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ok, so i'm 15/f and i have never gone out on a date, been asked out, kissed, asked to dance, anything. I'm pretty -sort of, not extremely outgoing, but not totally shy either, i can be a bitch sometimes but overall i'm nice, i'm kinda crazy acting though, anyways I think my problem is confidence, i think that the only way anyone would ever like me is if i were amazingly beautiful and skinny, is this true? i think it's hurting my self-esteem because everytime i like someone i think, well they can't possibly like me back because i'm not as pretty as so-and-so.
what should i do? (link)
No, you dont have to be perfect for a guy to like you. You have to let them see the real you and eventually guys will realize how you really are and they will start liking you. Like you said it takes confidence :]


ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with? (link)
You should probably talk to your boyfriend about things and see if it gets better. Give it awhile and see if it works. If it doesnt then give your friend a chance and see if that works any better. Hope I helped :]


i met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we hit it of right away and i went to go see him and his a really nice guy and everything i dont know what to do im confused i like him really lots but i dont want myself to get to the point where im to attrated to him to much cause where i was hurt before
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you cant always be scared of getting hurt because then you might miss out on some good things. Just see how it goes between the two of you. Hang out alot and see if he is boyfriend material and see if he is looking for a relationship also.


why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of my crush and makes me cry so much hes a great guy but he didnt like me back do i really love/like him or just infatuation?
and when im around with my friends and when im sad but i pretend to be happy why?
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i think its because it either reminds you of memories or good times you had with that person. Also another reason would probably be because you want the perfect guy and when you hear the song it makes you think how he could or could have been perfect for you.




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