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ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we literally talk all day, unless like we leave to go somewhere, to eat, and stuff like that. he'll call me right when he wakes up, but i usually call him about an hour or 2 hours after i wake up. he went to his dads house and spent the night on wednesday and stayed there again last night. he probably goes there for like 2 nights every couple of months. there he has 3 step brothers. like 6, 11, and 17. i cant stand the 17 year old and i dont like the younger ones very much since i just dont like little kids. my boyfriend and i have been on the phone the longest at a time maybe an hour? when we are his brothers are talking to him and i cant stand being on the phone and listening to their conversation with somebody else. i count it has we havent really talked for 2 days since we really havent. yesterday i talked to him in the morning for like 30 min then he left for 5-6 hours =/ then he called and we were on the phone for 2 min and his little brothers were begging to jump on the trampoline and like 3 min later he was like can i call you after i eat? and i told him id just call him after i watch a movie. 2 hours later he calls and i was getting into bed. he was silent. 2 whole days u havent talked to me and your going to be silent when we have the chance? and he is never silent, lol he usually never shuts up. he'll wake up around like 8 and its 2 now, no call at all. i took a shower this morning and im all ready to go over to his house but he hasnt even called. we talked about seeing eachother today but it doesnt even seem like he wants to talk. i think he might just want to spend time with his brothers but literally, im like the first priority or whatever in his life. i always come first and he just doesnt seem like making an attempt to talk to me. does he still love me? sorry it was so long (link)
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are u stupid you r 14 yrs old. you are going to scare him off!!! YOU R 2 YOUNG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-THINKER TINKS-
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Okay, I like this guy. A lot. In fact, I think I'm in love with him. We talk and stuff, and he's really sweet, but he's still in that 6th grade-boyish phase. The one where he only hangs out with guys, has never had a girlfriend, doesn't hug girls, doesn't hang out with them on weekends, and the word "girlfriend" never crosses his mind. He's really goofy, not at all attractive, and gets in trouble a lot for being a smart ass in school, but I love him. I'm gonna hang out with him soon with some of my other friends, but I just don't know how to get him to like me. I'd be way more confident if he's had a previous girlfriend, or has hung out with girls before, or another girl was attracted to him, but technically, I'm the first official one, so it's going to be more difficult than it seems. I know he's in percussion, and he's a great singer, (but doesn't persue singing), and I sing too...but still, I'm not sure how I'm going to do this. For once, I'm at a brick wall and don't know how to climb over it. Help would be greatly appriciated. (link)
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one you can't make him love you. and two. this is puppy love trust me, in time you will know what true love is. but right now you should be friends first and then see were it goes
-TINKER TINK-
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I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)
Thanks! (link)
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its going to be blooded you should not be having sex right after your period. he could have popped your cherry. and your vagina will hurt the first time.
hope this helps
-TINKER TINK-
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ok so 1st.theres this guy whos liked me since well..forever.and i liked him since..hah..forever.and we were in love for like 3 years..but then we decided to take a break..and well i didn't like him anymore..but he is still in love with me and wil do anything to go ot with me again.but i don't no i kind of like him again, but sort of don't
2...theres another guy who i used to like.[like my x who i was in love with.we broke up about 2 years ago] and this new guy is just i don't no...ignoring me[we are friends.] and he said he used to like me.but he ignores me al the time.he never talks to me.
i don't know what to do about both of these guys..i really want to like my first love but hes sort of still imatre.and this other guy i want him to notice me as a friend again
please help (link)
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Take this from me I had a lot of boyfriend in the past some treated me like dirt and other try to hard. but know I'm getting married to my true love, all u need to do is play hard to get with the one that still loves you. and the other one just tread him like dirt.
BUT LISTEN JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
-TINKER TINK-
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I have been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We were friends for the past two years though. She went through this horrible breakup with her ex-boyfriend and a major debacle with one of her best friends. She says she loves me, but at times it is like I don't exist or even matter to her anymore. I try to be nice you know, but still she has to be mean to me. I admit I am to blame because I put "words in her mouth." Only because I don't know how she feels about me. I don't know what she thinks of me anymore. I feel unloved. That and she won't be "exclusive" with me. I know she believes it's something that can wait till marriage but it hurts. It really hurts inside at the fact that she went out with another guy. What kind of love is that? I love you but I am going out with so and so tonight. I don't know whether or not to think this love is real or even real to begin with. I just she told me the honest truth and stop leading me on and putting through this pain and misery. I know love is supposed to hurt but not like this. What should I do? (link)
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i would break up wiht her.....i know it will hurt, but it sounds to me that shes useing your....it's like what happened to one of my ex's. she cheated on me...but i got over it, and found someone i really love, and they really love me back...so dump her and find someone better, you seem like a nice person and you don't desever this
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what do guys like to hear from girls, get as gifts, places to go.. all that stuff.
What is one thing you wish everygirl would say to you, tell you, do for you, give to you.
this would help me and a lotta girlss out soo pleasee answerr and ill love you forever=) (link)
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well for me, when my girlfriend askes, i say, any thing, as long as it comes form the heart, you could also try and do things that he wants, go to places he likes.....in my life i have learned that any relsation ship based, on sex, and i don't mean only sex, just like you have sex aleast every time your together, it fails, if you base it on love, and juts spending time together than you should be fine, i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, and we never had sex, and it's not that i don't want sex, it's just she doesn't and i'm not going to force, so i can wait..if this helps out tell me ok
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