Hey guys!
I'm so glad you're a my column... lets start with me. I'm jordan, my friends call me jords. I love helping people, and I know where most peoples problems are coming from... holler if you need me!
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Gender: Female
Location: H-Town <3
Age: 13
AIM: j x3 brittany
Member Since: May 27, 2006
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WEll me any my girlfriend are going out for the first time and i really like her and im reasdy for it but i just dont know when to do it? or even if im a good enought kisser (link)
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okay, this is the thing that will stick out.
knowing someone is really insecure, and knowing someone is doubting themselves is a huge turnoff.
theres no right time, theres no way to do it.
do what feels right, and if she pulls away, she may not be ready.
you cant worry about it.
just go with the flow.
be chill.
-jords!
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ok so theres this guy i like named cody. were kind of friends but not really. i talk to him on myspace and aim sometimes. so one day i see hes on aim so i say hey to him. heres how it went..
me-hey
cody-what do you want now
me-umm i dont know
cody-then dont talk to me
--cody signs off--
im not exactly sure what i did to deserve that. my friends are saying maybe he was in a bad mood or hes under alot of pressure right now (he has me and my friend ashley chasing after him you could say. she asked him out and he said no and he also knows that i like him). anyway when i read that i almost cried. what should i do?? (link)
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SAME WITH ME!
this is what's going on...
you NEED to ingnore HIM like he is to you for a while. It may be hard, but toughen up. After a while, call him. He'll act like nothings wrong. And if he doesnt confront the problem, you have to. Say, I dont know what's going on but I'm alittle confused about what you said to me that day, about me not talking to you, and then you just signed off? What's going on?
You'll straighten things out sooner or later
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and he has a girlfriend.
Me and him had kinda a summer fling and we hung out ALOT! and got really close.
I know he doesnt like me, but he does alot strange things.
For example, he used to IM me all the time online [before he had a girlfriend] and he would say "hey"
but now when he IM's me , he LOOOKS for ways to start a conversation , like he would ask me stupid questions or say random things.
Then in front of his friends he soo mean to me , but at lunch all his friends will be sitting at one table and maybe like one of his friends will be sitting at my table and he will sit at my table instead of with his girlfriend, but he wont sit next to me, he sits a few seats down.
And then he always does things to like talk to me, like he spits on me sometimes and i chase him around to hit him.
And he prank calls me with one of his friends!
But he makes fun of me in front of alot of his friends, but he like tries to be around me.
Whats the deal??
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Hey "Double Sided Boy Lover"
This boy could be just flirty when he likes someone. Like when we like someone as a friend, we talk to them, and hang out. He just flirts. He's probably really insecure and doesn't know where he belongs. I'm in this EXACT same situation. If you're aabout 13,14. The guy will change around his friends. I met this boy and he was my lab partner. Sweetest, nicest, most honest, caring, and compassionate boy ever. (not to mention cute.) around his friends he totally changes and becomes a jerk. Give it time, and just try to hang out with him.
-Jordan
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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal? (link)
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Hey Confused,
This guy sounds like a jerk to me. That may be hard to hear but he's probably just too good for himself. Dont pay any attention to it.
I really want to help.. I.M me!
j x3 brittany
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