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Q: Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date?
talk to her as soon as possible....call her now

Q: Well, there is this guy i like and his bday is in a few days and i dont know what to say/do for him. Any ideas? (and im pretty good friends with him)

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take him to a ball game or something....there is bound to be a pro/college football/basketball game around......hope that helps

Q: ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them?
just say thank you and compliment them back....everyone likes to be complimented back....hope that helps

Q: ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more?
theres not much you can do....just do what youve been doing for however long youve been dating her

Q: There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)

is he the guy for me?

please help !
i can tell you from experience that its difficult to talk to the girl they like. Its much better for you to make the first move and initiate the conversation...once you start talking to him i promise you he will become more outgoing and stuff.....hope that helps....please rate

Q: Ok. My recent exboyfriend & I both work at the same place. That is how we met but now still have to work together despite us breaking up. It has only been about 2 weeks since we broke up and he's been telling everyone at work that it was mostly him who wanted to break up. I know this is kind of dumb but this bothers me because I was the one who had to bring it up(us breaking up). He never said anything to me about wanting to break up. And so he knows that it was mutual yet he's telling everyone that it was mostly him. He's the type of person to be boastful about things so this is just another added bonus. Should I confront him about it and how this bothers me and risk our friendship or just let it go and let him have his fame & glory?
just let him have his fifteen minutes of glory....itll all blow over. If you make a big production about it people will think you are the jerk in the relationship...youre probably thinking that im retarded and stuff because hes making you look like the jerk because youre the reason why you broke up with him. I can vouch for experience in saying that I (a 17/m) like to take credit for stuff....if you just let him talk then people will get annoyed with him and start to ignore him...its all a matter of time. i hope that helped....please rate

Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He is everything i want..almost. we have a great physical realtaionship, but the mental/emotional stinks. How can i make it better because i nee him to be there for me in both
When approaching a relationship it is vital to have the communication in a relationship...not only will you be able to work out differences...it can help you get your point across when needed. To answer your question...sit him down without any distractions and tell him how you really feel. Dont give in to the physical part when trying to talk to him because he wont listen and only think about what hes gonna do with you. Ive had my share with this experience and you need to tell him straight up that you need him there. He'll understand and if he doesnt then its time to find someone else.

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Well....my name is Brian and Im 17...currently a junior in high school and someday want to go into the medical field...im outgoing and am easy to talk to...give me a hollar if you want to talk...ask me questions and ill answer them to the best of my ability.......later

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