls like that ya know? Ones that dont have to show everything

Then he said he had to go. Do you think that was his way of telling me that he wants me to be more conservative?
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maybe since you two like each other and he said that you flaunt your boobs he was afraid that you would think that that is why he likes you, so, he tried to save himself by saying that its not important to him.


How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment (link)
just find something you have in common. DONT pretend to like what he likes if you dont. its good to be honest about what you like. you can have little minnie debates about your differences which can be interesting. for example, my boyfriend loves nascar..but i think its boring. so we are always arguing about it..but i always end up letting him watch a little bit of it. so basically..find stuff in commom..but embrace differences as well. =).


**hey guys! ok im 14/f. ive been friends w/ this guy since like 6th grade, and we r in 9th now. we have become better friends cause we have a class together, and we hang out sometimes on weekends w/ a group of friends. he talks to me a lot more now, and we r good friends. he even tells me like who he likes and stuff. recently he told me he stopped liking this girl cause he needed someone he could be himself around (his crazy...crazy self... lol) he'll call me babe and stuff like that sometimes 2 (im not sure if hes joking or flirting...?) what do u guys think? and... how can you tell if a guy likes you or not? for guys: what do u do to show a girl that you like her? thanks all** (link)
don't listen to that other answer, please. there is a possiblity that he likes you. or else i think he SHOULD like you since you know each other so well and he can be his crazy crazy self around you. lol. the only way to find out it to ask him. i know sounds scary..but, wait do you like him? if you dont then don't worry about it unless he tells you he likes you, then thats a different story. if you like him, asking is the way to go. you dont even have to tell him your feelings. just say "it seems like you might have feelings for me, is this true?"
hope i helped!


(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

Signed-
Just Wondering (link)
that would be fine if you got him a present. just dont make it too romantic or elaborate or he may think you are obsessed. just get him something small..but dont expect him to want to go out with you because of it. if you told him three times and he didnt do anything..take that as a rejection. sorry, but there are other guys out there! no worries!


For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex (link)
He's just confused because is isn't sure if the fact that you like each other means you are going out or not. Tell him that you don't think you are "officially" going out until he acually asks you out. Then hopefully he will. Or you can just ask him out yourself!


There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do? (link)
maybe its male pms haha.

seriously..if you aren't happy with him and hes not trea ting you right then leave him! it will be very hard but you will get through it. think of all the other guys out there who can treat you better!




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