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Well I love music and I love my friends very much!! I love to talk to people and see what they have to say.... I love my family and to hang out with them sometimes....

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i need help my x boyfriend which lives in georgia and i was talkin to him on the internet and i was like watcha doin he says listenin to music and bout 2 stab my self i was like y he says life sucks and their is no point of living i dont knw wat to do. than he says the one person i loved broke my heart in2 millions of peices dat nothin can fix i dont knw wat to do someone plz help me!!

One thing you can not do is panic.... Try to calm him down tell him that there a lot of people that love him and would not want to see him go.... tell him that a broken heart will heal but you can not come back from death..... try to tell him that he will find someone......

Hope I helped a tad

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i love bobby and he doesnt notice me and doesnt im me and it makes me pout what should i do?

Let your best friend work on that... she knows best for you and she knows this guy very well and knows how he works.... Hope that I helped when I am doing it for ya bye bye now love ya

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OK, well I like this guy A LOT. And I know he likes me, but the thing is one of my best friends likes him. I just met this guy, but she knew him since 4th grade. She tells me all theese bad things about him, but i don't know if shes telling the truth about him just to make me not like him anymore. And he's sort of mean to some of my really good friends. Also , to top it off, i found out hes cheaeted on past girlfriends. Should I ask him out? What if he asks me out?
14/f

You should ask around first to see what other people have to say... ask people that you can trust to tell you the truth.... You should try to talk to him too....I think that if she is telling you things that you would not want to hear about him most likely she is just not telling you the truth.... Also you should try to think about your friends and how would they feel about this...

hope I helped a tad

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There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age?

Yes.... It is not out of the normal....You should get to know them better before you choose to make a move for them....And see how your parents feel about it..... And if that goes well go for em!

Hope that helped

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This is my second time posting here on Advicenators. Well, I could really use some good advice here. I am 14 years old, never been kissed, hugged, dated..etc. I like older boys better because I know they tend to make the first moves and spoil you more, but I never thought I would end up like my best friends older brother. He's just two years older, not even. He's cute and he's funny, but he's really shallow. He's making me want to just die with the harsh things he says. He's always telling my friend Marissa* you should hang out with hot friends because all your friends are ugly. Right when I am sitting there. Now I can't stop hating myself.

You should try to find someone that would treat you right.....I am in the same boat as you are.... But you should want someone good for you and this guy does not seem to be the right one for you.... You should try to hang out with him more and see if he is like this or is just putting up a shield..... I hope that I have helped you

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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f....

You need to tell him that it meant more to you then just a "fling" tell him that it is not cool that he did not tell you that he had a g/f..... you need to tell him how you feel and maybe he will care for you like you want him to.

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my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationshiip i love him and he says he loves me neither one of us wanted to fall in love with the each other but we are the thing is though sometimes i have doubts about our relationship and wanna call it off but he said he'd be dissapointed and hurt if i did i don't wanna hurt him nor do i wanna lose him i just want everything to be right between us, he is a great guy so what should i do when i start to doubts about our relationshipsor his love

You should talk to him about what you are feeling... if he loves you he will understand and hopfully be feeling the same way about the worry... Maybe it would be best if you took a break and then see how things go and then you can hook back up in the end!!

Hope I helped tiffany

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hey well im really depressed all teh time. and i want to quit school. and im just so sick of everything! im just stressed. can somebdy give me advice on what to do?

You should find a hobby that you love and get into that..... try to be around people you like and hang out with them.... also you should start a diary just to get what you are feeling out (there our some on the internet like xanga, myspace, ect.) It will help figure out how to come up with solutions to your problems

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well i like this kid and itold him n he said"o i dont kno what to say"that was like in june so we hung out all summer and hes leavin for college the 29th and well i rly like him and i think if he gave me a chance he would see how much fun we could have together.. but i donno what to say to him.. i mean we tlak for like 3-4 hours everynight what should i do tell him again or what?

You should not just come out and say it again since it did not faze him before.... Just kind of beat around the bush.... Tell him how nice it was hanging out with him and say that we should hang out a lot more... if that does not reel him in then come out and say it again

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