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okay i know I'm only 13 and i have my hole life a head of me but i'v never had a boyfriend or a guy even ask me out=[ i have some guy friend but only a few of them are single and all of my close girlfriend have boyfriends and i and i don't want to call them hores but they've all gotten passed 2end base and i feel like no one gives a crap about me and no one will love me=[ i meen i think I'm pretty and allot of the guys i hang out with don't say I'm ugly and i mean none of my friend say i am but still I'm a nice person and well i have my flaws but I'm only human and i feel alone but i dont want to seem like a hore just to get a date but i don't know what to do or how to get a boy to like me as in more then a friend. (link)
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Seriously don't worry about it. Life is better without a guy, you can do what you want when you want. You flirt with anyone, dance with any guy at a dance and then next song dance with someone else. Just think about all the negitives that come with boys...DRAMA.
Boys aren't everything...and when you long for a boyfriend somehow it turns them away...don't know how it just does.
But have fun...live life!
Good luck!
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I am looking after this 6 year old. He is lovely. However, the mother recently left. I've been needed over a lot more to help out because his dad is really upset. After i've put the son to bed i go down and drink coffee with Brain (the dad). I can tell he really needs someone to talk to and we sometimes talk for ages. I dont want it to become inappropriate though so the conversation is usually quite censored. We talk about Tom (son) and about whether his wife has called. Thing is, we've become quite close. He's a really young dad but i dont want to split up a family or anything, so i would never initiate anythin. Thing is, he kissed me. It was completely random and he apologised loads afterwards. He said it was really wrong of him and he didnt want to loose me because im the only one he can talk to and ive helped out so much. We talked afterwards, my idea, i didnt want things to be awkward. He told me he liked me but would never want to put pressure on me and never intended on telling me.
I like him too. Its awful isnt it~? im a really bad person. But he's married. Its been 5 months since she's left and she hasnt called. And me and brian are becoming closer and closer "friends". nothings happened since, but i know if i wanted it to i could. I get on so well with Tom and i cant help thinking my morals are making me make the biggest mistake of my life (link)
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You should stay close with him, keep talking but don't like kiss him or let him kiss you. Wait till his divorce is final, you will know him better than, have a stronger realtionship with him and his son(always a plus) and you will have time to look over the situation and think about it. Time is the best thing, you can clear your head a little and figure out if this is really what you want.
But wait untill him and his wife figure things out, you don't want to blame yourself and wonder for the rest of your life and you don't want him to do the same thing. Let things kinda work things out a little and calm down.
Good luck
hope I helped!
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There is this guy I'm interested in, and I am pretty sure he is interested in me.
The thing is, he is quite rebellious. He drives fast, gets into violent fights, and pretty much questions and ignores all authority.
He acts like he doesn't like anybody, and acts like he is emotionally disconnected from the world around him. Is this a macho act? I don't know for sure.
The thing is, I seem to be an exception to his normal rule. I want to be the exception (He is very hot). He seems to want to connect on a personal level with me, like I'm different from the rest.
What are your thoughts? (link)
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Well he sounds perfect! I love the rebels. Anyways trying hanging out with him more away from everyone else he'll feel like he can open up more like he doesn't have so much to prove. Stay away from any topics a rebel could brag about. Like don't say omg I snuck out last night or anything like that cus he'll get into his element and be all I do that all the time. Just be casual, he'll feel "safer" and start tuning it down a notch and let you in more and more.
GOod Luck!
Hope I helped!
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okay so..im14/f and my boyufriend is 16. and over holiday break, his family went on vacation. they went on an 10 day cruise on the carribean. jealous? ya, me too. but while he was gone, new years happened. and i did something that i couldnt regret more. i hooked up with his best friend. but i couldnt really help it. we were at a house party. and it got crazy with liquor. and i drank. a lot. i was really wasted and out of it. but the point is, i have a very guilty conscience(?). i know that i wont feel okay untill i tell him. but how do you tell the person that you love with all of your heart that you cheated. how do you cheat on them in the first place. i feel dirty. hes the only person that i have ever been intimate with, and i know that i love him and he loves me back. its so hard to live with guilt. and i feel like a tramp. once again, how do i tell him. btw, hes incredibly strong and im sure he would hurt one of us. most likely the friend. what do i do to stop everything. (link)
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Well this is always a hard thing to do. Start by telling him you love him and then tell him the truth. You can include that you were drunk and you are sorry but don't use being drunk as an excuse if you make excuses he won't believe how sorry you are. After you explain it to him remind him it is not his friends fault it is soly(sp?) you fault. You are in the realtionship not the friend. You are the one who cheated it is you that can only be held responsible. Sorry to say that but it is true and I have a feeling from what you wrote you know that. But that may let him look at it from another point of view and keep him from being extremly angry with his friend. Point out also that you are telling him, it shows you love him and want him to trust you and you want to be honest with him. Just try to not make excuses, being drunk is not an excuse its a factor.
Good Luck!
HOpe i helped!
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