I understan things that most people have poblems with in fact i have a lot of problems too. my friends tell me that giving advice is my future. I love helping people, I listen to what you have to say.
I sont make snap disisions about u from anything you say.
Some times lifes gives you lemons(i know what your thinking, and make lemonade ow corny what a cliche.)
So let me start again when life gives you lemons squeez the juice into a watergun and shoot it into peoples eyes or throw the lemon right back and say what the hell am i supposed to do with a leon im here 24/7 and ill help i swear
Gender: Female
Location: nowheresville usa
Occupation: student duh
Age: 14
AIM: scarymonkey1991
Member Since: December 6, 2003
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Ok see here is the problem,I really want a boyfriend but I am afraid I will not get one because i am what some people call gothic and what other people call punk or a skater.I dont know what to do!I really want a boyfriend i feel so lonely without one what can i do to get one without changing who i am or what i belive in? Also i dont like getting rejected i think it is akward. (link)
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everyone is there individual self if someone really likes you they will like you for you wat for your time if you do things will be worth it everyone gets rejected atleast once dont think anything about it
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whats the best way to tell someone you don't like them anymore?
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let them down easy but make sure they know you dont like them
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I like a guy(GUY 1), I don't know if he likes me. I think he does but I'm not sure. I'm 16 he's 18. We work together. We're friends.
So far it's relatively bog standard dilemma.
However...
I just had a mess up with one of the other guys(GUY 2) at work (he liked me, I don't like him but he thought I did). Guy 1 suggested that we pretend to be dating to basically piss of GUY 2( what the hell is that suggesting). Without thinking, I agreed.
What the hell am I supposed to do? (link)
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whoa im pathetic too what a coinkidinki
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..ok...soo....its been a few months since my boyfriend and I broke up, and I was upset, but now I'm ok with it. And he has a new girlfriend, but yet...my friends say he always watches me when I walk past, but he tries to hide it (he doesn't do a very good job). And when you ask him if he would ever go back out with me, He's like No I'm happy with (we'll call her Bob) Bob. So then what's with the watching me crap? Could somebody explain it to me? Ahhh. Thanks. (link)
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ewww he is watching u crap what a freak oh and it is called break up syndrom he cant help klooking at u just like u cant help talking bout him it will stop in a lil while just be patient
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i went out wit this boy 2 years ago and we broke up and everything. well his friend keeps telling me that he likes me and wanted to go back out wit me. well he acts like it i guess but i really dont know. it seems like he gets kinda scared to talk to me because he would only say "small talk" to me. but starting today i started liking him again and i dont know what to do. help me!!!! (link)
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if u like this guy and he likes u ak him out he is probably just doin that b-cuz he is like shy b-cuz he doesnt know that u feel the same way
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I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my church, but he HATES my guts. I actually think I love him, but I dont know why. What should I do?
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do u know he hates ur guts?ifnot find out all the facts b4 u accuse and if he does dont like him know it is hard but find a new crush b-cuz hun it aint ganna happen
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For the ones who have read the Ex-boyfriend Gone Mad and Dreams Column, I need your advice again. OK, so some of you said that I might have feelings for him. And some of you said that I might miss him. I can't like him!!! Number 1: My parents WONT allow it. Number 2: My parents wont let me see him anymore. Number 3: I have a boyfriend that is true to me and is everything I wanted out of a guy. But the love that my boyfriend and I share...it so different. And I don't want to like my EX because I don't want to be a "slut". Plus I don't want to like my EX because I will just end up getting hurt again. But then, WHY am I having dreams about him EVERY night? And today, I did the "ABCDEFG" thing with the soda can and it landed on "J" which is the beginging letter of my EX boyfriends name. I talked to a physic and she said that I am gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life. What do you think she ment by that? Like, am I gonna be with him as a married couple? Or just friends? Or am I just gonna know him for the rest of my life? What are all of the signs about? Why am I getting them anyways? I need your advice ASAP!
P.S. I will be seeing my EX at a play that he is in because my friend is in the same play that my EX is in. Should I talk to him or not? If so, what should I say? Or do??
Sincerely,
CONFUSED! (link)
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talk to him trust me u r probably just needing that maybe u just like him i know u dont want to but thats how it goes u probably still have a place in ur heart for him and that place will hold him forver
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I ask alot of questions. . lately* lol
Well I was wondering, how can i tell fi my crush likes me? He acts dumb sometimes around me, and It was my frist day of school, But i started when everyone else did, and he was the first person to talk to me, he said how come u dont talk, I was like in my head, omg i dont know wut to say. . I dont know anyone!! And I just sat their staring at him, he was so adorable! And omg. . I dont know One time at recess it was wicked freezing and he wa slike i cant feel my toes. . it was soo cute, then my frined *a guy friend which is my crish's frined too* Stepped on my crush's toes! And he said oooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. . it was so funny/cute!
Then my friend said, how could u feel that if us ai du couldnt fel ur toes?!
I was so mad at her. . lol she was evil to my man!
Also when he walks by me he acts dumb/funny
And I think he thinks I like him* which I do*
Then their is the kdi i aksed about I kidna like him, but I duno hes a fun perosna nd all, but I duno. . I think of him as a friend! U know But my crush I wnat to marry this person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But Im not sure. . I mean if he lieks me. .do u think he does, please help! he doesnt talk to me that much. . but i duno. . i think its cuz he switche doutta my class. and well he cnat rlly talk to me cept 4 recess, , which he is always with his frineds! (link)
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he likes u atleast as a friend but the way to find out if he likes u is to have a friend to ask him or to ask him ur slef that is the only way uwill find out
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Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do? (link)
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I BET U GIRLS LIKE U AND UR STANDERDS ARE TOO HIGH PEOPLE ARENT GOING TO LIKE U IF U THINK TOO HIGHTLY OF URSLEF IS THERE A SPECIFIC GIRL WHO U LIKE? WELL TELL ME IN MY PERSONL COLUMN AND ILL BE EXTREEMLY HAPPY TO HELP U UR NAME WOULDNT HAPPEN TO BE XANE OLSEN WOULD IT?
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There is someone, a kid a guy. . well im not sur eif he likes me or not. . See we sit next to each othe rin math class. . and well he talks ot me alot laughs wiht me and well he trys to ge tmy attention laot, and he plays aroudn like hits me and stuff, liek not hard but playfully. . and its like I duno if he just my firnd or if he lieks me more than that!?>!?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I AM ONLY GOING TO SAY ONE THING THIS GUY NO MATTER WHO HE IS LIKES U
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Okay i like this girl a whole lot but i am to afraid to talk to her becuase i got helled back this year so now she's in eighth grade and i'm in seventh so should i still talk to her (link)
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yes u should no matter what grade u r in u r still her age go for it just do what u gatta do
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hey, listen, i have a bad problem with dating guys. i mean evrytime i go out with a guy i end up finding out his using me after i really fall for them too. how can i prevent myself from looking so easy in front of guys? (link)
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1.get to know the guy first
2.if u arent into them in the begining don start the relasioship these r the only things i can tell u to do and u r still ganna date poeple like that but these things whould help
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I need help my crush does not have a crush on me what should i do? (link)
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ok spend sometime with him i mean alone time and if he still isnt into u like someone else b-cuz there is nothing u ccan do about it
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THANKS FOR ANSWERING MY HELP!! QUESTION.
PLEASE TRY TO ANSWER MY OTHER QUESTION WHICH IS "FRIEND HELP". (link)
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no prob im here to answer the questions i enjoy it ill answer ur other ones too
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Okay,
So I think most of you know about my ex-boyfriend issue. And my last questions subject was "ex-boyfriend gone mad" Well, I have a NEW and better BF, and I told my parents and they talked to my ex-boyfriends parents and sorted everything out, kinda. But now I never get to see my ex-boyfriend. And I'm not crying about it either. But I DO see him in my dreams, and I don't know why! In my dreams he acts like he use to act when we wasn't abusive and lieing. In my dreams he acts like the person that I use to like. But then, toward the end of my dream there's this voice that says to me that he's no longer like that person. And I no that, so why and I having dreams about him?? I need your advice!
Sincerely,
Dream (link)
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u r rpobably just remebering the good times in ur dreams it is normal dont worry about it u may also be regreting not be able to see him subconcouisly or regretting the break up just dont worry about it and have sweet fun dreams
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I am tooo shy I swear. . !!! I really like this guy, but whenever I'm around him I get so nervouse and dontt alk I just sit there! He got mad at me once, because we were doign somethign and I wouldn't sya anything, but when he left I was talking up a storm, taking control! it was like he was soo hott, and Uggh! I don't know what to do. . I'm not sure if he likes me, but I caught him staring at me. . But that doesnt mean he likes me right?? I want to ask him out so badly, but I'm afraid he doesnt like me and I am just too nervous to ask him myself!!!
What I'm trying to ask is, Why am I so nervous around him, and why don't I have the guts to go up to him and tell him that I love him and I really want to go out with him?"
*Sorry about typos* . .if there are any!!! lol (link)
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i totally get the being too shy thing but no need for that two years ago i barely talked now i talk to everyone everwhere u r at a stage and as for asking him out go for it the worst that can happen is for him to say no u gatta do this for yourself thats all i can say u have to help urslef along with this
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How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy. (link)
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first of all why do u want to make urslef look more misterious so they will like u? welll if that is what u r wanting to do then all y have to do is not go aroundtellin everybody everything about u and seem shy and distant but not afriad to speakk ur mind and as for not seeming easy all u have to do is not sleep aroung or dress sltty i know harsh but it is true and if u r labled easy there is bound to be a reason for it
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my friend likes this guy we hang around with. But the problem is that he doesnt like her even though when there alone he kisses her. The biggest problem is that me and him interacts very well and we kissed i mean really kissed and my friend knows that i dont like him so she doesnt mind after all the shit he has said about her. Am i being a good friend? if not how can i.
P.S. i secretly like him. (link)
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if u really want to be a good friend tell her and tell her that this guy doesnt like her if u dont she will probably end up getting hurt or takin atvantage of just trust me it may be hard and she may get mad at u but atleast that way u know that u kept her from gettin hurt worse than she ciould of and by the way ur welcome
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im curiopus about sex but im afarid of the consequenses involed plus my partner is pressuring me into it (link)
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if u r afraid u r not ready and if ur partner keeps presuing u into break up he isnt right for u
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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
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girls can ask guys out it is perfectly ok to but sometimes if u really like the person u should take a shot at it no matter how shy u r that the only way anything will ever get done
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