Ok there is this girl that i have been best friends with for about two years. we arn't as close anymore because of fights. but ever since i met her i like, loved her. i cant get her out of my head. although im young (13) i know this isn't immature love. everyone seems to think im crazy because no matter how many times she breaks me, i still love her. i have been with her before, but... im not over it. i miss her so much. but the thing is, now, whenever im somewhere and she comes along. i wish she never came and just went home. but yet, i still feel the same way about her. and im not sure what i want completly. at the time, the thing is that i dont know how to get her out of my head. im starting to really lose consentration. im doing worse in school and im always sad. if anyone can please help me. i know its hard since i cant really ask a direct question... but try. i really miss her..
hey! i hope i can help you out! i know this may sound horrible at first, but try to get her out of ur head and maybe even see some new people. i know you might still feel the same about her, but the more you think about her, the more numb ull become. like you'll start to look desperate and if you do get over her one day, some girls might still think of you as desperate. i dont think you are, im just saying maybe try to get her out of your head. you cood also become so busy with things, you woodnt have time to think about her, but that might make you stressed. if all this doesnt work out, maybe just try to make you twos "best friend" relationship stronger, so that she doesnt think you're desperate, but instead a great best friend! soon ull start to think of her as one too! sry if i coodnt help! hope it does though!
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Hey! I'm a girl and 16, and I really like this guy, David. I used to be 95% possitive that he liked me too, but I think somethings changed. I'm thinking that he MIGHT like this other girl, but she has a boyfriend already. Lately, he's been acting like he doesnt care about me, at all! Like, he doesnt talk to me, unless I talk to him. I left him a voice mail message twice (two days in a row) saying what the plans were for the night, and he didnt even BOTHER to call back and say he couldnt come, or give me the time of day. It's really starting to aggrivate me. I want to ask him what is up, and why he's pretty much ignoring me, but its hard! The last time we were alone. things were really nice, and now hes just being a JERK! In school, I go out of my way, and go to his locker and walk with him in the hallways, but hes NEVER at my locker. EVER! He doesnt show any intrest, at all. And I want to know what is up! What should I do?
give him a call or get in his face and just truly ask him-why are you being like this? make him know your serious and if he keeps being like this, ull just let him go. no use loving a guy who acts like you dont exsist. i know it might hurt if he rejects u, but know that you didnt waste lots of ur time chasing after him-wondering...and also they're are many more fish in the sea, so open up! they're probably many guys that would be just as cute and nice as him, but would care about you alot more! :-)
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