NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!!
looking at porn is something that all guys do either because they want to feel cool or because they want to see naked girls. you def. have a right to be mad at him i mean hello he lied to you! but thats really where you should draw the line is just being mad at him because thats really all you should be..this isnt like break up terms or anything just something alot of guys do and feel weird about telling their girlfriends
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I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
WOW! ok im sorry but you MARRIED her you didnt just date her for all these years but you MARRIED her you put a ring on her finger and said "for better or worse in SICKNESS and in health" so saying how you miss the touch of a woman is just so horrible, your wife died for minutes and just because she isnt yourself and just because you arent getting any ass from her .. which is exactly how you made it sound like all you wanted was ass not to make love to your wife but just a one night stand or a fuck partner .. this doesnt mean that you need to think of leaving her and the thought of an affair should NEVER i repeat NEVER of crosses your mind. Im sorry but you are a disgrace to all men out there, your wife is sick and all you can think about is how YOU arent getting ass from anyone?! that is so horrible seriously you need to re-think everything and if you never truly loved her then you are an idiot for staying with her. Why dont you ask you wife is she loves you or cares for you? because i may be 17 but i know the diffrence ive had the same boyfriend no cheating for 4 years now and the thought of cheating has NEVER crossed my ming and you are 41 and you STILL have the thought of having an AFFAIR not cheating on a girlfriend but having an AFFAIR on a WIFE that is horrible
if anything you need to go to church and talk to a pastor so he can tell you that ADULTRY IS A SIN AND YOU SWORE TO GOD WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED THAT YOU WOULD NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE AND YOU WOULD BE THERE IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH!
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