hello! im kristen yes i am a cheerleader and i am not a snob, brat, whatever you wanna call it so you shouldnt be haten i will answer anything and everything that i can and im not rude about any probs so dont be shy. i hate when people judge me, my friends or anyone so please dont judge me.
~love~*always*
~*kristen*~
Gender: Female
Location: kansas city missouri
Age: 14
Member Since: February 4, 2005
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Last Update: November 10, 2005
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is there a difference between going out end being gf/bf?
i have been going out with this guy for a while and people say oh you two are going out right? and i dont know if he considers us bf/gf? (link)
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well what i would do is one day when im hanging out with this guy i would have one of my friends there be like "so are you guys still together" or have one of you friends that has never met him come and have her say "so are you guys like boyfriend girlfriend?" and you dont answer just look at him and see what he says. well that how i found out that same qestion well i hope i have helped
*hugs*kristen*kisses*
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i go out with this kid names paul.. and he smokes weed and i dont like the fact that he dosee and hes 3 years older then me and its weird.. and i dont wanna breakup wiht him jus for that but i dont know what i wanna do right now..? what do you think i should do? pleasee help
i ratee welll! *♥hailey♥* (link)
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you need to confront him that you dont like the fact that he smokes so just call him or tell him in person that you would really like it if he tryed to quit smoking. and if he says no tell him that you really feel uncomfortible with it and if he really loves you he will atleaset try to quit. i hope i have helped
~*kristen*~
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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high (link)
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ok umm its not wrong to love a guy whos younger or older so just im just saying dont let anyone tell u whats wrong u just follow your heart ok
~*kristen*~
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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
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just tell him that you dont feel the same and that u would just rather be friends
if that wont work you can personally ask me again and i will try to give u a better answer
~*kristen*~
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I like this boy and I know for a fact that the feeling is mutual. I know enough about boys to be able to tell. But he isnt making a move. He's said before that he's pretty shy when it comes to girls..But this particular boy has had sex before. Only once though (so he says). Is it possible for a boy who has had sex before to be shy around girls now?! =S Help. (link)
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well yeah because yeah because your not the same girl so yeah hes prob. just shy xoxo love *kristen*
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ok so i want to break up with my boyfriend and i dont know how to do it. I want ot break up bcuz we dont talk that much and its just awkward. I am a girl and 14 yrs old...plz some one help, i wanna do it tomorrow
thanks sooooo much (link)
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just tell him things arent working you never call we never talk i think we talked more as friends then say sorry x0x0 love *kristen*
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I really like this guy and we have hung out acouple of times. We've done things but not sex or oral sex. We both want to do more then that but I want a real relationship also (we are not going out) Do you guys think doing alot of sexual things before going out could ruin the chances of a good relationship or possibly make them stronger? thanks :o) (link)
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um yes normally sex is allguys think about it kinda screws the relation ship up when all they want is sex but if you like the guy and thats all he wants then your really cant have a relationship built on love it will be built on sex xoxo love *kristen*
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do? (link)
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ok i think you should ask him if he is going to dump her then if he says no then forget him x0x0 love *kristen*
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I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it. (link)
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well i think you should keep doing it because girls love things like that it makes our day go great to know where loved by someone x0x0 love *kristen*
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i know this is kinda confusing...
ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?
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ok i think that he does because well when guys start to get personal about things yes i say that if you like him you should ask him if he has feelings for you xoxo love *kristen*
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My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks! (link)
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ok i think guys lik colonge axe is what i get my bf or you7 could give him a card like a poem saying that you love him to much to explain or somthing xoxo love *kristen*
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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help. (link)
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i think you should keep him i mean you should be driving soon and you really cant forget about him and untill you can drive maybe you guys could swicth off and stay at each others houses idk? xoxo love *kristen*
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My boyfriend and I are sorta in a fight right now. It seems like we have kinda been losing interist in one another. I dont want to just give up on our relationship this quick though. So does anyone have any advice on how to keep a relationship going, or what i can say to him tonight on the phone so he isnt mad at me anymore. Please help!!!! (link)
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tell him that you love him and that your sorry xoxo love *kristen*
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OK im a female 14 years old. Last year i really loved this guy who didnt go to my school but we saw each other alot because he was best friends with my neighbor. Him and i went out for about 4 month for me its was a longest relationship i ever had and he was my first kiss and stuff and then we broke up because he thought i liked another guy well i kind of did but not really and when the guy i was going out with dumped me i didnt really care but then maybe a week went by and i saw him again and brought up alot of memories back but we werent together anymore. After that day i realized how much i want to be with him and how much he means to me. I called him and told him that me liking other guy wasnt true and he said okay and i dont think he cAred then i heard from someone he likes me againa then next time i saw him he didnt. I still liked him alot but we jsut didnt see each other at all over the summer. Well next year(this year) i go to his school and he is on 2 of my classes so i see him alot and everytime i see him i get the memories back. My biggest wish in this whole world if we would go out again then i will be the happies i ever been. Well i had a little chance before getting back together but now he is going out with this girl that he went out last year right before we went out and he dumped her for me but not they are back together. I dont know what to do because ive tried to move i had alot of bf`s after him when his first gf after me was liek a year after we broke up and ya well i want to get back with him together but im not sure if its possible so should i just keep on trying to move or keep on trying to get him back???? plz i really need help i like that guys for over year and a half now and i cant tell him that cuz he has a gf that im really good friends. (link)
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ok if his gf is your friend you need to tell her and if shes your real friend she wont date him but if she not like one of the people that you talk to every onec ina while then you need to tell him or you just have to let go of him xoxo love *kristen*
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13/m....i went to a dance alone cuz my mom made me go -.- so i was sitting down and this girl came up to me and started to talk to me. i never met her before but i danced with her and even bought her candy. we walked around and talked most the time......what do i say to her tommorrow at school? (link)
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just go up to her and say hey whats up? did you have fun last night with me just like do annything to start a convo xoxo love
*kristen*
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I'm 16 and in high school. Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up at the beginning of September. I had broken up with him because I wanted to be with someone else. It didn't work between us and I have been single for quite awhile. I really like this guy that I know, but recently me and my ex have been spending alot of time on the phone. I don't like him as a boyfriend anymore cause I like someone else. My ex flirts with me and calls me all the time. I try not to be mean or anything but I don't like him like that anymore. I have a feeling that he might ask me out again. I don't know how to tell him that I like someone else. What should I do? Please help me.
~Confused Chica~ (link)
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dear confused chica you should tell him youn dont like him that way you just like him as a friend thats what i always do but plz be nice about it cause he will be pretty sad about it xoxo love *kristen*
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ok .... welL .. mYy friend likes my boyfriend who i love sO0o much!! but thats not alL .. last year me and her both liked him sO0o he asked me out . we went out 4months broke up went out for 2months then they went out 3months broke up me and him went out and now me and him have been goin out for 3months and hes the oonly boy i have accually really loved ... now that she likes him im scared that she'lL take him from me like before. because them to always talk online and telL eachother EVERYTHiNG ... and i kinda get jealous because he doesnt telL me everything ... HELP ME ... Love, Lost (link)
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dear love lost i have had the same problem sit down and have a chat with her and if she say she likes and and shes gonna take him from you what kinda friend does that? and tell her that he really means alot to you and if she dont understand well maybe you both should ginve him up because friends will always be here guys come ad go so plz stick with your friend xoxo love *kristen*
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There is this guy that use to go to my school lets call him "S" and "S" was so nice to me and everthing and when i went out with this one guy lets call him "J" and broke up with "J", "J" started threatning me and stuff so "S" beat "J" up because "J" was threatning me so "S" got expelled for fighting and i really miss him and i want to go out with him but i havent seen him since he got expelled and "S" is in 8th and im in 7th and im 13 and i wont be able to see him until i get in 9th but all my friends have been trying to hook me up with alot of guys and the guys have asked me out and stuff but i say no because im really depressed and only want "S" but i cant have "S" until 2 years and i dont know if "S" will still like me so what should i do
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ok do you know any one that knows him well enough that they would have his # if so than you could get it and call him?or you could go for a walk and look for his house if he lives around you im sorry girl thats all ive got good luck though xoxo love *kristen*
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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him? (link)
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im haveing the exact same problem i just keep saying no matter what you do wesley i will always love you and then he says that he loves me but im to young he 15 and 13 i think you should tell him xoxo love *kristen*
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i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything! (link)
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just say do you still like me at all? and he will probley ask you the same thing do you have feelings for me? love *kristen*
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