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ok so i liked one of my guy friends for like 6 months (since sweetheart) and finally when we were on a plane trip back from canada he asked me out. ofcourse i said yes and was extremely psyched. well, when i got home, my mom told me i wasn't allowed to date until i turned 16. so, i am 15 and i don't know what to do. it is another 6 months until i turn 16 and me and him have already made out and done a little more. so i don't know what to do. should i just hide our relationship from my mom? she knows we are friends, but should i wait until i turn 16 to tell her we are more than friends. and just pretend like he asked me out the day after i turned 16? please help! (link)
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I think that you should respect your mom's wishes. But this is kind of a don't ask, don't tell situation. If she ask's you if you are dating this guy you need to tell her the truth. But as long as she doesn't ask anything. Then what she doesn't know won't hurt her. This is a alternate route instead of lying because that will jsut get you into more trouble. Hope I helped!
Emily
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OK...i love this guy sooo much and ive been with ihm forever...but lately all ive been feeling is confused...and tonight i met this AWESOME guy who gave me butterflies and just made me happy. but then again ive been with my boyfriend for sooo long i cudnt imagine not being with him...im soo confused (link)
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dear confused,
I'm going to try the best I can to help you. But keep in mind, no one can tell you what to think, do, or say. But you can be influenced. So what I'm going to say is that, If you are devote to your boyfriend then you need t otry and ignore the other feelings you are having. But if your relationship is even a tad shaky, It never hurts to explore new things. Just don't do something you're going to regret. and last but not least. The most important thing is you need to listen to yourself and follow your heart because it won't steer you wrong I promise. I hope I helped!
Emily
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imma 14 year old girl..Soo..i guess i need advice on this one. I met this guy at camp..and after meeting up a little while after camp we started to like each other. i mean he's a great guy..nice, funny, and mighty fine!! only problem is..he lives like 20-25 min. away on like a highway..and he's so shy so i donno if anything will happen. soo jump on it, or wait it out? (link)
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Just want to let you know that I'm going through exactly the same thing right now. And If you really trust and you know that he would never do anything then don't worry about it. But if you are still concerned then you probably need to talk to him about it. If he know's it would upset you then he probably wouldn't do it. I hope I helped!
Emily
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