Q: This is for either girls or guys.

What are your standards for someone you would date?

Sometimes I think my standards are a little too high, so I was just wondering about other people's. Looks; type of personality; color hair; height; style; family; beliefs etc. Not really your ideal person, but rather (Put bluntly) what MUST they have or be?

Thanks

Q: my boyfriend treats me bad sometimes... my friends HATE him, because once and a while... when they talk to me, i'm always crying over something he did. all of my friends tell me to break up with him, but that's the thing.. he's not all bad. i really like him too. sometimes, he'll give me the attitude and stuff like that.. and last night he let me cry.. he LET me cry. -__-" he said that i was doing this to myself, and it was all in my head.. when i know it wasn't all in my head because i'm usually a happy person, and i wouldn't cry for no reason. so when i was tearing up or crying.. he wouldn't comfort me. until i blow up like crazy.. THATS WHEN HE COMFORTS ME. when i wouldn't have been crying like that if he comforted me in the first place.. those are some of the things he does to me. i asked him to change for me.. because the stuff he does and says hurts me. so he PROMISED that he would. and it's been a while.. until last night he said he really will change this time for good. i don't really want to keep waiting to see if he really is going to. my friends says that if he really did care, he would've changed already. and he begged me for another chance and he PROMISED AGAIN, he really will change. i'm about to loose hope that he really is going to do this for me. all of this is getting me stressed out.. and i'm too young to be having this kind of stress.. and crying too hard to have my side hurting. should i give him another chance? or break up with him? or should i just wait and see what happens?

OHHH and again, he's not all that bad.. he changed a little and he says he did change.. but i just don't see it. -____-" but it's kind of hard for me to if he's treating me like this. and etc. do you think he really will change?

HELP ME PLEASE! by the way... me & him has been together for about 6 months.

Q: I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ!!!

okay so my whole "problem" started in september when my friend gave this fine guy my number his name is edwin rodriguez he called me that night and we talked the whole weekend. then on sunday he asked me out i said yes. He did tell me that him and this other girl just broke up but he said they only went out for 2 weeks and he felt nothonig for her. well the a week and a half while we're going out he told me they kissed. he cheated on me. the first time that ever happened to me. but since he told me i didnt break up with him. but at the end of the week we broke up. because he still had feelings for her. but over the weekend we were still talking. and he asked me back out sunday. but then monday i broke up with him because i knew deep down he still had feelings for her. well we were still casually talking to each other he still walked me to my classes and stuff. well then i went to the homecoming dance. and i must say i looked pretty good. =] laugh out loud. but anyways he was there and yeah he did try to talk to me before he did cindy (that girl he still has feelings for) but i blew him off. just to show him. but thats when he went running to cindy. i was PISSED. so i was all over this other guy. but at the end of the night they were together. crap. well about 2 weeks past and they were stil together. and then they broke up and he I.M.ed me on myspace. saying yeah you were fine as hell at the dance and all this stuff. and he was like DONT TELL CINDY. i didnt. we talked on the phone that night too. I remembered why i fell for him to start with. But i was talking to my ex korrie. like we was gonna get back together. he is a really GREAT guy i should of stuck with him. But i didnt. that weekend i went to the "movies" and got picked up from there by edwin and his friend dra and ingrid was driving. we went to the top of the city. it was all perfect. we cuddled and kissed the whole time he told me he loved me he said all of the sweetest things to me. i believed it. so then were on the ground looking at the stars holding each other. =]. well we were SO close to having sex but i had a promise ring that i wouldnt have sex till marriage. a promise to God a promise to my mom a promise to everyone. and he said i'll wait for you. i wish i could have froze time then because after this all hell broke loose. well i got back to the movies right on time. but i snuck out later that night 3:00 in the morning. once again we were all snuggled up. but this time i gave it up. =[
it wasnt worth it. i wish i could take it back but i can't. we stuck it in about 5 times and then he stopped. he said he didnt feel right. he took off the condom and got up. he said oh my gosh babe i took your virginity. he was pretty much flipping out.it was his first time too. so at first at school we kept it on the dl and i had to btell korrie we couldnt see each other. i told my closest friends what happened but i told the wrong person and every1 in school knew. i guess it was a really big deal because it was me. no one would ever think me. but yeah. so we went out for a week and a half. and he told me he STILL had feeelings for her. i broke down. i gave him my virginity something i can't give anyone else i thought we were really gonna be together. my mom found out to i hurt her so much she wouldnt let me talk to him or anything! she was almost about to switch schools. but she didnt. well we broke up. thats when i relized that was the biggest mistake of my life. he is going out with her now. again. on her myspace is all this stuff with him and her kissing and she said they're in love. it hurts so bad. i dont know what to do. do i let him go. or keep holding on. please someone help me

Q: f/16
i have no idea what to do. there has always been this boy who i have a history with. i've never liked anyone as much as i like him and its been like this for about a year and a half? well after hooking up [just kissing in and out of school] i told him that i liked him a lot and he really never said anything. so i gave up and moved on.
at my 16th birthday i slow danced with this guy i've always thought was really cute, and i didn't know anything about him so a mutual friend kind of hooked us up. we talked in and out of school and then we became bf and gf. we've been together for like 8 days and i'm not happy. i mean hes so sweet, my mom ADORES him, hes smart, and hes religious and kind but i don't knmow if i like him anymore. i get mad when he walks me to and from practically EVERY class and i have to make conversation. i roll my eyes when i see him. thats how bad/mean i am getting.

i like the other guy. i know i do and always have and i just want to be free to do what i want. i don't know if i should break up with him, cause i would literally crush him. i'm his first kiss & gf and all my friends would be upset because hes a sweet guy and thats what i need.

people say i should stick it out, but theres vaca break soon and only mon. and tues. there's school. i could be with the other guy at his house for the remainder of that week because thats where i want to be.

idk should i break up with him?

Q: I think I am reasonably pretty. I have blue eyes, brown hair and have clear skin. Maybe not sexy beautiful, but just, like, pretty beautiful, you know? Well, I am getting tired of being alone. The last boyfriend I had was in second grade, and I have been out of the game then for the last 6 years. I know, I don't have to have a boyfriend at 13 and a half, but I've watched from the sidelines my friends kissing and dancing and laughing since 6th grade. I have fun too, just not with a significant other. It seems like I have been forgotten by anybody worth my time. My friends are totally insensitive to any grumpiness about it, and I just feel like no matter what I do, I can't attract anybody. I don't know why. I am tall for my age, thin, pretty, smart, and stylish. The only thing I can see as a disadvantage is my fair skin. I have very light skin, but I can't imagine that it would hinder my romantic chances this much. I just feel like nobody sees me as pretty, or desirable, and I'm sick of it, but I don't know what to do or say.

Q: Okay well i asked my guy friend to ask the guy i like (which by the way is his guy friend too ) to ask if he liked me the same way i liked him but not to tell him iliked him im 13 and the boy i like is 16, forget the age rite now, umm today i went to skool nd my guy friend kept looking at me smiling then looking down and stuff EVERY time id walk by, in the end of the day he did the same hting and i was like Come here and he came and then i was like.,, *stands and jst lookes at him* and he was like (ididnt ask yett ) i was like o, well okay then,& ok im nnot sure which one it is,, maybe he was smilig the whole time cause he knew a secret of mine for the first time and is like all hehe i kno to himeself, or maybe he did ask him but the guy ilike told him nnot to telel me but you see he had all day to ask himi because they were together most of the time talking so im sure he wouldve remeber im jus soo confused rite now all i want is your opinions,, (oh and by the way im sure! that my guy friend doesnt like because he likes some other girll, )

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Q: all right, my friend doesnt have an advicenators so she has to ask a question on mine...

ther this guy i like and he likes me back . but at school we've got to act like we hate each other!!!!. what should i do?

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