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There is this guy I like so I messaged him on facebook trying to start a conversation with him but he never responded but i know he saw the message because facebook has this thing where it shows that the person saw your message and it showed you the time they saw it then the next day he updates his status but he still didnt respond to my message. Should I take it that he doesnt like me? And if he doesnt like me then why when hes around me either acts creepy always staring at me or is sometimes friendly and talks to me? I thought it was because he liked me maybe I'm wrong what do you think? (link)
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I hate that you can now see when someone has read a message on facebook! because more often than not it causes a lot of panic, for no reason. Guys are strange, it's hard to say why he didn't reply to your message, maybe he was planning on replying, but didn't want to seem keen and then simply forgot, or he may just not be interested in you in that way. The way he acts with you in person, may just be due to the fact that he is a flirty person, next time you are with him in a group, maybe look out for how he acts with other girls, is it similar to the way in which he acts with you? One solid piece of advise I can give you with confidence, is do not message him again if he doesn't reply, and if he does reply, leave it a little bit before you respond again, do not reply straight away, as guys do not like desperate girls. Also when you next see him in person, don't act different to how you normally would, and don't bring up the message, just act calm and collected, and see where things go from there :)
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My boyfriend went to a party last weekend and I stayed home under the impression that it was a boys night. Well last night I got nosy and looked through his phone. Come to find out I was invited and he told his friend that he was leaving me at home because I was a party pooper. When his friend asked how he proceeded to tell him that I don't drink, I don't know how to socialize, and that I would just cling to him all night and he didn't need all that shit. My feelings are extremely hurt. He has never even been to a party with me and I am one of the most sociable and independent people. I'm confused as to why he feels this way about me. We have only been together for three months. It is not serious on my end yet but he has made it clear that it is for him. This situation makes me want to leave him. I feel as if I deserve someone who won't talk about me like that. Am I overreacting or do I have sound cause to be upset? (link)
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Firstly, you must realize that there are most likely trust issues in your relationship, as you felt the need to look through his phone. However I do not begrudge you for this, as I would have done the same in your situation. You must also ask yourself what you think the real reason he doesn't want you to go to the same parties as him is? Is he doing something he doesn't want you to know about? All I would say you can do is sit down with him and tell him how you feel, it may be hard, but if you do it in person, you are more likely to get truthful answers from him. Maybe don't tell him you looked through his phone as this could lead to him trying to place blame on you, when he is clearly the one in the wrong. Just tell him you'd like to go to parties with him and have a good time, and if hes not happy with that, then he's not worth your time. Hope everything works out!
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