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Q: Well I got jelous of my boyfriend getting these girls numbers and he said it was stupid and that hes never got jelous and its a sign of low self esteem. So we got into a fight I was like so what if I was jelous its not like you would matter or care if I was. He thought i said he did'nt matter. I have tried telling him that I meant it for something else but he won't bother he's like its over its nothing. What do I do? I still really wanna be with him.
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This is kind of a hard question. If this is a relationship that was strong with love, than he shouldnt be getting others phone numbers. Maybe he was finished with the relationship and it was his way of getting it to end. Maybe he knew that you would get upset about it. Maybe he wnated to brake it off with you and just did not want to be the bad guy. So he did that knowing it would upset you so it would result in a big fight and you guys would brake up. I dont really know but thats what it seems like to me. Its seems like it just turned around to be your fault. I would just move on, there is somone special for everyone out there. Goodluck hun
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Q: Okay, a while back I liked this guy named Max. I talked to him, found out he was a jerk, and tried to move on. I couldn't! I still like him to this day even though he barely knows I'm alive! I want to like other guys and forget about him, but I just can't! The other day I found out he liked this really dumb girl who is so plain and boring! He told me the other day what type of girls he likes and from what he said...it sounded so much like me it was scary! I told him the type of guys I like and he was all "Kool, sounds pretty much like me"...did I mention hes conceded too! I'm worrying about the dumb girl saying yes 2 him and I'd be all depressed n stuff! WHY DO I EVEN STILL LIKE HIM?! Okay, Im done! Plllleeeeasssse help me!
~ Can't get him outta my head ~
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I think you should just let it go. I would not worry about him there is other guys out there. Do you really want to be with a guy that is self centerd and conceted anyway, i meen really you probably wouldnt be happy in a relationship with him for long. And as far as the other girl, maybe he sees something in her that you dont see. I meen really your not a guy so you dont really know if she is boring and plain. So i would be yourself and let him go and be with that girl. They can be boring and plain together. You can go and be exciting and fun with your type of person. Dont sweat the small stuff, goodluck
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Q: ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love?
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Well, i have been seeing someone for 5 months now. And we still have not talked about all that. I do know that i am in love with him just dont want to ruin anything by telling him. I felt the same way but i thought maybe i should just stay with what we were doing now until i knew for sure. And i am still doing that. What i am trying to say is it could be love yes. I would just keep dating him and just go day by day so you know in your heart that is for sure. You need to probably learn more about him before you decide for sure. There could be some things you just cant get past about him. So just dont get your heart to into it right at this time. My opinion is it might be to soon to know. I hope this all makes some sence to you. Goodluck
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Q: well i need help becaus well i was going out with this guy and well i broke up with him for some stupid reason and he really like me well my friends told me that he was sad in his classes and kept telling everyone that i dump him but yesterday my friend ask my ex big brother wat my ex thought of me and he said nothing because he was going out with someone ever since after we broke and she asked him wat the girl name was and he said he didnt know should i belive that or do u think that is a lie to get back to me for braking up with him????????????
14/f/
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I dont believe you should even worry about it. You made the choice to brake up with him for your own reasons. So what he does now is what he does. I would just move on. Thats what i would do goodluck.
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Q: Ok i need help there is this girl in my school that i like but i am afraid to ask her out because we are really good friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship please help me out.
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Well, from my own expieriance, i will tell you this. I had a friend he was my best friend. We grew up together. I one day thought the same as you, so i told him how i felt. And he was shocked because he felt the same. So we dated we were together for 3 years then we made a big step. We got married, but we had already had our ups and downs. We got married anyway, we noticed in eachother that we were not the same friends as we were all those years before. be carefull
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Q: Ok i have been with my boyfriend five months this past saturday.And lately he has been making comments about his ex girlfriend from monticello.It seems he has been talking to her more lately and to tell you the truth i think something is going on cuz he ain't acting like his self.Frankly he hasn't been treatin me rite to begin with so what i need to no is if you people think he should stay or get goin!! Cuz i don't feel like playing games!!!!
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Kick him to the curb. Let the ex have him. You can do better. Goodluck
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Q: im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks
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My honest opinion is that, i belieave you are to young to be worring about all that you have all the years ahead of you, to worry about all that. Think about school for now. Really if you get into all that alot of times it leads to other things. So look at it as you are the smart one out of your friends. You may be a little hottie but at least you will be a hottie with a college degree later while they have had to stop going to highschool, to stay home and raise a baby, at a young age. You have your adult life to look forward to, so you can make plans later for all that stuff. So my advise to you don't do what your friends do. You set the example for them and maybe they will follow you, and better them selves. I say this also because i have a 13 year old, and people look up to her because she is prude and not because i threaten her but because that is what she chooses. She tells me she is going to have a future, and she will. So you think about it and i hope my answer in some way will help you with your disision. Goodluck kid
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Q: My boyf & I have been together 4 2 months ... yet he has a problem communicating his feelings openly and honestly. W e have both had a rough and not so nice upbrining, we have both been put down numerous times by our step-parent's.
Whenever he does it's because he has consumed alcohol and he has a tendensy to use unneccessary 'ugly' descriptions of what I am to him. For example he has called me 1 of the most dis-interested lover's he has ever had ... and then as always the next morning he is very sorry and asks for forgiveness ... it's the same old story over & over and it's getting too much 4 me to handle ...
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I was in a relationship like that not to long ago. After a year in a half i was done with him. He also drank and said not so nice things to me. Then the next day say im really sorry, i love you. Well the way i started to see it was if he really loved me he wouldn't have done it in the first place. And why say sorry for something you are going to continue to do. I know it will be hard for you because you probably love this guy alot, but you need to help your self and let him go. No one deserves to be treated that way. And do you really think he loves you as much as you love him. If he did he would not treat you that way. So, if you have ever herd the saying, if you love them let them go. My advise to you would be to do that. If you don't have respect for your self no one will, so really respect your self, you deserve better. Kick him to the curb. Goodluck.
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I am a single mother with 3 kids. I am in a relationship, that i hope will become a longterm thing. I am easy going, i am a very open minded person. I work for a living. And most of all i enjoy my family. I give good advise, but at times i need it more than i can give it.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: missouri Occupation: Assembler Age: 31 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 13 Last Update: January 29, 2005 Visitors: 1965
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