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Q: Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??

Should I really be this pissed?
I dont think you should be too upset. because boys are stubborn they need to learn things for themselves, and they wont listen to you even if you know what your saying is correct. If you really are very upset about this whole thing than i reccomend talking to him and be like well i asked to to have your frends get them in advance and you didnt listen to me.. maybe next time i ask you to do sometrhing for the better you will listen to me.. dont be mean about it just maybe even say it in a joking manner like your kidding.. but he will know that yeah he should listen to you next time.

Q: My boyfriend and I broke up almost 2 months ago. We went out for 2 and a half years (I am almost 21 and he is 22). I thought I was over him but I realized I still love him. He says he doesn't love me in a romantic way anymore, just as a friend (we are still best friends, the breakup was mutual). We had broken up because we argued alot, but never about anything serious. I realized now that I love him still and I want to get back together with him. We had something great (and we still do) and he even says it was the best two and a half years of his life. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone right now but nothing much has changed since we broke up (we hang out all the time and everything, we just aren't intimate). I want him back so badly because he makes me so happy, he can make me laugh when I am sad. I don't know what to do. I can't get over him (I don't want to either, I want to be with him again) because I love him so much and it hurts to think of him with someone else. What should I do? What do you think about the whole situation?
I'm very sorry that you guys had such a long relationship that ended so suddenly, its horrible when things like that happen. But i suggest that you tell him how you feel. If he doesnt know, how will he do anything about it? If he at least knows you still have strong feelings for him & you miss how things used to be, then he might think about it and see that he still has feelings for you too. Most people who have long relationships especially in your circumstances for 2 & a half years.. dont just get over someone that easy, i would bet that he still has some kind of feelings for you deep in his heart and you telling him that you still love him will make it easier for him to see that.

Q: hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep**
not so much.. you dont really know who the person is you are talking to.. it could be a 50 year old male child rapist.. if you know the person personally or a close trustworthy friend of yours has seen this person before and knows him, then he MAY be safer.. but if its just a random stranger who IMed you and you started liking and no one knows who he is.. then it is probably not safe.. and it also probably wont work.. because how do you go out with someone you never see, never talk to in person, never hang out with.. i would say just stay away from online relationships.

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