I've been through pretty much everything u can go through in 15 years: death, love, loss, betrayel, attampted scuicide, stupid attention ideas, dissapointment, led on, false accusations... ect. All these things (and more) are what make me want to be here. I have grown soo much since i went through all of this. I've learned how to deal with things in a rational and finalizing way. So I came here to help anyone who needs help with anything. I have always givin advice to people, started off with ym parrents when i was 9. If anyone needs any advice whatsoever... u know where to find me!
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Ok my boyfriend and me had been going out for about...2 months...we had been pretty close friends for like 5 months before that. Well, he really was a sweet guy, but I kinda cheated on him with this dude...well not exactly, the guy kissed me. anyways, my boyfriend forgave me. but today he was like, "i think we should take a break. im not breaking up with u exactly, but i just think we should take a break for a while. i will probably want to get back with you in the near future." what do i do? wait for him??? im just confused right now. (link)
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there are two sides to this: 1) he needs a break to sit down and think things over. u kinda did betray him (in a way) so give him some time. if u guys are close, then u will be fine. 2) what happened really hurt him and he is trying to figure out way of getting through it. could be by eventually breaking it off. but u have to realize that u owe it to him to give him some time to think things through. u just have to sit back and wait and hope for the best.
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I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
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First off, you cant let yourself go back to him, and u cant make yourself find another guy. Rebound can only hurt someone who thinks u truly like them. Just focuz on your life, dont worry about guys. Most of us are assholes, some arent, just depends on the guy. Be optamistic, never doubt another guy because u were hurt b4. I've been cheated on 3 times, but then i met my current gf, and now I am the happiest guy alive. just dont spend too much time wandering in your mind. It is ok to think about him, just dont let yourself make up scenarios, telling yourself what happened and why it happened, just let bygones be bygones and be thankful u had that in the first place! good luck! peace, love and happyness... -shea
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