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Q: 15/f
ok so i told my best friend(a guy)that i liked him alot. he didnt say anything back. we've both tried to have normal conversations but they always end up akward. i know he likes two girls right now. one of them is a girl from another school but he wasn't sure if he really liked her and i dont know who the other girl is. i want to ask him and normally if i hadn't told him i liked him and our conversations weren't so akward he would have told me. so i dont know how to ask him who he likes, his guy friends don't know. he's my best friend and i want our conversations to go back to normal. so how do i get normal conversations and how do i ask him who he likes???

ok...haha. well it sorta sounds like my situation. umm you dont mind me asking who u are or what school do you?! sorry. it just seems like my sitch. ANYWAYS. if i were you i'd act not interested in him anymore. talk to him every once in a great while. other than that let it be. if he likes you then he'll come to you other than that act like you never even told him that you liked him. maybe something will develop. live it up girly it's life. plus we're only 15! there'll be more guys! magine only now we're 15! magine how many guys we will have liked when we're 19 keep ur options open!! not just him.

Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly a month now. I love him and he loves me. We care about each other a lot, but he seems to be so shy around me, and he never finds time to see me on the weekends.

I completely respect his space, and him wanting to see his friends. In fact I would like to see mine as well as often as I can. But even with spring break, he couldn't find one day to see me, and he gives me these excuses. Some friends say he is just shy or isn't comfortable finding time with me or something. I know we just started out, but it'd be nice to see him occasionally instead of seeing him at school. What can I do?

Thanks for your time.

You are more serious about him than he is about her. If he wanted to find time to see you over vacation he would have. idk what else to say. maybe just leave it for him to figure it out. give him his space and leave him alone. you might find he'll run back to you in no time.

Q: Well me and this boy have been talking and we were bout to go out... but he hasnt called me in almost a week!!!! also i went to i club dance on friday that he was also supposed 2 go to but he didnt show up (he was talking bout it al week!!! b4 it) so i asked his friend n he said dat he wasnt coming so i told him to tell him to call me later on !!! he never did!!!!!!!!! sooo should i call him or just forget about him???? wat should i say if i do call him or if he finally calls me!!!?????? plz help!!

if he doesnt call he's not thinking about you. you're not on his mind if he's not calling. get over it. dont call him. wait for him to call you & when he does pretend you didn't even notice. dont chase him! #1 rule dont chase guys!! they dont like to be chased let him chase you. keep it real girly & find someone else!

Q: my boyfriend wants to go further with me (like him fingering me, and me giving him a hand job and stuff) but i dont no i jus would feel akward doing that and i dont no why...i already feel akward making out and i dont no why i do..could someone please help me.

**im 16/f

#1 tell him you dont feel like u wanna do it.
#2 if he gets rid of you he wasn't worth it!
is that all he wanted in the first place? sit him down and ask him questions be sure to get the thorough truth.

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