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I have a friend who is a girl and shes 17. She was dating a guy that is 30. He has tatoos all over his body; he was in the pen for 10 years, and he does cocaine, and sells drugs. They were together for a year on 9/1, but they broke up last friday because he got mad at her for not takin him to west nashville to pick up some drugs, (he was already messed up on coke) and he started yelling at her, telling her he was done with her skanky ass, and hes got plenty more dimes than just her, and she was a bitch, and started callin her dead mom a bitch too. So she said some mean things while she was crying. She took him to his moms house to drop him off, and he was acting like he wass going to hit her, and he kept threating her to take him up the street, so he could get a ride to west nashville. She didn't want to do it, so he spit in her face! Litterally, a loogie in her face! I got pissed off, and I tried biting my tongue, but when he did that, I couldnt take it anymore.
Anyways. They are supposively still broken up, but I feel as if shes lying to me. What can I do, to make her realize she doesn't need a piece of trash like him? She's young and truely beautiful, and I dont understand what I can do to knock some since into her. Please help me, before she ruins her life, even more than she has.
*P.s whenever she asks me for advice, or tells me something about him, I'll tell her the truth, and than she makes up excuses.
For example: Her: "Kaci, nick gets mad at me when I dont want to have sex with him."
Me:"Well stephanie, than maybe that shows you right there what he really wants from you? I dont think you should be with a guy who gets mad over that"
Her: "No kaci, he doesnt get mad when i wont have sex with him, he just thanks i aint attracted to him like that"
Seee? Thats what Im talking about. Please help me. (link)
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hi hun,
wow it seems like this guy is a right jerk, he definetly isn'r right for her i think you need to have a proper girl tak with her remind her of all his bad quality's and keep bringing up the age difference i know this seems like she will get mad at you but trust me tough love is what works keep on reminding her if she talks about him all the horrible stuff hes said and for the meanwhile keep her mind of things with other things good luck babe
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ok so i broke of with my ex bf last year. he broke up with me. it was very hard to go through and it took alot of getting used to. i had to start lving the single life style and it was hard to accept it. i still hang out with him everyday pretty much almost as much as i used to when we were together. i still have feelings for him and i think he might but he just doesnt want to admit it and he plays all this games. i have had one bf after him and now we have been seeing eachother everyother night. so i left his house to go meet up with him and i have been seeing him everyother night starting last week like being sneaky and i came back to my ex bfs house and i saw a hickey on my neck and said who gave u that and then he was laughing making fun of me and he was talking mean to me criticizing me. he said that he wasnt even mad that he thougnt it was funny but i dont think so. i think he was probaly really mad and just hiding it. i wouldnt tell him who gave it to me. i felt so bad becauese now my ex new and the bf i have been seeing doesnt even text me that much since 2 days ago. now i am thinking he only talks to me when he feels like it. i am mad cuz now i feel all that hard work i did getting used to being single was for nothing and i feel so alone and sad and confused. i feel embarrassed because now i wonder what my ex thinks of me now i dont know what to do help (link)
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hi hun, dont worry, ask yourself do u really love or even feel enough attraction to the guy you are dating now? because i think your feelings are much more stronger for your ex and that you haven't gotten over him. if you do have feelings for your ex then i think its important that you call things of with the boy your dating now as its not fair on him and you wont be truly happy i think he is upset that you spend a lot of time woth your ex and the hickey also would anger any boyfriend, if you do call things of and you have feelings for your ex i think you should be straight up with your feelings for him and i'm sure he feels the same way by the sounds of it as no one would really spend the same amount of time with their ex as they were when they were an item good luck
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Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!! (link)
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Hey hun,
i think your husband is being very unreasonable he has no right firstly to go throug your phone and secondly he has absolutely no right to set up little coffee dates for you. don't let him take control i think you should tell him that its unecessary. what i find clueless is why he feels the urge to do this and ecspecially the part of you not allowed to have unattractive friends which is really out of order, babe i think you need to have a proper talk about this don't let it turn into something that begins to really affect your marriage hun good luck
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Sooo i'm 18 and i met this boy two months ago. We had an immediate connection and he became my boyfriend the next month after we met. Things were great and now he has these days where he seems uninterested. I like him a lot and I know he likes me too because he tells me so, i just don't understand why somedays he acts uninterested in me. I've been through this before and i hate it, I don't know what to do about this. (link)
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Hi babe,
trust me when i say this, most guys are like that, they act interested and then the next day they don't this doesn't mean he has actually lost interest in you its because of their constant mood changes. If it really bothers you be straight forward and ask him and he will reassure you he hasn't good luck hun!
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