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Location: The Woodlands, texas
Age: 14
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ok sorry if this is long but i really need help i dont know what to do.
me and my b.f have been going out for about 3 months soon on january 16th and recently i started talking to this guy that i met and now i think i like this guy way more then i do my own b.f. because he talks to me the way my b.f would never and tells me things we hung out yesterday and it was amazing no i didnt cheat im not like that but the problem is how can you like someone more then the person you lost your virginity to because me and my b.f had sex recently and i dont know that felt wrong like i know your first time is suppose 2 feel right but it was just all wrong and this other guy likes me and i know he doesnt becuase he told me today and im really confused
i think yea i really do like this kid but something isnt just there with me and my b.f so any advice on what i should do
oh and me and this kid have been talking for a bout a week now so im gonna have 2 wait i know and please dont give me any advice on following your heart or rap like that i herd enough of that so please anyone with normal advice please i need help i dont know if ill make a mistake by breaking it off with my b.f becuase he had a lot of problems in his life and im his longest relationship so i dont know
any advice please and i will rate high! thanxxxx =]
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welll , i know your probably expecting this, but make sure your not staying with your boyfriend just to make him happy. your happiness comes first so remember that. Alsoo if your feeling bad that you lost your virginity to him and now you don't want to be with him, remember that most people do that. I messed around with a guy i really liked but we wernt together and now we don't even talk and i think its better that way. If you like someone else make sure you really think hes better than who your with. it might just be a "show" do pro's and con's. or you may even tell your boyfriend about how this other guy is treating you better and ask him to be more like that. he may like that your talking to him about it. but don't feel GUILTY.
hope i helped(:
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so me and my bf's 1 year anniversary is coming up very soon.
i wanted to get matching pillow cases that just say i love you in script on them. where can i get this done?
is there a website that i can do it on and they will ship them to me or is there a store i can go to?
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You might try anthropology. They probably have something sorta like your looking for.
hope i hepled(:
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Ok so lately i've been thinking about my love life, i'm so confused I feel like i can't like anyone, i thought maybe i was gay, but i don't like boyss at all, or have any feelings towards them. so than why can't i like anyone? is something wrong with me? (link)
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I don't think your gay since you said you don't seem to be attracted to them but maybe you should talk to more girls and get to know them and maybe you will end up liking one of them, depending on your age you could just not be into that sorta thing yet and if its really messing with your head look around and take notice to your friends and see if they are in relationships, usually they just take time.
hope i helped(:
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btw i'm 14. 15 in april
ok so i went ot with this guy about 5 months ago and it took me a while to get over him.You see he dumped me for his ex girlfriend in another town about 3 hours away.He broke up with me over the phone and it tore me apart.it took meso long just to trust him again.Well about 2 or 3 weeks ago he told me that he sorta liked me again which was kinda weird to me because i had started having feelings for him again around the same time. We flirted for a while and he eventuall broke up with his girlfriend. He said it was too hard having a long distance realtionship.So we weren't sure what really to do so we decided to meet up. We went to the beach and sat on some sand dunes. after about 2 hours of talking. we hooked up and it was my first hook up ever and i wasn't really sure what to do but whatever i did it felt good. Anyways. after a few weeks we sorta stopped talking he got really sunburnt that day and wasn't at school. i got an infection and also wasn't at school. I think i was confused about my feelings for him. So the other day i was bored so i decided to message him. We started talking. two of my best friends were over and i decide to flirt with him and see where it went my friend was telling me some things to say and it was fun. well we kept on flirting for a few days and i really started to like him again. i had this new found confidence like i could tell him anything.
And then today. New years day he tells me he has a girlfriend. That she asked him out two days ago and that they had started going out yesterday. I was upset of course. I just started to think we could get back together. and he does this to me. i told him that i liked him but was confused about what to do. and he said he was too.
I'm not sure if i can forgive him this time . for leading me on. its like i'm the back up plan for when he gets back from his holiday he gets back with me. its crap.
what do you think i should do?
i'm so confused. my friends think i forgive him too easily. but i dunno
please help me
xoxo
sorry for it being sooo long
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Well he sounds like he has lots of girls comming after him, you may need to tell him straight up how you feel about everything, tell him you wanted to be his girlfriend because you miss him and just see if he gives you the reaction your looking for, maybe that will help?
i hope i helped(:
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Everytime I date a boy my mom only lets me see him on the weekends. She thinks weekdays are for school and family and friends sometimes. And of course, this causes everyone to break up with me. What can I tell her? (link)
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Thats probally a concerned mom talking.
If you really like a guy i think before you start dating, you should tell him "hey, my mom has rules and i'm not allowed to see you on the week days unless were at school but the weekends i can" i'm sure he will understand, guys that are that needy, are probably not worth that much time anyways.
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okay my bf broke up with me not even a month ago. i was devastated and under the circumstances that he was telling me i shoulda said fuck you, but i stayed around and i messed around with him even though he had another gf already. bc he said he 'still loved me' B.S. right? i didnt know whether it was or not. his best friend tyler begain talking to me after he broke up with me. he told me that he has had a crush on me. i told my ex and he got really pissed (the purpose of telling him). but as i talked to tyler i learned he cheated on me 3 tiems while we were datng and he is tellling me all theis stuff about my ex that i didnt know and it pissed me off. do you think he maybe exagerateing bc he likes m e or telling me the truth. im kind of in the middle because i don't really know/. (link)
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I'm pretty sure your ex's friend could be exadurating because i mean, i would too if i wanted a guy to get over his ex and get with me, wouldn't you? But then again, think about when you were together and see if you noticed times where he could have actually cheated on you. I think the bext thing to do is try your hardest to get over him, tell yourself your better than that and when you find yourself missing him, try to do something way more worth your time(:
as for the friend Tyler, that might not be the best idea because his best friends your ex and the relationship might have problems from the jealous ex, but if you think it could work, try it.
hope i helped(:
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