Hi my name is Paige. I am 14, turning 15 this year, and am in nineth grade. Well, i kinda have a complicated life with boys, school, family, friends, you name it. I love giving advice though. I am the advice columnist for my schools paper. :] If you need advice i am here. My favorite topics to give advice to is love life, sex, families and friends.
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i met this guy at my friend's party last night. actually, my friend meant for us to meet b/c she was convinced that our personalities made us a "perfect couple." so she told the guy about me, and her best friend, who goes to my school, told me about the guy. so we were both there, and we didn't talk much, naturally, b/c we knew we were set up and we went to diff schools anyway. but then it became SO awkward when my two friends began pushing us, forcibly, to talk, and when her mom came to take a group pic of everyone, i ended up sitting next to him and my friend tried to make me lean back so he'd put his arm around me, and we both yelled at her. but that's not the point. basically, we said less than five things to each other, and i figured that, though he was cute, we simply didn't "click" as well as my friend had hoped. but today, i felt like whatever i was doing, my mind seemed to wander to him constantly. so now i seriously want to slap myself b/c this always happens: i say "yeah, it's all good" and then the next day i regret not saying/doing more. and we're most likely not going to meet again, so i wish that i could just stop thinking about him and move on with my life as if i'd never met him. besides, i've only had one bf, so my luck with guys isn't all that great, and it didn't seem like the guy took much interest in me. i'm sorry it's been a long explanation, but i have to get it out, otherwise it'll keep distracting me. i seriously don't know what to do! (link)
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I know how you feel. You were attracted to the guy, and i always feel how you feel. Like i always think this is what i want, i dont want to do anything and the next day i think about what i didnt do and wish i did do it. Dont worry, just stop thinking aboutit and it will go away. Stop thinking woulda shoulda coulda, it makes your life worse, and if you keep living in the past, how will you have fun in the present. I havent really had many boyfriends either. I actually only had 4 real serious boyfriends, and it will get better, dont worry. Stop thinking about this boy and start thinking about all the boys out there. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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Hi there~
So I was wondering if you guys could help me with some christmas gift ideas to give to my boyfriend.
Firstly, to give a little background on the relationship we have been together for about this friday the 7th will be 3 weeks. So we haven't been together for very long. I know he likes hand crafts and things that involve thinking like sodoku.
But I don't know what to get him. What do you guys think of an oragami book or do you think one can find enough designs on the web and therefore a book would be pointless?
Other than a gift, what cute things could I do? If anybody watches asian dramas I kind of want to do something romantic/cute like a girl protaganist might do. *sigh* I'm not too sure as this is my first relationship I'm not very experienced with these things.
Ideas that you have or things you've done in the past would be so helpful!! I really hope someone can give me some ideas.
Thank you so much~ (link)
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Okay, well maybe get him a little bear holiding a soduku book or something cute, but with his interests. Well, to do something romantic, make the bear hold a sokuku book, and/or a rose or a picture of you two together. That would be so cute and he would have to love it. One year, i made my bf a wooden heart, with 4 layers (each heart getting smaller to fit on the first one) and on the smallest heart, i wrote "Shane and Paige AAF
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I am part of a group of a few people (most of whom are guys) and I've developed a sort of crush on one of my best friends. Okay, I'm full-out into him. He's not perfect, debonair, bad-boy or anything like that--he's casual and goofy. Anyway, so for a long time, before I began seriously liking him, people used to tease us...you know the whole "you two act like a married couple." joke, etc. Even my friend's mother thought we were dating! So now that i do like him, i'm delusional because of those things. I told my other best guy friend, who is a close friend of the guy i like, and he told me originally that everyone always thought we would end up together. So now i'm even more delusional. What i'm really trying to ask for here is advice: i've talking to him about a girl he likes...he's never been very clear about it, but i don't know what that means. He has told me someone told him her friend likes him. I asked him (since i'm his friend i can easily ask personal questions) if he would date her, and he told me it depended if he liked the girl or not. Oh dear, a lot of babbling. I really just don't know what to do about the current situation. I like him a lot, and I'm very desperate for a female opinion since all I've got so far is male advice. I spend a lot of time with him, and still, people, like my friend's girlfriend, say we're "cute" together, but he doesn't seem to like me in that way. He teases me, makes eye-contact, tells me if he can't make it to meet after school (we walk home together), we sit together on a couch when we hang out, he puts his arm around my shoulder sometimes when we're walking home, he lets only me wear his hat, and he's really very nice to me. All the tell-tale signs right? Or maybe not. Am I reading too much into it? Is it all just mixed signals on my part? I'm confused, frustrated and upset. It's affecting my life in a negative way, and i can't focus. Overall, I'm very shy and insecure about this and myself in general; I've only been in one other relationship which was counter-productive (and that's putting it nicely). I don't think I would ever be able to confess to him, as my guy friends have suggested. I've asked them, "Does he like anyone?" and "Should i just give up?" They honestly don't know; he's not very open about his feelings, apparently. I've told him i like someone; most likely a mistake. I can't tell him who it is, without lying or embarassing myself beyon belief, and even if, for whatever reason, i'm not being delusional, he probably thinks i like someone else now. I've really dug myself into a big, dark hole. What do I do?! I really need a solid answer or i will drive myself insane. (btw 17/f, and if this seemed really fragmented, that just how jumbled my thoughts are now) (link)
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Ok, wow, your really into this guy. Well, i dont want to be like everyone else that says, "tell him how you feel" because i know what its like being heels over head for your best friend. You have to flirt with him a lot and see if he flirts back. Also hang out with him alone, and see how it fits. If you think he really does like you, tell him how you feel, if your still unsure just keep on looking for signs but dont become obsessed with it. Once you do, it takes over your whole life, and that is the worst thing that could happen! Just try and look out for some signs and signals. Let me know how it works out!
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Once I knew she doesnt feel the same about me I started to feel that knife in my heart. I had in me for 8 years and I still cant get over her...she is my best friend and I see every other weekends. How do I get over her? People say be busy (I go to work and still think of her) People say meet knew people (When I do I feel like I am using others to get over someone)
People say move on (when and how?)
I guess I have to deal with this...
PS I told her I felt and she says she not feel the same. we are still good friends and we do hang out alot with our friends too.
I am basically her only friend she hangs out more often she has other friends too but we hang out more and with my other friends also. I cant just leave and not be her friend it is unfair to her.
Bi/f/20 (link)
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Ok, well i know its hard but you gotta get over her. Its been 8 years and she doesnt feel the same way. Being with her alot is hard, its like when your with her, shes got you, and you cant let go. Be busy, but not like anything that comes up. Find a hobby, read, do a sport. Dont meet someone to use them, but meet new people and be friends. You have to have a little healthy distance, but dont cut her off completely, that would be unfair to her, and you wouldn't be friends. So find a hobby, that has your full attention; meet new people to be friends; and give this girl some healthy distance. I hope my advice helps!
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