I am a 17 year old senior living in Chicago. When I go off to college i plan on majoring in psychology. This is because i am always told that i give great advice. I am a determined and willing person. I answer any and every question with care and i always give my true opinion. I put myself in that persons situation and answer the question with what ever i would do. I am trustworthy and i never give up.
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Location: Chicago
Occupation: student
Age: 17
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OK well I'm 16/f and I have a new boyfriend who I really like and both of us are really happy to be together. The problem is that we don't go to the same school so that really limits the frequency of us being able to see eachother. I wish I could see him more, but the fact is that I can't because there are certain things, like going to his house alone, that my parents are probably not exactly okay with. I haven't told them that we are dating, because I don't know how they will react. I'm not sure if that would make them more reluctant to letting us see eachother because they'll think something will happen between us, or if it will give me more freedom to date him. My parents are reasonable but still strict. The thing is that my boyfriend is really missing me and making it clear that he really wants to see me. I don't want him to be really upset that we can't see eachother more. I just need some advice on how to make this work in the long run, for both of us. Thank you :) (link)
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if your parents trust you enough they wont have a problem with you dating him but then you can also compromise. Get in good with his family and get him in good with your family that way you guys can be trusted to visit each others homes while parents are still there and then you both can be trusted to hang out alone. You guys might have to tell a little white lie everynow and then. But 16 is the natural dating age and your parents should already be prepared andready to deal with it. Talk it over with them and see what the compromise can be.
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16/f
Two weeks ago I invited 7 camp friends for a dinner party which I had on Friday. One of these people is a guy I like who worked in the same group as me and my best friend this past summer at camp (he sort of knew I like him, [long story] and I'm not sure if he still thinks I like him but he might, & I'm pretty sure he didn't like me back but everything worked out cause we talked about it and we'e still friends even though it was sort of awkward for a couple days). I sent an email invitation to all the people I was inviting in the same message on Facebook so I wouldn't have to send a bunch of different emails. People were sending messages back & forth within the message so I know he saw this invitation. Everybody answered within about 4-5 days after I sent it except for him. I sent him a separate message a week after I invited everybody asking if he was coming, and he never answered. Two days before the party, I asked my best friend to ask him, and he never answered her, and he was online all day so I'm sure he saw it. Some of my other friends and my cousin advised me not to say anything else to him, saying if he didn't end up coming it was his loss, or I'd just be pissing him off if I kept bothering him. He didn't show up last night. I briefly checked AIM during the night several times when nothing much was going & saw that he was on AIM, not away or idle, each time I checked. When I told some of my camp friends about it they were surprised saying that that's not like him, and I do agree, because he is a really, really nice person, we're still friends, and we always had fun working together during camp (we haven't talked much since camp ended, but we're still friends). I was also confused because I invited him to my birthday party a month ago that he legitimately wasn't able to come to, but said something to me about it. I'm very confused and disappointed about why he ignored my invitation, didn't show up, and sat on the computer all day instead. I know he doesn't hate me and we're friends, and I'm sure he would've wanted to see other camp people too. What might be a possible reason someone would do that? Should I confront him?
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if it bothers you that much you should comfront him in the nicest way possible. amd maybe he wasn't on the computer all day he might have never logged out. but if he still dont respond just forget about it because the day is over and gone. there will probably be future times that you guys all can hong out again. this is nothing to stress about.
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Okay so this guy doesn't have the same personality as most guys i've been with or liked..so i'm not really sure how to like get his attention. I don't really know him that well he's hung out with me and my friends like once but like i'm..interested in him? I don't have a crush on him or anything cause i really don't know him that well..i hope this makes sense lol. But how do i get his attention??
Or really how do you get any guys attention lol especially if you like see them in the hallway (link)
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the best thing to do is to tell him that you are interested without speaking to him directly. this sounds wierd but you have to use your eyes and your smile. If you see a guy in the hallway that you like make sure he sees you when you do this but look at him with the flirtiest look that you have smile and then glance away. this always works when i do it and this way it draws him in to you instead of you going after him in result of making a fool of yourself. be outgoing but hard to get. take control at all times and make sure that he falls head over hills for you.
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I'm a 15 year old girl.
So to start off you must know that according to people in my school I'm in the "popular" clique. It kinda sucks because whenever I like a guy they think I'm joking or pulling a prank just because of my "status". It really sucks because now people are like you must have really high standards because you don't like anyone! Which is totally not true it's pretty much the exact opposite! Someone please help me, what should I do? (link)
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well show people that you are not a cold hearted girl and tell the guy that you really like him but make sure he does not just like you for your status
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