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I have liked this one guy for nearly a year. We used to date over the summer, but then some stuff got messed up and we broke up. Well he managed to get over me but i never got over him. Recently he and I have gotten really close (somewhat) and we talk all the time. He has been throwing hints he likes me. And apparently he told a friend of mine he likes me. Well, on thursday he and 2 of my other friends (one guy on girl) went to hang out at his house. They got bored and found an unfinished house. Well, the guy i like and my really good friend (who knew i was head over heals for him) went into the house and made out...Yesterday we went to a new years party and the girl told another one of my friends about it. Who in turn told me. Now my friend (the girl) likes him and asumes he likes her as well. Both of the people who made out have yet to confront me about it. Im so devistated right now and i feel like having a break down...Please tell me what to do because im so frustrated...Thanks.
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You need to just ask him what his deal is. See if he's leading you on, or if he's really liking you. Well, your "good friend" obviously isn't very "good" if she knew you were head over heels and still went off and did that. Maybe asking her why she did that? Seeing if maybe he offered or something, always get both sides of the story. Hang in there.
there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?
He's definitely flirting with others and such, so I think he's just "leading you on" if that makes any sense. I'm not too sure if he likes you as much as you say if he flirts with others and you, 'cause they might even be thinking the same thing! Just ask him straight up if he does or not, that's always a good way to know.