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Hello ! My name is Kim. I am 29 yrs. old straight female, I have 3 kids and a boyfriend, I have been through quite a bit at my age and have alot of life experience. I love giving advice and getting it. You name it I've probably been through it. I am a very caring and understanding person. If your a teen in trouble, if your man is cheating on you, if you've been hurt emotionally, if you're a single divorced mom, I feel your pain. Nothing bad lasts forever.Always remember that.If you want a face to go with the advice look me up on myspace at kimberly7777@hotmail.com...
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Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
I am 29 he is 42. Big harry deal!!! All of our friends are very accepting, we are totally infatuated with each other and we are going on 4 years. Advantages to an older man ?? Sensitivity, affection, wisdom about life, patience, oh, and amazing sex, they have had time to practice,(smile). I get hit on whenever we go anywhere, and he shrugs it off and is proud. I kiss him and let all those guys know i,m his. Now if he starts to want to settle down that is another issue, you may be too young for that. Great guys are very hard to come by. Keep him. Try it out, let your heart, not a number tell you whats right. Good Luck!!!


Okay, I'm having trouble with what to get/make my boyfriend for xmas. He's the kind of person who doesn't expect anything, and when he does get something he kind of doesn't know how to react. Haha..so I don't wanna be a total doofus and make him some mushy gushy card and have him not really care about it or react the way I'd hope he would, which is fine I don't care haha. So, he's really into music, so I'm thinking about getting him a children of bodom CD. I've heard him talking about how he wants it and stuff..but is it a good idea? And any other suggestions of like what you've gotten your boyfriend for xmas would really help, cause I'd like to get him more than just a CD. :) Thank you. (link)
If you have been dating awhile and might know a thing or two about what he likes and where he likes to shop get him a gift card, I dont know anyone who doesnt like those, that way you can be sure he gets something he likes.


Hey.
I'm 16 & my boyfriend is 24.

I've been dating him now for 4 months. We've been having sex & we decided to tell my parents, because we can't keep lying to them. So, I told them on Sunday, and then on Tuesday they told me I couldn't even see him anymore until I'm 17. Which I thought was OKAY, I mean I wasn't happy with that decision, but atleast I could still talk to him. And then last night my SISTER who doesn't live with us called my boyfriend and told him that he couldn't even talk to me on the phone anymore. :(

I'm soo sad, because I don't know what to do! & I'm in love with my boyfriend and I just feel sad all the time, and I'm not usually a sad person.

What can I do!?!
I understand that it's illegal by the way, it's just I asked my mom if I could still see him on friend-to-friend basis without having sex because he's grown to be one of my absolute best friends that I can talk to him about ANYTHING.

Please help. :( (link)
The age difference is definately an issue. I can see where your parents are coming from, he is an adult. Just be happy they didnt say 18! The situation with your sis was wrong. Ask your parents if this was their decision before calling him as this may fire your parents up more.When I was 16 I dated a 22 year old. My parents did like him because I made an effort for them to get to know him.17 is the legal age to have sex with a adult and that is probably why they chose that age. Ask them if he can come over for dinner or have a talk with all 4 of you together. Your parents do have your best interest at heart, but I know it hurts.I am sorry they are trying to split u up. If he truly loves you he will wait around for you.good luck


I know a girl who hasn't done drugs, had sex or drank. She's never been kissed, or even had a serious boyfriend, and she's 21. Her uncle recently died, and her family, most of whom are drunks and stoners, are fighting about what to do with her uncle's inheritance, and she's caught in the middle.

I've also got a major crush on this girl, and it's mutual. To add to this, though, we're not the same race (which matters to her family), and because of her family, she's never been spoiled (which I love doing to her) and she's really introverted and shy about herself.

How can I help her fix her family, deal with her uncle's death and get her to go out with me? (link)
I feel for you. And her. I had an awful family life and the best thing I did was move away from them. I gained my own identity and left the alcoholic drug users behind. Spoil her rotten I know I love that, she will feel like she is worth something and will appreciate your kindness. You cant change her family situation though. It sounds like you are a great guy and exactly what this girl needs. Absolutley regardless of your race. I am A white mom of two preteen girls and I tell them it doesnt matter what race your boyfriend is as long as they are a gentleman. She is an adult and I assume you are too, so do the adult thing and decide what is best for you two and leave them out of the eqaution. Tell her how you feel. About the inheritance. She is a good person but if they are addicts there will be a battle where that is concerned for obvious reasons. good luck




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