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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much and I dont think he misses me. I want to call him and say sorry and everything but Im afraid he wont care! I miss him so much you have no idea! Please help! should I call him?!?!? Should I just move on??! please Ill rate 5's i swear! (link)
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i know why you can't help but to feel bad and can't stop thinking about him because you dated for a long time, in my opinion i think it would be better and easier for you to just move on. if he didn't seem too upset it was probaly because he already saw it coming, but thats just my pointview. if you think you should call him and say your sorry then go ahead.
i hope i was helpful:)
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he tells me that he does not want to treat me like that meaning talk to me in a ruid way but he says that everytime he thinks about that he just end up talking to me like that I told him that everytime he remember that he should just talk to me and tell me that he can forget about that but not talk to me like that becuase he's making it seem like it was all my falt I tap kissed with my ex. He also told me that it will take him along time to be the same guy he use to be. do you thing he still loves me and want to fix our relationship or he just wants to stay thinking about what happens between my ex and me (link)
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if he reallys loves you and wants to fix the relationship he should be able to foget about it in less than a couple of weeks, but if he just keeps saying things to you then it's all up to you if you want to leave him. i can't really tell you what to do, but i can tell you that it wasn't your fault that you tapped kissed you ex because everyone makes mistakes, whether theer big or small or their forgiven or not.
I hope that i was helpful!
PS: like i said, he's not the only guy in the world, don't forget that.
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hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.
I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?
thank you (link)
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if really like this guy i think it would be better if you broke up with him, but not because he's being rude to you. but because you really care about him and if he always thinking about what you did then stop his pain and hurting by breaking up with him. also, another choice is to talk to him and tell him that you're really sorry for what you did and that if he doesn't want to trust you or forget what happend then tell him that you understand. don't forget that he isn't the only in this world.
I hope i was helpful!
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what are things you can do for a one year anniversay? (guy who is planning for a girl)
i need to know for my friend so please help asap (link)
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it depends if he's on a budget then get her something small, but still nice. if he's got the money then, take her out to eat or buy her a promise ring or necklace girls love that. nothing else that i can say, because again, it depends if the guy is cheap.
hope i was helpful!
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this boy i've been kind of flirting with for most of the school year. and he's been definitly flirting back! and on the last day of school our friends made this poser saying "go out already" and got the ENTIRE class to sign it! including the teacher. everyone thinks we're meant to be. and then today he i/med me saying that he has this g/f who i dont like, and like bragging. I couldn't believe it. and then he told me that he was gonna ask me out but then it didnt work our. and when i asked how it didnt work out he said he truly didnt know. im jealous and sad. he said it might work out later, and i said that idk because i dont want to be the second choice
and idk what to do.
thanks ♥
*jackie* (link)
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if hes got a gf and he brags about it, then tells you that he was going to ask you out but it didn't 'work out', he probaly still likes you but wants to make you jealous before he does ask you. if you don't want to be the second choice and don't really like him tell him. and then if you do like him, and still don't want to be second choice... its really up to you. i don't know what else to tell you because i'm not going to tell you to say yes or no, because it's not my choice or right to say that. just do what you think you want.
i hope that i was helpful!
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Hey... ok, this question is crazy so don't say I didn't warn you.
I think I'm looking for opinions more than advice... and I want to hear what you all think!!
Ok, I am a 20 year old female and I am about to start my third year of college. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for about 3 years. We actually went out for 2 years, then broke up for 8 months because I didn't want a relationship, and have now been back together for a few months. He is deffinitely the love of my life, and we intend on getting married in the future.
Why in the future and not now? Well, he recently joined the army and will be in it for the next 4 years. He is now stationed across the country and is going to Iraq for a year soon. He visits as much as he can, and we have no problems making the relationship work. We always talk about getting married in 4 years, because that is when he will get out of the army and I will be finishing up college.
So what is my question about? Well, we got to talking the other day, and the idea of us getting married NOW came up. The reason this even came up is because if we do it now, he will get payed twice as much for being married and in the military. Not only that, but I will also be able to get on his health insurance plan provided by the army. And lastly, the army would pay for my last four years of college... and because I am not eligible for financial aid, that would save us about 150,000 dollars in loans (after interest) once I am graduated.
If we get married now, there would be no ceremony since it's too last minute... he leaves for Iraq in 2 months. We would just sign the papers and be legally married. In your opinion, is this a mistake? Is it selfish or in bad taste? We both intend on getting married to each other, and we both love one another and have faith in the relationship. If we get married now, we intend on having a big ceremony in a year or two. What do you think? I mean if we are getting married anyway and love each other, shouldn't we just do it now and make our lives in the future easier?
All opinions are welcomed and appreciated! Thanks! :) (link)
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personally i think, that if you think that you're really going to want a short wedding, just sign the papers and get it over with. But, if you think that you can wait and want a big wedding and party with all of your friends and family go for it.
I hope that i was helpful!
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