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Location: Texas
Age: 14
AIM: maris54321
Member Since: January 9, 2007
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My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush? (link)
what your going through happens to everyone. i am 13/f and i know exactly what you mean. except my ex lives 3 dorrs down from my house. i just make it so that we can either be friends or not. about your crush go for it. ask him out or w.e and see what he says the worst he could say is no and then one of you should say then lets be friends still.

Marissa (maris54321)


okay, so i like one of my friends. he and i have been good friends for ages, and i sorta have a crush on him. well, absolutely everyone said that he liked me, and he definitely acted like it... but recently he randomly got a girlfriend and didn't even tell me about it. we talk about nearly everything! i gave him a couple perfect opportunities, and he didn't say anything. I'm pretty hurt... what did i do wrong? i can't figure him out. it might have something to do with his best friend liking me, but i doubt it, considering that it's old news. so what on earth is going on? its so unlike him to not tell me about this sort of thing. i'm really confused! help! (link)
OMG i am in the same situation as you that i like my friend but he used to like me sort of thing. if i understand you right. i would just go to him and say that you like him. but then you are running into the problem of ruining your friendship. ask me anything always willing ot help.

Maris54321


15/F

so i had this class with this guy who was really sweet and always knew what to say. he would always scoot into the chair with me just so we could sit together and he would just grab my hand and just look into my eyes. one day when he was in the chair with me, he put his hand on my knee&i didn't think much about it. slowly he moved his hand up my thigh and i took and put it back on my knee[we were in class.] so i thought he REALLY liked me. but then i was talking to some other girls and they said that he did the same thing to them. i was crushed. he still gives we long hugs everyday and holds me, but i'm still hurt.
now heres my question; should i do something that will make him like me more than the rest of the girls&if so what? or should just forget about him?

thanks (link)
You sound like you really like this boy... you should ask him if he likes you alot enough to go out with you. make sure you say i am not asking you out unless you are asking him out. he might really like you. maybe those other girls were jelous of you getting that much attention.


I'm crazy about this guy and I'm 18. I know that we could have something really great. I told him how I feel because he asked me. He told me he likes me a LOT but that he thinks the timing is off because I am going to college in 7 months. Also he said he has a busy schedule and it wouldnt be fair to me. I dont want to give up on him. He's amazing. What can I do to be with him? (link)
his statement about you going to college can back fire on him if you say...
because i am going to college i want to know if we have anything together and if we do then....


i was thinking about my pasts relationships, and they're all with boys i didn't know really well. like, we were "companions", but right now, i like this guy who is like one of my best guy friends. and it feels completely different. so i was wondering. would you rather go out with a companion or a best friend and which do you think lasts longer and is just a better relationship? (link)
IT IS 100% UP TO YOU WHAT TO DO. no one can decide your future. ask you friend out when you feel comfterble if you want to


I really like this guy D. He has a bestfriend, M, which is a girl and I likes him and he told me that he has a little feelings for her, which I don't believer I think he likes her alot. Well D is a big flirt and all the time with me, also he is bery nice. I really want to get with him, I gave him a note telling him how I feel about him, and he lost it. SO what do you think I should do? Tell him straight up, or give him another note, or what? (link)
you should either go right up to him when he is alone and talk to him casually bring up the topic about yo uliking him and see if he will g oout with you or atleast get to know you better. once yo uget to know him yo umight find out that he really isnt who you thought he was and might not even want to go out with him anymore. No matter what happens remember there will be alot more chances and alot of times that you will like people. there are alot of men in the world waiting to meet you and if this one doesnt owrk out then there will be other chances.




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