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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl

I think, just give it time. You're still vey young and have a lot of time in life for boys and love. :)

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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?

thanks

I think that being confident in yourself DOES make a big difference. You need to stop, and just ponder and think about how you are you, and how you are changing and becoming a better person with each day. Life is just life. Tell yourself you will not let this fear get in the way of your happiness. Make things happen. :) Goodluck

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I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me

It happens to almost every couple that stays together for that long. Just take it easy, don't spend TOO much time with him and realize that things change, reltionships change. Do try to work with yourself and try to stay calm and don't forget he's human. If it's just too much for you, if you don't feel you can work through this, then talk to him about it and if necessary, take a "break."

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okay i no this guy and we have been friends for a few months and he asked me out one time and then we broke up after 3 days and like a month later we went out agian and i broke up wiht him because i didnt like hi anymore and now i like him agian and he went to france and is coming back on july 8 , but when he gets bac i think he is giong to ask out this other girl (not my friend or anything) ......what should i do ...do you think he will ever like me agian?!?

signed ..reply fast !! i need hep!

I think you should just tell him as soon as he comes abck how you feel about him, but make sure that you really mean it this time.

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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference?

As soon as they are ready for it, both emotionally and financially!

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