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brown hair, brown eyes, 5'6, very social, help all of my friends with their problems and mostly all of them work out perfect! im a model if anyone has questions about that and i also have a lil sis and three older brothers and my parents are divorced if anyone has family questions..
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I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love? (link)
I think you could definatly be in love! If he's really that great you could fall in less than a week. Just depends on how good he is to you. You'll know when your really in love with someone though. If you don't feel it at all then of coarse your not. But even if you think there might be a chance, then go for it and tell him what you think. You never know maybe he might be going through the same thing as you right now.


Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like? (link)
i've been waiting for my ex-boyfriend since june.. ya i went out with a few other guys but nothing serious.. but now finaly since school is back and all our classes are like right next to each other hes been looking at me a lot more lately.. and hes in my gym class this term and i get really into sports and he does too so even then hes looking at me and smiling.. i hope its not just for my short shorts... haha but finally hes calling me and talking to me a lot more and his friend even told me that he might ask me to the movies next weekend.. so i think you should try this other guy like i did with a couple and if he doesnt turn out to be right for you.. get rid of him and try to get that other guy to notice you a little bit. going out with someone else also makes it look better for the other guy.. it'll make it look like your not desperate.. tell me how everything goes.. x33always elise*


Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore... (link)
wow.. i fyou like that other guy then def. go out w/ him and forget bout the other guy.. but if you still like your boyfriend.. tell the other guy that.. tell him you made a mistake for doing that and your sorry for hurting him but you really gotta stop.. and tell you boyfriend the truth.. if he really likes you then he wont dump you.. thats what i woudl do *AaF me*


I used to really hate people who asked relationship questions online. I'd see them, shake my head and say "Gezz, deal with your own life, internet people have no way of knowing the personalities of those involved and therefore no way of a shot of answering you"


...BUT... here goes...

I'm a female in highschool. Ok, moving on, I have a boyfriend. He's awesome. I know I should just be myself.. and I usually am... but... you know, I'm trying not to screw this up. Surely you can relate. Anyway... I'm just starting to feel as if he is liking me less. ...Or something. I have to call him if I ever want to talk to him. (Not that I mind, but I'd like a call directed at me occaisionally).

He'll hold my hand, stroke it... whatever.. but seems reluctant to hug me? Sorry, that's probably unrelated... I was just curious.

We were supposed to go see a movie today with another couple, but I forgot to remind him last night and I have no way of contacting the female of the other party. I'm just not sure what to do.

I know, this is a crappy question... Sorry. And A little jumpy... ok, here's I'll sum it up.

*I feel like he likes me less. What do I do?
*He'll touch me physically, but doesn't want to hug goodbye. Why?
*Any way to save today's outing?

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You should ask him if things are okay between you too, I know it's gonna be weird cause it sounds kinda corny but just try and talk to him. What's up with the hugging thing? That seems weird that he won't hug you.. maybe you should try to just hug him first, maybe he just thinks it's weird. He is a guy, you never know what's going on his head. Here to help, hope you like!


ok my friend lets call him joe well my friend joe is really cool and i just met him this year. my other 2 friends always say i like him and we always flirt. which i dont believe really. i dont think we flirt at all. i only have him in one class and we "always flirt". it makes me mad cuz like joe let me wear his rubber bracelet things and my friends are like awwwww how sweet! it makes me sooo mad! specially when they ask him out for me. now joe thinks im a stalker or sumthin and that my friends are stalkers. im not they are. so wat can i do to make my friends stop asking him out for me. and make joe think im not a stalkeR? plz help..srry this is long
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You should just tell your friends straight out i don't like him (if you really don't) and if your really my friends you would stop asking him out for me. Tell them you have to deal with your love life by yourself sometimes. Ya of coarse you love your girls but sometimes you just need to do stuff bye yourself. I know exactly how you feel, I had to go through this just last night, and it worked. Here to help, hope you like!




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