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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !


~confused and lonley

stop worrying about guys if someone is worth your time theyll come to you..


thats the mistake that all girls make
goodluck--lovemucho

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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental?

okay you cant have an opinion about anything if you cant even spell judgemental right. it does prove that your thinking about his looks more than him.. if hes still nice id give him a shot.. hair will always grow out ya know... i wouldnt consider it judgemental after all.. beauty catches the eye personality catches the heart

meaning your drawn to looks but your won over by personality.. just give it a go

goodluck--lovemucho

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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!

tell him hes ugly you hate him and he has a small dick and that if he doesnt stop following you around like a scary mutherfucking stalker that you will tell all of his friends that he only has one nut and his dick is tiny and he hasnt been circumsized and that he prematures a lot.. so if he doesnt leave you alone then .. assume its all true and just laugh it off and walk away.
goodluck--lovemucho

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

aww i think thats cute

you should also like put it to a song that reminds you of him.. cuz then when he hears it he'll think of you.. thats so cute
goodluck--lovemucho

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Okay well there is this guy and I like him ALOT and I mean we talk all the time but everytime we talk he asks me to do stuff with him and I say yes but when it comes to the point im not ready and if i say no im a total loser and i like him but i think he is using me

*Please help!*

dont agree to that no matter how hot he is.. if your in a relationship with him its different but if you just give it up to him and all he wants is a piece of ass.. dont let yourself get to that point.. tell him that your not like that. wait til your ready..

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ok heres the thing...i went out w/ this guy (we are both 13) and he broke up w/ me a week later because he said it felt akward because we were really good friends before that. ok so ever since then ive gone 3 places w/ him...the mall twice and the movies. ok at the mall the first time...he held my hand but we arent going out...ok at the movie he held my hand once then let go then put his arm round me and the held my hand again after that. ok and then tonight i went to the mall w/ him and some other guys and he held my hand again and started huggin me a lot but he tells everyone we are jus friends...does that make any sense? i mean he broke up w/ me and i didnt like him anymore but now i like him again because of all this but its gonna make me sad if he doesnt like me and i dont think he does but all mine and his friends say he does. how can i know why he keeps doing this?!?! sry its so long! ill rate good! thanx

well your only 13.. not to sound like im degrading you. this most likely isnt love. if it bothers you that he only wants to be your friend and hes holding your hand.. tell him to stop. tell him that you have no problem being his friend but when he does sweet things like hold your hand and puts his arm around you that it makes you feel like theres something more there and if thats not what he wants then you dont want him to do that because you dont want to feel like theres something else out there for you two.
goodluck--lovemucho

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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou

you shouldnt be so into what a guy thinks about you. my advice to you is to be alone until you are completely independent. when you know for sure that you dont need a guy to make you happy.. thats the time when you should get one. guys are great but if you cant handle just being you then you have a problem. you shouldnt change yourself to make some guy happy. leave yourself how you are and get comfortable in your skin if a guy that matters comes along he'll fall for you without you having to be barbie. at age 15 boyfriends are just something to have on the side.. they are not your whole life and as selfish as it sounds the only person you need to worry about is you. so fuck other people you are beautiful make yourself believe that and dont change yourself for anybody okay!
goodluck--lovemucho

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