Hello, stranger reading my page.
I don't get on here that much, mostly when I need advice, and then I scroll through and come across other good questions.
I'm 19. Trying to get into nursing school.
I live with my boyfriend. I love animals.
I have a 55 gallon saltwater aquarium.
E-mail: midnightxxheart07@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
Occupation: bein a ninja
Age: 20
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My boyfriend recently changed his profile picture and it's him and his ex in his arms.. Should I be worried? I had my best friend ask him (I know I shouldn't have done that, but I was freaking out) and he said that it's his ex and she's dating his friend. She got really jealous a few days ago when she saw us together (This was when I didn't know who she was, but then when I saw her in the picture that's why I freaked out). I don't really want to talk or ask him about it because I don't want him to think I'm jealous and stuff... He hasn't changed his attitude around me and he still tells me he loves me, but should I be worried? (link)
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In my opinion, you should be. I think showing pictures with his ex is kind of weird because he's not with her anymore and if she got jealous of you guys and then he did that then he must still have some kind of feelings for her.
It doesn't mean he doesn't like you and try not to take it as if you did anything wrong. they were probably together for a while and he's having a hard time moving on.
Tell him how you feel and encourage him to cut ties and give him some time to let her go but like I wouldn't want them hanging out alone.
If he can't let her go and focus on you in a few weeks, it's probably time for you to move on.
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Well my name is Allison 13/f and I told this guy Jordan 15 that I would want to have sex. He has already told me he wants to. Well we have already been having to sneek around because we are not supposed to be together. Well, we have been because we are both in a play. So, he keeps telling me that we have to figure out where we can have sex. But I can never meet him anywhere because my dad doesn't let me do anything. Anyway I think when I see him today we are going to make out and stuff. But was it right to tell him that back? I don't feel bad though. (link)
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Please, take my advice: I lost my virginity when I was thirteen years old. It wasn't special, it wasn't even fun. I, like you, was not even dating the guy. You will enjoy sex much more if you wait just a few more years, until you are with a boyfriend who means a lot to you. Your first time is supposed to be meaningful. Still, it is your decision to make and if you do it, please at least make sure he wears protection. That should always be your number one priority. You do not want a baby now, or worse. And to answer your question, it was not wrong to tell him that, that's just your hormones kicking in. When I was your age, I hated being told I was too young for anything. So I did not wait to do it all. Sex, drinking, you name it. Now, I'm eighteen and wish I had waited. I really hope that I helped.
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I'm not too experienced when it comes to guys, so whenever I'm out with one I always tense up because I'm scared he's gonna think I'm a complete loser for being an un expierenced 22 year old. Are there any pointers to make sure a guy is enjoying himself and not suspicious of the fact that I may not know exactly what to do? (link)
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Just be yourself. Try not to act too nervous or he might think something is wrong with him or even youre not comfortable or happy with whatever youre doing. Go with what your gut tells you, and put on a pretty smile. It can be to your advantage for the guy to know youre unexperienced with dating, he will easily think no other guys are good enough for you and hes got something special.
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ok well i dont know what to do. i have a crush on this guy and we've been talking and then he told me he had a girlfriend. but im not giving up, and the more we talk the more i like him.
but the thing is since he has a girlfriend we cant really hang out because im not that kind of girl to do that to someone. but then yesterday he was like i talk to a lot of girls and i was like ok. and he was leading me on because he told he thought i was cute (he said your pretty damn cute) and that if he didnt have a girlfriend he would ask me to hang. and again he was hinting that he would ask to hang out if he was single. that was his answer to my question, do you like me alittle? because i told him i had alittle crush on him. and then we were talking about my school (because i go to a different school, all girls but totally not a lesbian) and i told him i wouldnt pay attention if guys were there because i would be daydreaming. and he was like who would you daydream about? and i said some like hot actors and he was like am i included in this.
and then he was like maybe you can teach me to snowboard sometime because im good and he doesnt know how too. but am i taking these signs wrong or is he just saying this stuff for fun?
i guess i just want to know what to do, he has a gf but like thats why i idk if he likes me and stuff????
i just dont know if i should even try or should i just not even go there. or any advice will help in this situation. (link)
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Yeah, he totally likes you. what to do about it is harder though. it just depends on how close they are. if theyre not very close then i would continure to talk to him and like get him to like you more. and dont hide youre feelings, tell him. if he has feelings for you, he eventually will want to be with you.
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what something that really turns a guy on in a girl? and i'm not tlking like totaly sexually,,but like something cute and hot that they do to flirt?
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Well I am a girl. But every guy is different, so ever one is going to give you a different awnser. Every guy has different opinions and personalities so yea.
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