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YO I'm Des. I'm a redheads Irish and Scot. I like Soccer/Footie, Rugby, Gaelic Football, and hockey. IRISH PRIDE. I'm a failure at women, so guys don't ask me about that stuff, but girls go rite ahead because I know what appeals to me. If anyone has any help on my loser w/ women tell me.

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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!!

Well its not weird if its true love and that guy isn't taking advantage of her. It is weird, yes. But hey look at ashton and demi. Also my dads bff is married to some1 20 years younger than him.

If he's taking advantage of her, tell her she should dump him completely.

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ok, my boyfriend dumped me. but i have no idia why. he told me that he just didnt want a girl friend.. but i know thats not the reason. ive herd that way to many times before. i cant stop thinking about it. his name is all over my binder in sharpie.. i dont no what to do. im lost. it seems like there are no guys on the earth but him. does anyone know any ways to get my mind off him, or get over him?

Sometimes it takes awhile. I've been rejected from so many girls and sometimes took a year to get over them. Start hanging out with your friends alot more. Let your anger out on like a soccerball or punching bag or a golf driving range, basically a sport you play or something. Focus on something else like your hobbies. Well, if you one of those girls, GO SHOPPING!!! Meditate, go in a jacuzi, get a massage. Something relaxing and enjoyable. Burn all of his pix and that binder and get a new one.

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how do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? (guys and gurls answer this!) what are some signs and if i can tell he does should i just make the move or wait for him to? give me some help on kissing! muah** lol thanks!

When he's hesitant and shaky and nervous unless he's a cocky jock who loves himself and thinks the world obeys him.

Guys who are nice and are really into a girl get nervous and shaky

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what are some things u can say when ur talkin to ur crush and u wana keep the conversation going but he stopped talkin n theres nothing to say....plz help

well, what kind of music do u listen to, sports, where ya from, have you seen any good movies lately. Maybe he's just shy. Have any siblings. GET TO KNOW HIM by asking questions

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hey !! my name's arielle and im 13 from jersey !! i have a serious problem !! ok well theres this band [not famous] and the guys in it are like 15 and 16.. and i haev a crush on one of the guys in the band.. and hes 16. the band is in pa and im in nj but we live like 6 hours apart. im gunna go to their shows tho but im worried that when i go and i meet the guy in the band i have a crush on that hes gunna think im a kid cause hes like 16 and im only 13. i feel that like hes gunna look at me as like reeeeal young and not like me in *that way*. what should i do?

1st, I live in PA. Where in? second guys like younger girls. But don't let him take advantage of you. He's not gonna see you as a girl with taffy and a hoolahoop. He'll probably see you as a crazed fan, unless they're a VERY underground band. If they aren't go for guys who aren't famous. People who you know, that means no more colin farrell.

One more thing be yourself. If you have to be overly mature you're being someone your not. If he doesn't like you, well come find me I live in PA and single (just kidding). There's plenty of fish in the sea.

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Okay, i liked this boy right. And he supposedly "used" to like me too [thats what his friends all told me] cuz we used to flirt cuz our lockers are right next to one another. But anyway, i went to this party with one of my best friends and she was like "are you gunna talk to him??" and i was going to and i could hear his friends all saying when i got there "go talk to her!!" but i dont know what he said. But anyway, later on at the party him and a different one of my friends were hanging out a lot and ontop of one another [not literally] and stuff. And they ended up going out. I didnt talk to him for a while but im talking to him now like normally. But i kinda never gave up liking him. Now him and this girl broke up about 2 weeks later [no surprise there] but i kinda still like him. But i dont know what to do?

He may be really nervous and shy, damn I'm always like that. Ask him if he likes you, the answer may be painful but if it isn't it'll feel good. But before all of doing that look in to it, like see if he holds the door for you and/or if he picks up your books and lastly he you catch him looking at you alot be positive that he likes you. I do that all the time b/c i'm always desperate for women at all costs. If that doesn't work I'm sorry, but i'm sure it should

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