- hi, everyone. i'm kay1350. i love giving advice to my family as well as friends. you do not have to use my advice if you choose not to. i just hope my advice can help . thanks .
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My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago and we recently started talking again. We started texting again and we were friendly with one another. Then he became flirty and honestly, whenever we held those flirty conversations, those lasted the longest. He asked me if I wanted to continue being that way with him and I decided to test it and see if he had feelings for me and he told me that he has learned to control his feelings. Clearly that meant he's over me, or that he's trying very hard to. I don't know why he would ask me to do something like this. We did establish that we are very comfortable with one another but I only agreed because I wanted to see how far it would go. He was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've ever been really physical with and because we have broken up with issues, I'm not sure if I can be "friends with benefits" with him, but he seems to be completely fine. What does this mean? Oh, when we first started talking again, he did apologize for some of the stuff that happened in our relationship. But one of the last things we said to one other was that I didnt want to go on with the "benefits" part because I didn't want it hindering my feelings I would have for anyone else. (link)
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- most likely, if you two are still flirting, and texting well most likely he still has feelings for you. he might not won't to date again just yet but give it time and see what happens. he might not want to go through the samething again that you two went through before. there's really not a straight foward answer to this situatioon because it could be many other answers as well, the best way to see is to ask him how does he feel about you. there still might be feelings there or there may not be. just try and ask him. i hope this advice is useful for you, ii apologize if it does not. good luck.
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i lost my virginity when i was 13 with my first ex boyfriend. at first i was afraid of doing that act, but he really wanted to do it with me.. i couldnt resist him because i love him. so we had sex. we did it 3 times. but then i broke up with him. because i felt he really did not love me and he's just using me. i regret of letting him use me:( now i can't resist having sex with boys i like. at the age of 17 i already had 11 sex experiences. i always regret when i think about it. im so sad, i think im a slut but i dont want to accept it. im so sad:( i dont know what to do.. im afraid and hate to accept than no other guys would love me because of these past experiences. i wanna die :(((((((((((((( (link)
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- hi, and can sort of relate to this. in life we make mistakes and have regrets that's normal; we just have to learm not to make them same mistakes again so we won't have regrets. now boys would say anything to have sex sometimes but don't let them pressure you unless you are absolutely ready for sex. now i believe that you will fine the right guy for you who won't look at your past because they were not in it and they cannot blame you because after all that was a different you. don't be so down on yourself and call yourself a whore and don't harm yourself everything will work out fine, just remember: when you meet a guy get ta know him , and you make the calls on when you will have sex , and if you feel like it's the right time and the right guy. also remember: the past is the past, it stays there. i hope you can use this advice:) if so may you please feedback, thank you.
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I like my bestfriend who happens to be dating my other bestfriend:/ I feel like I'm betraying my bestfriend just by liking her boyfriend. I've had this "connection" with him for 2 years now but it just never lead to anything serious like a relationship. He flirts with me and it's obvious he has feelings for me. But he's dating my bestfriend and I would never do that to her. I don't know what to do. I had my chance with him last year but I let time go and now I'm his "best friend for life" as he calls me:/ what can I do? Tips on how to get over him? Thank you:) (link)
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- i know exactly how you feel. you don't want to hurt your bestfriend but you have feelings her bf and the feelings are mutal. well maybe you should just wait it out and see what happens. he mite turn out to be your "mr. right" or you might find someone else. that way there won't be conflict between you and your bestfriend. now waiting can be hard, but think about this: would it be harder then causing problems with your bestfriend if it goes that way? ii hope you can use this advice if you cannot i apologize .
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