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f/17
so liked this guy.
he used me as a rebound girl
went back to his ex
is now dumping his currnet g/f (his ex)
and tells me that using me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he wants to hang out with me again to hopefully lead to a relationship,
what should i do?
go back to him because i just got over him and now he tells me hes sorry.
ahhhh (link)
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no don't.. and then when you do'nt acccpet him he will want you more and start to relize you for you and not his rebound giirl.. this guy did it to my best friend for like 2 yearss and then she just stoppedd caring and he then liked her for herr and not just to make the othe rgirl jelous
so just do'nt take him back no matter how much you want to!!
belive me
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alright, im gonna attempt to keep this short and simple.
ive liked this kid for about 2 years. i still like him. well. now we never talk. the past 2 summers though, i talked to him all the time [through the school years too] well im going into 9th grade [im 14] and yeah now we NEVER talk. i really really wanna start talking to him again though. i'm not popular, i guess you can say he is, although i hate stereotyping people like that and stuff. i have like no guy friends, although he has a lot of friends that are girls. you see, he used to like me. i started talking to him the summer before 7th grade. he told me he liked me.. blahblahblah. 7th grade started & he asked me out. i said no. why? i'm still not sure and i regret it to this day. we continued to talk after that. i guess it started towards the very end of 7th grade & the summer before 8th that he started to seem less interested in me and we would talk less. oh yeah, we only talked online. occassionally in school, but not every day. ok. i'm really shy. around him, i like got so nervous that i could hardly talk. it sucks because i'm already shy as it is, but around him i was like speechless. i know that after a while, that could change though. yeah so since he seemed less interested & our convos were mainly pointless, one day i just stopped talking to him. i haven't talked to him since september or october [online]. long time right? almost a year. like once or twice, maybe 3 times in school we talked, but it was only if he like asked me for a pencil or something. also a few months ago my friend imed him while at my house. and my brother was talking to him for some reason? [he got on his buddylist somehow] yeah anyway. i want to talk to him again. even if we don't go out, i want to atleast be his friend. because it sucks just liking him, thinking about him all the time and knowing that he's out there with other girls. i mean we have this past. and i can't get it out of my mind. i REALLY REALLY like him. i can't just keep doing this. how can i talk to him again, without it being really awkward? somehow i'm gonna do it. i'm not gonna keep holding back. i'll start off by iming him, and hopefully things will kick off from there. i don't want him to forget about our past. how can i do this? thank you so much, i really appreciate it. sorry it was so long, i tried to keep it simple! :] (link)
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ahh same thing happend to me with this one guy.. like we went out for our first time in decemberr and it went on till like january and then he just like stopped being interested in me and we tottaly just stopped altogether then but then i got sick of not talking so the second he signed on i made sure he wasn't with anyonee so i could tell him exzaclty how i felt and personaly i think you should say what you asked for advice on for him to really see how you feel.. and for some reason i wish i was you so i could pull a good speech off to give to some1 :D
good luck!!
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ok. there is this guy that i have liek a HUGE crush on. lets just say his name is Bob. my best friend met him at this summer camp for music and they became friends. there like brother and sister kid of friends. but whenever i talk about bob or like i see him or if she sees me stare into a blank space (she knows what im thinking about) like she will burst out laughing. since they are like brother and sister kind of friend people she just cant seem to think anyone would like him. but i t gets really annoying because i mean she wont be there for me. she wont help me get to know him better and all she does is laugh. i have told her this that its annoying but she wont stop. what else can i do? (link)
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that happend to me and in the end i found out my friend was jelous. but try to act like it dosn't bother you and iif it does then talk to bob about iit and tell him you like him!! b/c if he nos and she starts to laugh he will too end up getting irritated about iit and in the end thingss will get better!!
hopefully i helped
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Okay. I was at my boyfriends house the other day and his brother's friends sister came over, and she was all over him in the pool. I asked him why he didn't stop her and he said because we were playing a game. So now hes ignoring her but she keeps trying to get with my boyfriend. What should I do? I really need help!!! ;)(;
Mac (link)
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mm well if you were mee.. beat the crap out of her :D shes doing it on purpose so you get sick of itt and hoepfully dumps him ( in her point of view) so tell her your sick of it :D
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i am 14 but monday is my birthday see well i really really like this guy but the problem is he is going out with my sister but me and him liked eachother before and he has asked me out before but i said no because i wanted to get to know him better but i regret saying no now because now i think he has fallen for my sister and my sister is like a brake up person i mean she will be with a guy for a while and then when she meets someone better she will brake up with him but the problem is if my sister and this guy have sex (which she is already talking about) then i don't think i would want to go out with him after that and my sister always trys to make me look bad infront of everyone she even read my diary to him and his friends i was so mad and well she didn't care so i guess my question is how do i get this guy to like me again and totally have no feelings for my sister at all i mean he liked me first and they only got together cause i wasn't around please tell what i can do to get him basically get him to forget about my sister and see what i feel for him (link)
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fiirst off if you both have a screename before you say anything tell him to just listen.. then tell him your feelings and about how much you regret nott going out with him but also tell him why you didn't .. then go into how your the one for him and not your sister and how you have really strong feelings for him and you really want to get to no him better
hope that helped :D
- juliia_x3
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so i've been going out w/ this guy for a couple weeks. i love being w/ him.. we always have so much fun. we talk on the phone a lot but it's usually about what we did that day or how much we like each other. i want to get to know him better w/o being like.. "whats your fave. food, etc.". how should i do this? i come from a past relationship where i knew the guy better than anyone so this is whati want. (link)
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well maybe you should start asking him about his past relationships and what he looks for in a girl and what bothers hiim the most and talk to him about his childhood and ect. he miight even ask you the same questions and sooner or later he will no you better then you no yourself!!
hope i helped
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