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Im a normal person. I have problems as well as give advice. I have been through many friendship problems , family problems, boy problems..the lot. I am very opinionated && I like it that way. I like to give as much advice as I can instead of like 2 sentences. I like to get feedback so I know how people feel about my advice.
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my sister and i got in a huge physical fight today. she started punching me and tried knocking my door down with a fieldhockey stick in her hand. I imed my boyfriend of over a year, begging him to pick me up and help me and get me out of my house before it got worse, and he was like whatever make peace with her i got to go. i dont know what to do, was that assholeish of him or no? (link)
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hey there
that was such a horrible thing for him to do.
you felt like you were in danger and you wanted to get out.
and he wasnt there to support you.
even though you wanted to make sure it wouldnt get any worse by leaving.
that was mean of him
if i were you .. i would talk to him about that.
because what if you got badly hurt after you asked him to pick you up and he wouldnt.
he would of felt so bad if you got seriously injured.
i hope you sort things out with your sister.
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My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We decided to stay best friends because we both care about eachother very much. The problem is that I find myself still loving him and he on the other hand still likes me a tiny bit, but does not want a relationship with me because he was unhappy with it. I was a total wreck at first, but I've come a long way. I am still nowhere near over him though...Well, he likes another girl and I know that they've been having a thing with eachother, but now it turns out that she likes someone else more than she likes him. So, he's now getting heartbroken.. :/ Naturally, as his best friend I am helping him feel better about her. But it just pains me that he's sulking over HER. I realize that at some point he may have been sulking over me instead....I know that we are over. I know that we can not happen again because he doesn't feel that I am the "one". But there is always that hope that maybe...someday...just maybe. I want to stop that hope and these feelings. I know I can't just change the way I feel but I would really appreciate some help in trying to make these feelings stop persisting. :/ Thanks. (link)
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I think you both need a break from each other, just for a while so you have to to breathe.
You agreed on being bestfriends straight out of your realtionship breaking up.
Bad idea.
because either one or the other still has alot of feelings for the other person.
Naturally, after a break up, you would have a break from each other so both people have a chance to chill and have a bit of relaxtion time and hanging out with friends to keep your mind off of it.
Then the feelings will start to fade the less you talk and see him.
I know it sounds REALLY weird and REALLY sad saying that you should talk to him less and see him less but its just a break. Even if its just for a week or so.
Then after your break.
You should then just be friends.
Im not saying forget all your good memories.
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Im not saying dont talk to him at all or be friends with him at all because that would be silly.
Just a break would be good and healthy, then you can rebuild your friendship :)
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i've been head over heels in love with the same guy for about a year and a half. we've broken up a few times, but got back together usually within a few weeks or a month. well this go round, we're trying not to get too serious. like, we don't even call eachother "boyfriend/girlfriend" and because we don't do that, we're not fighting as much because there's no pressure tag hanging over our heads.
a few times a while back, we'd talk about the future; kids, marriage, moving in together, etc. and i thought he and i were on the same page about all that. well, now we're together but not as serious? and i asked him the other day if he ever plans to get married, but not to me, just anybody. and he said he didnt know. that actually semi-shocked me. so now i'm thinking we're no longer on the same page about our futures. like i knew we wouldnt be agreeing on every little thing, for instance, i wanna stay put, he wants to travel. he wants to go to college, and i wanna be done with school after 12th grade. i want kids early in life, he wants time to party and THEN have kids.
my plan is the stereotypical family plan, i wanna get married and have no more than two kids. and i want my boyfriend to be my husband and the father of my kids. but from what he's been implying, i dont think thats gonna happen. i want to talk to him about it in depth, but i don't want to make him feel cornered. and i know this is kind of a stupid topic to bring up to him, but i hate feeling like i'm working so hard for something just to find out that my time has been so terribly wasted. so i want to find out about this from him NOW, not later in the future. because if he doesnt want what i want, then i want to end this relationship before i get too badly attached, (i did get very attached to him at one point and became very depressed when he dumped me, obviously, don't want that to happen again,)
anyone with any sort of advice, please let me know. by the way, i wouldn't care if it was what i wanna hear, or if you wanna tell me that i'm an obsessive compulsive bitch, go right ahead. i just need advice. thanks, and sorry this is so long. (link)
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Im guessing your nearly 18 or around 18? Well, this is what I want to know. How do you know EXACTLY what is going to happen in the future.? These are your plans and what you would like. You have no idea of any barriers that could be getting in way of your plans. You could have a unplanned baby. He might change his mind about college or travelling. Your boyfriend may be at that point where he doesnt quite know exactly what he wants in the near future. you might change your mind about alot of things. Having kids and a husband seems like a committment your willing to have. I wouldnt dump him. It seems like you have been through very harsh times and I understand that. To be honest. You need to sit down again and talk to him about it because it seems like there is alot you havnt told him.. I could be wrong.. but its just an opinion. Finish school first. Then see what happens in the long run. I suggest you dont let alot of things interupt your school life as education is very important. Carry on the realtionship if you think it is going to work. Ive said what I think.. so now its down to you!
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so EVERYBODY always says that you have to play hard to get for guys. what does that mean. like i dont get it because they always say to not go after them but if you dont go after them then they think that you dont like them because you never try to talk to them or whatever. just someone help me, i dont get it. i rat 5 for everybody.(: (link)
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No. Look.
none of this play hard to get Bulls***..
If you like someone or think someone is attractive.
You go for it..
Dont hold back because you propably wont get them in the end.
So if you like someone.
go get them,
no playing hard to get.
it doesnt get you anywhere.
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