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Q: 15/m
Okay, I've been going out with this girl for a long time and to be honest, everything is really boring between us. I feel like it's my fault that I let everything get so boring, but she's so intimidating that it's hard to make a move or try something different...
She's not really like most girls which is one of the things I like about her, but it's also a bad thing in some way because I don't know what she's thinking.
It's always the same thing: Say "I love you" when she has to leave and maybe kiss her and that's it. So I guess what I'm asking is what else can I do to keep this relationship going?
Thanks in advance.
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there's nothing intimidating if you really love a person. just be yourself! if you don't know what she's really up to then why don't you start a conversation like, "what are your plans this weekend?".. discover what she likes to do.. if she loves nature then go camping or have a peaceful walk in the park. if you really don't want to lose her then do everything it takes to keep her. the Simpler the better.like leaving romantic notes on her table, asking her to watch a concert, etc. and make lots of memories together!
glad to help!
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Q: I want to know if i'm a mean girlfriend. Some people tell me I am. But my boyfriend says im not. The other people tell me im mean because I hit my boyfriend all the time. But im only playing around when I do it. Sometimes I will call him a bitch and other names like gay. But like I said im only playing around. I really want to know if Im mean. Because I don't want to lose him. So am I a mean girlfriend?
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not at all. but sometimes ur a bit rude. it's kind of sweet to hit a guy out of affection but too much hitting can make unpleasant impressions.. Never put a title to a person neither call him/her names. Think of it if he's the one who calls u bitch or whatever. Be gentle and you'll see a difference.
glad to help!
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Q: is there any sure fire way to tell if two people ae going out besides asking?
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check any things he carries with him like a wallet with a girl's pix, if he texts or uses his cellphone a lot! , he stays away from girl acquiantances................
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Q: this boy, he tells all his friends he wants to make-out with me, and he tells ME that, but then i said no that i didnt want to, because it messes things up because we like eachother but were not going out because im not allowed 2have a boyfriend. so hes cool with it. and so, i see him every saturday all day my group hangs out with his group, and also in the halls or whatever. in the halls, we always make eye-contact and ill stop talking 2my friends and hell stop talking 2 his friends and well kinda have that stare, but then it ends and so on saturdays and in school and everything, what are some flirting things i can do? he always catches me staring at him, is that bad or good? any opinions on what i can do to like get him to like me more maybe? or anything flirting tips and stuff. thanx so so much! really, advicenators people ROCK lol!!
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a STARE is a bit good if the kind is an innocent stare.. but if it's the kind of stare with another meaning then......... y'know.
i think that Flirting tips is inappropriate,, kidding!
well... what's way better for me is to wait for the guy to make the right and first move. Some guys hate giggling (kind of flirting) infront or behind their back.. it's more of an insult for them. Just a simple smile or hello or "have you eaten already?" lines will do.. and remember.. the more you act simply.. the more you will catch his attention..............make the image you want to project appealing not APPALLING.
GLAD TO HELP!
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Q: Ok so i got a boufriend we have been going out for like 2 weeks and ii have absoultly no feelings for him ='[ when he touches me i feel werid and everythiing i want to end it but i dnt know how if i do alot of people will hate me so pelase help i dont nkow what to do please anyone help me the more advice the better =[
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i really don't find the reason why you forced yourself in bein with somebody you are not commited to...... the best defense is the right offense. so just go ahead, talk to him about everything you feel. Do not feel the urge in coming clean because it will worsen the situation. Take note: A relationship with a person you don't like is scary and troublesome. Afterall, it's only 2 weeks that ur dating so i guess there's nothing intimate at stake.
Come on.. i know that u believe in urself. Talk to him or better yet.. let your friend accompany you in doing the Conversation Thing..
Glad to help!
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Q: Okay, so I am going to college next school year.
I've never been into any real or intimate relationships because there's not a lot of guys to choose from in our school(if you know what i mean...;) ).
I want to attract guys in college. Any ways as to how I can do that?
Thanks!
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ok.. attraction comes in the most unpredictable way. don't you hurry about in being in a real relationship because believe me, love comes in really mysterious ways..
Guys usually go for the silent type of girl but in the end it's your personality that counts.. Be always pleasant and kind.. Don't be a hypocrite and just be yourself. Don't be rude and if there are guys you really don't like, just be gentle.. ok? In dressing up, (yeah... i know..they've no right) but guys prefer brainy girls than girls in mini skirts.. and when i say Brainy- it's not the geeky kind.
And lastly, giggling is a no-no behind a guy's back.. it's more of an insult for him.
glad i could somehow help!
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bio
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hi! I'm Alyssa. I love to meet new friends!
A lot of times, I've been regarded as a good advicer. I am an optimistic person. I believe that life is all about imperfections. I am not perfect but there's so many things to be a great one. Right?
Just be open to yourself and let me know what's really bothering you.
I'll try my best to help and somewhat brighten up your day.
God Bless You all!
Life is Good if you dare Live it!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Baguio City, Philippines Occupation: student Age: 16 Member Since: September 24, 2006 Answers: 7 Last Update: July 24, 2007 Visitors: 2475
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