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Yesterday was my birthday, and i went over my boyfriend's house. He gave me a card and a braclet that i loved. Everything was going great until we started to get into a little fight about something stupid. I didn't know he would get so upset over it. He acted like everything was fine for the rest of the night. He told me that since i wasn't leaving for a while, he was going to pretend that everything was fine. We've been going out for almost 5 months now, and we broke up a few times during that. We get into the stupidest fights, say mean things to eachother, then come running back to eachother eventually. I hate breaking up, and i always get to upset over it. But i love when we get back together. I really love him more than basically anything. We both go threw stages of breaking up. I know all of his stages, he gets mad then breaks up with me, and then later on he calls acting like a moron saying all of these hateful words and things he doesn't mean. Pretending that he doesn't like me anymore. But then either a few hours, or days later, he calls me and says that he loves me and that hes sorry and stuff like that. Then we tell eachother nice things, and he wants to go back out with me. Right now, i am really upset over this and i was crying alot before. I talk to my mom about everything, she helps me through it all. But sometimes i just like to talk to people and get their advice. I hope everything works out. But i get so attatched to certain people. And it's so hard for me to get over them. So whoever is reading this, please help me with what i should do. Thank you so much.
Brooke
AGE - 15 (link)
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well brooke, he obvious loves you but doesn't belive that he reallly does. you guys might need a break. you guys probably don't brooke but remember i am her for you i love youu !! and he loves you so much. and he is coming back because he can't get enough of you !!
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Okay. I have hu before but for some werid reason I am scared to hu with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i hued with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!
and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out? (link)
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oh sorry we use it where i live. hook up, make out.
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Okay well my boyfriend is going through a really tough time right now... with things that are going on with work, baseball, and some of his friends. I am here for him all the time and we tell each other everything. But i want to make him really happy and see the smile back on his face... So you can you guys give me any ideas to make him smiling and happy again. I know he would really appreciate it. And please don't say anything sexual because we have done somethings but not sex, were not ready for that. I just want him to be happy and spend the day together him and me so he can be happy and smile... any ideas on things to do or to give him that would make him smile... I rate high thanks bunches :0) (link)
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well since he likes baseball maybe go to a game, or watch the game on tv tell him that you are so glad you are with him and that if he needs anything you are here for him. ask his friends what he has been wanting then try to get it for him. you really need to be there for him and that is going to mean a lot to him
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Hey people! Okey, I've gotten myself into a real mess..again. I'm such an idiot. See, this is the thing..I havn't seen my EXBF for about a year, and im gonna see him in like a week. A while ago i found out that he had a new GF and that she was coming with him to camp (where im gonna see him again) So i've been working really hard this week on making myself look great to impress him. And then i met this guy, who's also going to camp. So i thought (dumb as i am) why not get together with this guy to make him jealous or whatever, maybe just to show that im over him..
Now, this guy is a punk rocker..so to get him to like me i started acting like a punk rocker. And when he asked me if he could do my hair, i said : sure, why not?. Little did I know that by saying that i liked his haircut he was gonna do my hair just like his. So now i have no hair on the sides and spikes in the middle and i am totally and completely FREAKING OUT! I live with my older brother and im not gonna see my mom for about 3 more months so im not worried about her at the moment ( even though i should be ) ..
What im really worried about is seeing james in a week.. I've done everything to make myself look great, and now i look awful! Is there anything i can do? ive already tried looking for a hairpiece, but it loooks soo fake! HELP PLEASE! (link)
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is it woodware? is your name rebecca?
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i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me? (link)
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well is he is a jerk if he is going out with your friend and slept with you and that is making you a bad friend, sorry to tell you. Well he doesn't like you it seems like he is using you, I know I am being harsh but you wanted the truth. You shouldn't be running after him, you can flirt with him yeah, but don't go out and run after him or hit on him a lot.
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how can i make my crush like me enough to finally ask me out. cuz he does like me is just dat i dont feel any connection at all. but he tells all my friends he likes me so wat's up with dat ? (link)
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Guys can be shy you can flirt with him and things. But don't go out and ask him why don't you ask him out he may think you are obnious if you do that. If you really truely ask him out I did that and it was the best realtionship of my life.
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okay so here's what's been going on.. i've been with my boyfriend for a while and i don't think i've ever been so happy with anyone else. he's the reason i live life each day and the reason i'm so happy. well lately we have been having problems and wouldn't stop arguing, and we would argue over things that we shouldn't argue over. we argued over somethings that i didn't mean to do, like things that i do on accident. i didn't think it was fair but there was really nothing i could do. i've been hurt so bad, and i've also never been so sad in my entire life! i am so in love with him and i want to stay with him but sometimes i don't know what to do because i've been hurt so much! but when we are together and having a great time, then i totally forget the pain i went through. he makes me forget the pain and makes me happy again, he like heals my heart! we haven't argued for a couple of days and we have been really happy and i think it's really good.. but this morning he was acting kind of strange and i was just a little confused because i think it has to do with me but i have no idea what i did. can you help me out and give me advice because he is the greatest thing in my life and means so much to me and i seriously don't want to lose him, but i want to make things better. (link)
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Fighting is something every couple has to do one point in time. You should really sit him down and ask what is bothering him. And maybe make a pact if something is bothering you about each other to tell each other but you guys can't get mad
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I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well Ben seems like a much better choice if he talks to you and is sweet. Caleb isn't the greatest guy if he won't talk to you in fronmt of friends. If you go out with Caleb most likely you won't like him as much as you thought..
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