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I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other? (link)
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Say something random and start a conversation about it. Those can turn into some of the most funny and memorable conversations. Use your imagination and be creative.
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I am a 16 year old male and i have had at least three girlfriends in my life. I want to continue and have a normal highschool experience. however, i am homosexual and my feelings for girls dont ever go beyond platonic. i am afriad to come out because everyone i know is severly homophobic and i owuld have no friends left if i told. yet i feel like i am not myself. how can i find a happy medium? (link)
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This must be very tough for you, and I am sorry. Is there a club like GSA (gay straight alliance) at your school? If so, you can join and find other people with similar situations, and see how they deal. If you do decide to come out, first do it to a close friend or family member and see how they react. Make sure it is someone that you can trust. It's a shame that everyone you know is homophobic. I can not explain these people's behavior, I have often tried but nothing comes to me. If you want to talk, always feel free to email me anytime! Hope I helped!
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Thers this girl i like. She has a bf but all my friends tell me to fight for her. So i do. But now my biggest influence, my brother, is telling me not to. He says to give up n look to another. But i really like this girl. Who or what do i listen to? (link)
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I think that if you think that you have a chance with this girl then you should fight for her. Boyfriends aren't forever, she'l break up with this guy eventually. If you find that your feelings are faltering, then I would look to someone else. But if you really trust ur brother's opinion, you might want to take it into consideration.
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i want to tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him even thought i know nothing will happen cuz he has a gf that i'm sure he loves but how do i say it??!! (link)
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This is kind of ironic, cuz my exbf pulled the same stunt on me last night...even though I'm going out with his best friend. I thought the way he did it was pretty good, so I'll pass it along to you... he asked me if I forgave him would I ever give him a second chance, but he wasn't asking me out. This made me think about it and I told him I'd give him a second chance when my relationship with my current bf is over. It worked for him, so I hope it works for you!
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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out? (link)
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I felt that way for a long time, I wanted a bf so bad that I became desperate and went out with the first guy that would have me. This turned out to be a miserable relationship, but when I ended it, I still wanted a bf. I went out with 2 more guys right afterward, and it wasn't until after the last one that I realized that I did'nt need a guy to be happy. My 2 best friends both got boyfriends and I started to feel left out, but I kept telling myself that my prince would come. I waited, and now I'm with a guy that I really like and that likes me. There are 2 morals to this story. 1. You have to learn to love yourself and to love being single (you aren't tied down!) 2. The number one thing that guys are attracted to is confidence. If you learn to love yourself and stop caring what people think, you will appear more attractive, and therefore, get a bf!
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There's this girl that I like, but she's really obsessed with this other kid. My one friend said to ditch the effort, and the others said go for it. I really don't think I stand a chance becuz she's so blind-sighted by her obsession. What do you think I should do? (link)
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I think that you should try to talk to this girl and get to know her better. Talk about things that she's interested in, or that you share an interest in. Compliment her and give her subtle hints that you like her without telling her outright. The key is patience, it won't happen right away. Maybe you'll bevome her new obsession! - runawaygirl
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